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- 1. Hlela usuku lokumangala embhedeni
- 2. Ningahleli nje nabela umsebenzi wesikole ocansini
- 3. Gqoka ngaphandle kwesizathu
- 4. Shintsha ama-antics ocansi
- 5. Dala umbukiso oyingozi
- 6. Imivimbo emangazayo emangazayo
- 7. Iba uphudingi
- 8. Zenze omunye umuntu
Ungajabulela ukubukeka uthukile, kulandele ukujabula kumlingani wakho noma ubuso bomlingani wakho lapho uqala isimanga esimnandi kwezocansi. Ungahle uthande umuzwa wokulawula nokuqondisa impilo yakho yezocansi lapho ufuna ukuqondisa khona impilo yakho yezocansi. Noma kungenzeka ukuthi awukaze uhlole isimanga kwezocansi kodwa ungakatholi ukuthi kwanelisa kanjani ngokumangazayo ukufafazwa kwezimanga kwezocansi kungaba empilweni yakho yezocansi.
Noma ngabe yiluphi uhlangothi lothango okulo oshade naye noma umlingani wakho uzothanda lezi zimanga kwezocansi ezibalwe ngezansi - okumangazayo ocansini ongaqala ngokushesha khona lapho.
Lungela isenzo esithile esimnandi nesisabekayo.
1. Hlela usuku lokumangala embhedeni
Usuku olumangazayo embhedeni nomlingani wakho noma oshade naye alugcini nje ngokuphumula nokucindezela, kepha futhi lumnandi ngoba lumemeza ucansi, ukusondelana nokuphumula. Kuyindlela ecashile yokumangaza owakwakho futhi ubazise ukuthi ucansi lusemakhadini namuhla.
Nazi izinto ezimbalwa okufanele uzicabangele uma uhlela usuku embhedeni:
Qiniseka ukuthi umlingani wakho noma oshade naye usula usuku lwabo kuqala ngokuzibekisa, awufuni ukudumazeka lapho kufanele bashiye phakathi beya kumhlangano wezinwele noma isiphuzo noBaba wabo!
Nikeza ukudla, amathoyizi, nomculo, izidingo (i-ahem) nokuzijabulisa kanye nokunye ongakudinga. Ngale ndlela ungakwazi ukukhempa embhedeni, ube nakho konke okudingayo futhi ungalokothi uhambe. Yum.
Ungakhohlwa ukugeza yize kunjalo, ngakho-ke lokhu kungahle kube sobala, kepha uma kwenzeka ungasinaki lesi sici esibaluleke kakhulu sinqume ukusifaka - wamukelekile!
2. Ningahleli nje nabela umsebenzi wesikole ocansini
Umsebenzi wesikole ocansini ungenye yezimanga ocansini okuzodingeka uzilandele - njengomfundisi omuhle.
Heck, ungagqoka ngisho nokuba uthisha we-sexy njengengxenye yesimanga se-sexy futhi uma ufuna ukusisebenzisa kahle lesi simo.
Ukwabela umsebenzi wesikole ocansi, yenza umlingani wakho noma owakwakho azi ukuthi uya ocansini engqondweni futhi ikakhulukazi ucansi nabo (kunjalo). Bazothola nomqondo wokuthi bakumnandi lapho bebuyela ekhaya - ikakhulukazi uma beqedela umsebenzi wabo wesikole, njengomfundi ophumelelayo.
Imuphi umsebenzi wesikole okufanele ukwabele? Nayi eminye imibono yokuqalisa;
- Bathumele umqhafazo bese ucela ukufaka kuhlu izindawo ezinhlanu abangathanda ukuzenza uthando.
- Benze babhale izindawo eziyishumi abangathanda ukuqabulwa kuzo.
- Nikeza umsebenzi wesikole waseNgilandi bese ubenza bachaze ngokuningiliziwe iphupho elilodwa.
- Kuthiwani ngomlando othile futhi ubenze babhale i-eseyi mayelana nokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo kwezocansi okungakulibaleki nawe.
