-Delile
Izithandani zishada ngothando, ngokwejwayelekile. Bathole abalingani babo bomphefumulo futhi bakulungele ukuchitha impilo yabo yonke bephila kamnandi njalo. Ekuqaleni komshado wabo, benza umshado wabo uze kuqala. Kodwa-ke, imibhangqwana eminingi iyakhohlwa ukuqhubeka nokubeka imishado yayo kuqala lapho isinezingane, futhi lokho kuholela emazingeni aphezulu ehlukaniso phakathi kwama-nesters angenalutho.
I-nest syndrome engenalutho
Ngokungazelelwe ngemuva kwamashumi amabili eminyaka, izingane sezihambile futhi awusakhumbuli ukuthi kungani nashadana kwasekuqaleni. Senihlala ndawonye futhi senikhohliwe ukuthi kwakunjani ukuba ngabalingani nabathandi.
Imibhangqwana eminingi ibika ukwehla okukhulu ekwanelisekeni kwabo emshadweni ngemuva kokuzalwa kwezingane zabo. Kungakho umshado kufanele uze ngaphambi kwezingane. Ukubeka oshade naye kuqala akulinciphisi uthando onalo ngezingane zakho. Kuyayithuthukisa, inqobo nje uma ukhombisa uthando nakubo.
Beka umshado wakho kuqala
Ukubeka umshado kuqala kungaba ngumqondo onzima ukusonga ikhanda, kepha kubalulekile empilweni yomshado. Ngokungenzi umshado ube yinto eza kuqala, imibhangqwana ijwayele ukungazinaki izidingo zomunye nomunye. Imizwa yentukuthelo ingaqala ukukhuphuka, yonakalise ikhwalithi yokuxhumana kwalezi zithandani.
Kuyimpikiswano ukuthi umshado kufanele ube yinto eza kuqala kuqala kunezingane zakho. Izidingo eziyisisekelo zezingane zibaluleke kakhulu futhi kufanele kuhlangatshezwane nazo. Ukungayinaki impilo yabo ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo nenhlalakahle akuyona nje eyokukhulisa izingane kabi kodwa futhi iyahlukumeza. Awudingi ukukhetha phakathi kokuba ngumzali okahle nozakwethu okahle. Ukuthola ibhalansi elungile kuyisihluthulelo.
Izinto ezincane
Ukwenza oshade naye azizwe ethandwa futhi ethandwa kungaba lula futhi kube mnandi. Yilezo zinto ezincane ezibalulekile futhi ezenza umlingani wakho azizwe njengeyona nto ebaluleke kakhulu kuqala.
- Yiba nothando: Hug, Kiss, Bamba Izandla
- Bingelelanani: Sanibonani futhi nisale kahle, sawubona nobusuku obuhle
- Thumela imicabango emnandi: “Ngiyakucabanga”, “Ngiyakuthanda”, “Angisakwazi ukulinda ukukubona emuva kwesikhathi”
- Nikeza: Nikeza isipho esincane noma ikhadi ngoba nje
- Sebenza njengethimba lamaphupho: Ukubambisana kwenza iphupho lisebenze
Ezothando
Ukugcina ezothando ziphila emshadweni kubalulekile. Ezothando zikhona lapho sihehwa futhi sinakekelana. Ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zothando lomlingani wakho kudinga ukuqonda umbono wabo. Ezothando yindlela yokubonisa oshade naye ukuthi zibaluleke kangakanani kuwe. Hlala wazi ukuthi ezothando azenzi nje ngokwenza uthando, zimayelana nokunikeza uthando.
- Qhubeka nezinsuku
- Ukudlala ngothando ngomunye nomunye
- Yiba ngumqalisi
- Bamangazane
- Cuddle
- Yibani nobunye ndawonye
Khumbula ukuthi ufuna ukuchitha impilo yakho yonke noshade naye, ngakho-ke umshado wakho ufanele ukunakwa nomzamo nsuku zonke. Ungazizwa unecala ngokwenza umshado wakho uze kuqala. Zikhumbuze ukuthi izingane zakho nazo ziyazuza empeleni. Ngokumodela ubudlelwano bomshado obunempilo, kubeka isisekelo sendlela abangakha ngayo izibopho zobudlelwano obunempilo. Isibonelo somshado ojabulisayo sisekela futhi sikhuthaze izingane ukuthi zizakhele ubudlelwano obuyimpumelelo.
Isikhathi sokuba nomshado ojabulisayo nse njalo, hhayi kuphela lapho izingane sezihambile ekhaya. Akukaze kwephuze kakhulu, noma kusheshe kakhulu ukubeka umshado wakho kuqala.