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Halala! Uthe yebo kulowo omthanda kakhulu, futhi manje uhlela umshado wamaphupho akho! Wena nomlingani wakho wesikhathi esizayo nizochitha izinyanga ezimbalwa ezizayo ukulungiselela esinye sezenzakalo ezibaluleke kakhulu empilweni yakho (futhi ngethemba lokuba neholide langemuva langemuva komshado!). Yize kulula ukubambeka ekuhleleni nasezikhundleni, ungakhohlwa ingxenye ebaluleke kakhulu yosuku oluhle kakhulu empilweni yakho. Yebo, izimbali, ukugqoka, indawo, umusa, idina, nomculo konke kubalulekile. Kepha "usuku oluhamba phambili" ngamahora angamashumi amabili nane kuphela omcimbi. Umshado wakho, ngakolunye uhlangothi, ungunaphakade. Sethemba ukuthi lolu suku olulodwa luyoba yilokho okulindele ukuthi lube yikho, kepha ungalahleki ekuhlelweni bese ukhohlwa ukulungisa inhliziyo nengqondo yakho ukuthi yini ebaluleke kakhulu: ukuhamba impilo yakho yonke eceleni kwalowo omthandayo.
Indlovukazi edansayo
Njengomakoti ozoba khona, kunezinguquko eziningi ezintsha nezijabulisayo ezizokwenzeka. Ngeke nje ube ngumnakekeli womuzi manje, kodwa futhi uzoba yingxenye yophiko. Indima yakho “njengendlovukazi yokudansa” kuzoba ukukusiza wena noshade naye nishintshele empilweni yesinyathelo esisheshayo. Njengombhangqwana kuzofanele nifunde ukudansa komunye nomunye ku-duet yohlobo oluthile. Kuzodingeka ngamunye azi izinyathelo zomunye kepha ukwazi ukuxhumanisa lezo zinyathelo kumdanso obushelelezi futhi oketshezi. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, noma kunjalo, uzobe usafuna ukuba kubantu abenza ama-solo akho. Lokhu akuyona into embi ngempela. Ngemuva kwakho konke, ubudlelwano obuqinile nobunempilo buhilela abantu ababili abazimele abazibophezele ekubeni yunithi elilodwa elisebenza ndawonye. Kuzoba yinselele ukuyithatha, kepha iyodwa okuthi uma usufundile ifane nokugibela ibhayisikili. Kuzovele kuzivelele.
Nika uthathe
Umshado umayelana nokunikeza nokuthatha izilinganiso ezilinganayo. Kumfazi, lokhu kuvame ukuthi kusho ukuthi ukupha kwethu kuza ngohlobo lokudla, ukuwashwa, ukunakwa nokusondelana ngokomzimba. Ukunikela kwethu akugcini kulezi zinto, kepha lezi yizona ezifunwa njalo kakhulu. Ngokuphindaphindiwe, uzonakwa nesikhathi, kokubili nowakwakho nangaphandle. Ezinye zezikhathi ezinkulu kakhulu zokuba yinkosikazi kuzoba yilezo lapho uwedwa futhi ujabulela ukuba wedwa nokuthula kokubambisana. Umshado ophilile kufanele ungabi nakungabaza noma wecala lapho omunye noma bobabili abantu bekhetha ukuchitha isikhathi bengekho komunye. Lesi sikhathi esihlukanisiwe akufanele sidlule isikhathi ndawonye, kepha umuntu ngamunye kufanele azizwe ekhululekile ukubamba iqhaza ezintweni ezingaphandle komshado.
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Izifiso hhayi amathini
Kuyiphutha elikhulu ukulindela impendulo esheshayo uma ubuza oshade naye umbuzo othi 'can' kunokuba ubuze umbuzo othi 'intando'. Umbuzo othi 'can' umbuzo ongabuza kuwo ukuthi kukhona yini angakwenza. Ngokusobala, uma ubuza, banamandla ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo okwenza kanjalo. Esikhundleni sokushiyela ithuba, cacisa isicelo sakho usebenzisa isitatimende esithi ‘intando’ kunesitatimende esithi ‘can’. Lolu shintsho olulula olimini alunakuthuthukisa ikhono lakho lokuxhumana nowakwakho kuphela, kepha lungashintsha nokuthi izicelo zakho zamukelwa kanjani. Esikhundleni sokuzizwa uphoqelekile noma kudingeka enze okuthile, umlingani angahle azizwe sengathi unikezwe ukukhetha ... Noma ngabe lokho akunjalo ngempela!
Intombazane isenkingeni
Njengowesifazane, kungenzeka ukuthi uchithe isikhathi esiningi sempilo yakho uzimele futhi uzimisele ukuzinakekela. Njengonkosikazi, manje usuzoba nabantu ababili noma ngaphezulu ozobanakekela (kuya ngokuthi ukhetha ukuba nezingane noma cha). Lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele ube ngowesifazane ovelele (yize kahle kakhulu mhlawumbe). Esikhundleni salokho, lokhu kukunikeza ithuba lokudlala i- intombazane isosizini. Kungenzeka kube nesikhathi ebudlelwaneni bakho lapho uzizwa ukhukhulwa yizinyawo ngumyeni wakho. Kungani ungavumeli lowo muzwa uqhubeke ngokunikeza oshade naye ithuba lokuba ngumvikeli wakho? Yebo, njengowesifazane oqinile, ozimele, uyakwazi impela ukuphatha lezo zinto wedwa. Kepha kungabenzela okuhle ubudlelwano bakho ukwenza umkhuba wokuvumela oshade naye ukuthi adlale indima yeNkosana esindisayo njalo ngezikhathi ezithile.
Iseluleko esihle kakhulu somakoti sokuhlela umshado asewusebenzise iminyaka awuphupha, silula: bheka phambili esikhathini esizayo kunokugxilisa wonke amandla akho ngosuku olulodwa. Umshado wakho uhlala isikhathi esifushane, kodwa umshado wakho ungowokuphila konke.