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Ukwakhiwa okusha kuza usuku ngalunye, futhi kuthinta imisebenzi eminingi efana namabhizinisi, imfundo, nokuthi abantu bahlangana kanjani. Lokho kusho, kunezindlela eziningi kakhulu ubuchwepheshe nobudlelwano obuhlobene. Isibonelo, ukusetshenziswa kwemithombo yezokuxhumana ukuxhuma abalingani.
Abantu bakholelwa ukuthi ubuchwepheshe nobudlelwano yibo obedlula bonke kusukela kusinkwa esisikiwe, kodwa ingabe lokho kuyiqiniso?
Le mpikiswano eshisayo ngoba abantu banemibono eyehlukene maqondana nalokhu.
Ukuqamba okusha njengokuthumela i-imeyili, ukuthumela imiyalezo, imithombo yezokuxhumana konke kuveziwe ukuze kuthuthukiswe indlela abantu abaxhumana ngayo. Eqinisweni, bekufanele benzele impilo yomuntu lula ukuze kungadingeki ukuthi bahambe bayohlangana ubuso nobuso.
Futhi, akumangazi ukuthi wonke umuntu, kusuka emindenini kuya kubangani angaxhumana nsuku zonke ngaphandle kokuhamba amahora amade. Akuyona into enhle leyo?
Ngokuthuthuka kobuchwepheshe, amasayithi wokuphola asezelwe, futhi manje, ungathola umdlalo wakho ophelele ngokusebenzisa lawo masayithi wokuphola. Kwazi bani? Ungashada ngemuva kokuba nithandane futhi nazana isikhathi eside.
Njengoba ubuchwepheshe benziwe lula impilo yakho, bungathinta nobudlelwano bakho ngezindlela eziningana.
Akuyona imfihlo ukuthi ubudlelwane obuningi buphukile ngenxa yentuthuko yezobuchwepheshe. Ngakho-ke, kungani ungazi ukuthi ubuchwepheshe bungabuthinta kanjani ubudlelwano bakho futhi bathathe izinyathelo zokuphepha kahle ngesikhathi?
Nazi izindlela ubuchwepheshe obungathinta ngazo ubudlelwano bakho
1. Ukusondelana
Akuyona imfihlo ukuthi ubudlelwano obuseduze bunezinselelo eziningi, futhi ubuchwepheshe abunakunakwa ngoba kungenye yezimbangela eziyinhloko zezingxabano ebudlelwaneni banamuhla.
Umbuzo uthi ubusebenzisa kanjani ubuchwepheshe?
Ngabe uyisebenzisa ngendlela engadala izinkinga phakathi kwakho nomlingani wakho? Ezimweni eziningi, indlela obusebenzisa ngayo ubuchwepheshe ingabuthinta ubuhlobo bakho noma ibangele nokuhlukana.
Abantu abangamaphesenti angamashumi amabili nanhlanu abasebudlelwaneni noma emshadweni kuthiwa baphazanyiswa ama-smartphones abo njengoba kubikwe yi-A 2014 Pew Research Center.
Lo mbiko ofanayo uveza ukuthi emaphesentini angama-25 emibhangqwana noma abalingani abebephazanyiswe omakhalekhukhwini, amaphesenti ayishumi aba nengxabano ngenxa yalokho.
Ngaphandle kwalokho, ucwaningo luveza ukuthi izimpikiswano zingadalwa ngenxa yokusebenzisa ubuchwepheshe njengokuthi uyisebenzisa nini iselula yakho noma ungayisebenzisi nini.
Ngokwengeziwe, ucwaningo luye lwathola nokuthi abasebenzisi abasebancane ababhekene nakho kokubili ukukhuphuka kwezinkinga kanye nobudlelwano obuthuthukisiwe nabalingani babo ngenxa yobuchwepheshe.
Ekugcineni, ubuchwepheshe buthinte indlela abalingani noma imibhangqwana ebenza ngayo ubuhlobo babo.
Isibonelo, abantu abadala abaningi manje sebethumelelana imiyalezo yocansi - bathumela imilayezo yozakwenu enokuqukethwe kwezocansi. Lokhu kukhuphukile kusukela ngonyaka ka-2012. Kuthiwa owesihlanu kozakwethu uthole imiyalezo enjalo equkethe okuqukethwe kwezocansi.
2. Ukuphazamiseka
Ngoba ubuchwepheshe buqukethe yonke into emisha, kungenzeka kukuphazamise. Ngemuva kwakho konke, ngubani ongeke afune ukwazi izitayela zakamuva? Wonke umuntu ufuna ukujwayela noma yini entsha.
Kungumbono ojwayelekile wokuthi omunye wabalingani wayehlale ephazanyiswa ama-smartphones abo noma ngabe abalingani babo babeseduze kwabo.
Iqiniso ongalazi ukuthi lawo mahora, noma ngabe abukeka emancane kangakanani, angangeza futhi athathe isikhathi sakho esiningi obungasisebenzisa nomlingani wakho.
Okudabukisayo ukuthi ukusetshenziswa kwama-smartphones kuyanda futhi kuyaphazamisa imibhangqwana eminingi engakwazi ukuba nesikhathi sayo nomunye.
Esikhathini esedlule, bekuthathwa njengokulutha nje. Namuhla, kuya ngokuya kuba usongo ebudlelwaneni bakho. Ezimweni eziningi, abancane yibo abangena kulolu gibe.
Into engcono kakhulu ongayenza ukunciphisa ukusetshenziswa kwefoni yakho. Ungacabangi ukuthi i-inthanethi noma imithombo yezokuxhumana iyisixazululo sakho konke.
Ngaphambi kokuba uqaphele, ngeke wazi ukuthi kudla isikhathi sakho esingakanani nokuthi lokho kungaba yingozi kangakanani ebudlelwaneni bakho.
3. Ukucindezeleka
Inselelo enkulu ubuchwepheshe obungayibangela empilweni yakho ukudangala. Kutholakale ukuthi kunokuthambekela okuphezulu kokucindezeleka kubantu abasha ngocwaningo olwenziwe yi-University of Pittsburgh.
Ezimweni eziningi, abantu abadala abasebasha yibona abazithatha njengabo uqobo, ikakhulukazi uma benenhliziyo ebuhlungu.
Zonke izizathu ezingenhla ziwubufakazi bokuthi ubuchwepheshe nobudlelwano abunakuhambisana. Ngakho-ke, ngicela uzilinganisele ekusebenziseni okokusebenza kobuchwepheshe, ikakhulukazi uma unesikhathi nomlingani wakho.