-Delile
- Dala isiko lakho
- Xoxani ngamaphupho nezinhloso
- Gcina uhlu lwazo zonke izikhathi ezinhle nempumelelo
- Xhumana njalo
- Dala ubuchwepheshe mahhala kusihlwa
- Bekela eceleni "isikhathi Me" noma isikhathi nabangani
Inguquko, ukuyekethisa, injabulo, ubunzima, ukukhathala, umsebenzi, okuthokozisayo, okucindezelayo, okunokuthula nokumangazayo ngamanye amagama asetshenzisiwe ukuchaza unyaka wokuqala womshado phakathi kwabangane bami nozakwethu.
Imibhangqwana eminingi eshadile ingavuma ukuthi unyaka wokuqala womshado ungaba kusuka enjabulweni nasenjabulweni kuye ekulungisweni nasekuguqukeni. Imindeni ehlanganisiwe, okokuqala imibhangqwana eshadile, imibhangqwana eshadile yangaphambili nomlando womndeni kungaba nomthelela omkhulu onyakeni wokuqala womshado. Umbhangqwana ngamunye uzothola isabelo sawo esihlukile sempumelelo nezithiyo.
Mina nomyeni wami sobabili siyizingane kuphela, asikaze sishade futhi asinazo izingane. Sisondela emkhosini wokugubha unyaka wethu wesibili womshado futhi sibonile isabelo sethu sezinguquko nesasasa. Amagama angithintile ekuchazeni unyaka wethu wokuqala emshadweni awokuxhumana, ukubekezela, ukuzidela nokulungiswa.
Noma ngabe uthandane iminyaka eminingana ngaphambi komshado noma nithandana isikhathi esifushane ngaphambi kokubopha ifindo likasofasilahlane; amathiphu alandelayo azokusiza ukuthi ulungise futhi ujabulele unyaka wokuqala ophumelelayo womshado.
Dala isiko lakho
Imikhuba yansuku zonke namaholide kuyizinto ezivamile eziye zafakwa kithina kusuka emindenini yethu. Uletha amasiko akho, amasiko, imikhuba, imvelaphi kanye nezinkolelo emndenini wakho omusha. Imvamisa, la masiko ayashayisana, okungaholela ezingxabanweni emshadweni wakho omusha. Qala isiko elisha emndenini wakho omusha. Esikhundleni sokuthi ukhethe ukuthi iyiphi indlu yomndeni ozoya kuyo ngamaholide; phatha umkhosi weholide nomndeni wakho omusha, hlela amaholide, ukuphumula ngempelasonto noma yimuphi omunye umsebenzi ozoqinisa isibopho nomlingani wakho omusha. Khumbula oshade naye uza kuqala futhi ungumndeni WAKHO.
Xoxani ngamaphupho nezinhloso
Ukuphupha nokuzibekela imigomo akupheli lapho ushada. Lesi yisiqalo njengoba manje usunomlingani ozohlala impilo yonke owabelana ngala maphupho nezifiso zakho. Yenza uhlelo lwezinhloso ofuna ukuzifeza ndawonye bese uzibhala ephepheni ukuze omunye nomunye aphendule. Uma kukhulunywa ngezinhloso ezifana nezingane kanye nezezimali, kubalulekile ukuthi ube ekhasini elilodwa. Xoxani ngamaphupho nezinhloso kusenesikhathi futhi kaningi.
Gcina uhlu lwazo zonke izikhathi ezinhle nempumelelo
Imvamisa izithiyo, ubunzima kanye nobunzima bempilo kungasibekela izikhathi ezinhle nempumelelo encane esiba nayo. Njengabashadikazi, nizoba nesabelo senu sobunzima nobunzima, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuthi nibungaze impumelelo, emikhulu noma emincane, noma nini lapho ithuba livela.
Mina nomyeni wami sisanda kuqala i- "Success Jar" lapho ngamunye wethu sibhala khona umzuzu omuhle noma impumelelo esiyithole njengabantu abashadile. Sihlela ukukhipha ucezu ngalunye lwephepha embizeni ekupheleni konyaka ukuze sibonge zonke izikhathi ezimnandi esibe nazo njengezithandani unyaka wonke. Futhi kungenye inkambiso enhle yokugubha usuku lwakho lomshado!
Xhumana njalo
Esinye sezipho ezinkulu ongasinikeza umuntu omthandayo ukuxhumana. Ukuxhumana njengezithandani; kukhona umlaleli oyedwa nomhlanganyeli oyedwa. Okubaluleke kakhulu, ngenkathi ulalele, khumbula ukuthi ulalele ukuqonda oshade naye kunokulalela ukuphendula. Ukuba nezingxoxo ezingathandeki, kodwa ezidingekayo kuzoqinisa isibopho sakho. Ngenkathi ukuxhumana kuqhubeka, kubalulekile ukuthi singagcini amagqubu, sihoxise uthando lwethu noma sijezise abalingani bethu ngokuthula. Khulumisanani kaningi, yekelani futhi ningalokothi nilale nicasukile omunye nomunye.
Dala ubuchwepheshe mahhala kusihlwa
Ku-imeyili ka-2017, imithombo yezokuxhumana nokuthumelelana imiyalezo kuye kwaba lapho kuxhumana khona, ngisho nabathandekayo. Kukangaki usubona izithandani ngobusuku busuku ngamakhanda azo angcwatshwe ezingcingweni? Izimpilo zethu zigcwele iziphazamiso futhi kaningi, ubuchwepheshe bungaba yisiphazamiso esikhulu noma isithiyo ekuxhumaneni. Zama ukuzibophezela kusihlwa esingu-1 ngeviki (noma ngabe kungamahora ambalwa) kungabikho buchwepheshe. Gxila kuphela komunye nomunye, thandanani ngempela futhi nigcine lowo mlilo uvutha.
Bekela eceleni "isikhathi Me" noma isikhathi nabangani
Nashintshana ngezifungo zomshado, “nimunye” futhi ..... ukugcina ubuwena nobuntu bakho kubalulekile emshadweni wakho. Ukunganaki ubuntu bethu noma ukulahlekelwa ubuwena emshadweni wethu kungaholela emizweni yokuzisola, ukulahlekelwa, intukuthelo, intukuthelo nokukhungatheka. Ukuhlela isikhathi ngokuhlukana nakho kusivumela ukuba sibazise kakhulu ubudlelwane futhi senze inhliziyo ikhule ithanda.
Awukho umshado ongenamaphutha ngisho nonyaka wokuqala “ojabule”. Khumbula, usuku ngalunye lwehlukile, umshado ngamunye wehlukile. Ngoba unyaka wakho wokuqala awugcwaliswanga ngamaholide, ama-roses nezipho ezibizayo akuwenzi ukuthi ubaluleke kangako. Lindela izinselelo ngonyaka wokuqala. Yamukela lezi zinselelo nezithiyo njengamathuba okukhula njengabantu abashadile. Unyaka wokuqala womshado ubeka isisekelo somshado oqinile, onothando nohlala njalo. Akunandaba noma yini eza ngendlela yakho khumbula ukuthi useqenjini elilodwa.