- Thuthukisa ubuhlakani babo ngokucela inganekwane ethile engcolile okufaka wena nomlingani wakho njengabalingiswa abakhulu.
Ungahlala ulandela lokhu kumangala kwezocansi ngokumangala okwengeziwe kwe-sexy bese wenza umsebenzi wesikole.
3. Gqoka ngaphandle kwesizathu
Mlande emsebenzini engenalutho ngaphandle kwengubo yomsele. Ijazi lomsele lingahle limangaze ucansi, kepha yilokho azokuthokozela, impela. Ukwehluleka lokho, gqoka izingubo zakho ezishisayo bese uphakela isidlo sakusihlwa bonke begqoke ngaphandle kwesizathu - vele wenze isiqiniseko sokuthi ugu lucacile kuwe ukuze ukujabulele ukuxhumana okungenakugwemeka ngokocansi ngemuva kwalokho.
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Uma uyindoda efuna ukwenza isimanga kwezocansi kowesifazane wakho, kungani ungagqoki umfaniswano bese uqala umdlalo wokulingisa.
4. Shintsha ama-antics ocansi
Ngokungahleliwe, ngaphandle kwesixwayiso, khipha igiya lobugqila!
Vele, ungaxoxisana ngamazinga okubamba iqhaza ngaphambi kokuthi ubambeke kunoma yini ongahle ungazizwa ukhululekile ngayo, kepha umhlathi womlingani wakho ungahle uwe phansi lapho ukhipha ikhithi yobugqila - ikakhulukazi uma kungeyona into oyenzile sebezame ndawonye.
5. Dala umbukiso oyingozi
Thola indlela yokudala yokukhanyisa umlingani wakho noma oshade naye ngezikhathi ezithile ngesikhathi lapho kungafaneleki ukuthi;
- Ngaphambi nje kokuba kudliwe isidlo sakusihlwa emcimbini noma endaweni yokudlela
- Ngaphambi kokuba niphume nihlanganyele ndawonye ngento ejwayelekile njengokuthenga ezitolo, kusihlwa kwabazali, noma ngisho nasekudleni kwabazali bakho.
Umbukiso we-peep ukumangala okukodwa kwezocansi okungangabazeki ukuthi kuzoholela ekuhlanganeni okunothando ngokushesha lapho nobabili senikhululekile ukubeka izandla komunye nomunye.
6. Imivimbo emangazayo emangazayo
Uma kungafanele ngokuphelele, qala ukushaya umlingani wakho kuzo zonke izindawo okungafanele ukuthi uzenze. Uma besocingweni bekhuluma nomphathi noma uMama wabo, bezama ukugxila kokuthize, noma ngomzuzu ohlwithiwe ngenkathi bephume nabangane.
Ukuhlangana kwe-sexy kuzomangaza umlingani wakho noma oshade naye futhi kuzoqala okuthile okumangazayo lapho bakhululekile ezibophweni zabo.
7. Iba uphudingi
Kungani ungaziphakeli njenge-dessert ngemuva kokuphekela oshade naye ukudla. Mane umnikeze ubhavu wopende womzimba ushokoledi bese uwaholela egumbini lokulala ngophudingi - noma ngokushaqeka okwengeziwe kubekwe etafuleni elilungele ukugcinwa.
8. Zenze omunye umuntu
Uma ungahlala kumlingiswa lokhu kumangala kwezocansi kuyisenzo esimnandi sokulingisa.
Konke okudingeka ukwenze ukuzenza omunye umuntu, nokuthi owakwakho wenza ucansi ongalwazi. Ungakhohlwa ukushintsha izindlela zakho zokuya ocansini ukuze zihluke kulokho ojwayele ukukwenza. Lapho ningena kakhudlwana kumlingiswa futhi umlingiswa ehlukahluka ngokwengeziwe kumuntu ojwayelekile, kuzokwethusa kakhulu futhi kujabulise lokhu kumangala kwezocansi kuzoba nobabili.