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- 1. Shiya eceleni ukuziqhenya futhi wenze ukuthobeka
- 2. Sebenzela ukuthola ukuthethelelwa nokuthethelela oshade naye
- 3. Khonzanani ngothando
Umshado ngamunye uzohlangabezana nobunzima phakathi nobude bawo bonke. Ukholo lombhangqwana kuKristu olubenza bakwazi ukuhlala bezibophezele komunye nomunye emshadweni ophumelelayo. Ngeshwa, ubufakazi obunamandla buveza ukuthi amazinga ehlukaniso obuKristu asezingeni eliphakeme noma aphezulu kunemibhangqwana engazihlanganisi nenkolo ethile.
Umshado uyisivumelwano esingcwele phakathi kwabantu ababili noNkulunkulu, impumelelo yomshado imvamisa incike ebudlelwaneni obusondelene bomuntu ngamunye noKristu. Imvamisa ubudlelwano bethu noNkulunkulu bufanekiswa njengomshado, isonto kubhekiselwa kulo njengomakoti kaKristu.
Enye yezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu emshadweni ophumelelayo ukwakha isibopho esiqinile. Ukuze wakhe isibopho esingenakwephuka nomlingani wakho kumele uqale wenze njalo noKristu. Ubudlelwano balowo muntu noKristu kanye nezwi likaNkulunkulu kuzoqondisa futhi kufundise imibhangqwana ukuthi isingatha kanjani izingxabano nezinye izimo ezinzima ezizokuvela nakanjani. Izikhiye zobudlelwano obuyimpumelelo ukubuka izindaba ngeso leBhayibheli, futhi uxazulule izinkinga ngendlela engaphambuki okholweni lwakho.
Oshade naye ungumuntu ongaphelele ongenza izinto engahlosile ezizokucasula futhi zikudumaze. Ungabuza ukuthi kungani ukuzibophezela kwakho kuKristu kuyinto esemqoka emshadweni ophumelelayo. Kungenxa yokuthi ukuzibophezela kwakho kuKristu kukusiza ukuba uvumelane nesimo Sakhe. Ukuvumelanisa nobuntu bakhe kukusiza ukuthi ubonise isihe nothando olwengeziwe koshade naye.
Ngokwengeziwe, kukusiza ukuthi uthethelele ngokwengeziwe, ube nomusa futhi uhlakaniphe ngokwengeziwe. Abantu abazibophezele kuKristu basebenza ngokuzimisela ukufaka izimfanelo zikaMoya oNgcwele.
KwabaseGalathiya 5: 22-23 kuthi “22 Kepha izithelo zikaMoya ziluthando, nokujabula, nokuthula, nokubekezela, nobubele, nobuhle, nokukholeka, nobumnene, nokuzithiba. Akukho mthetho omelene nezinto ezinjalo. ”
Kubalulekile ukubonisa lezi zimpawu nsuku zonke. Badinga ukukhonjiswa ikakhulukazi lapho uhlangabezana nobudlelwano bakho buba nzima ngokwengeziwe. Izikhathi eziningi lapho uxabana nozakwethu osuvele ulwa lokho kukhulisa isimo kuphela.
NgokweBhayibheli, umusa ukhonjisiwe ekunciphiseni intukuthelo, kusho izAga 15: 1 “Impendulo emnene iyabuyisa ulaka, kepha izwi elibuhlungu livusa ulaka”.
Umshado uyithuba lokwakha isimilo. Ukwakha isimilo kubalulekile kuNkulunkulu futhi kuzobalulekile nakowakwakho. Ukuvuselela ingqondo yakho njalo ngosuku ngezwi lakhe kuzoqinisekisa ukuthi uhlamvu lwakho luzoqhubeka lukwakha. Kuzoba esinye isinyathelo esiya emshadweni ophumelelayo
Ukuzibophezela kuKristu nokuzibophezela koshade naye kudinga ukwenza imisebenzi efanayo nsuku zonke.
Kunemigomo yomshado emithathu eseBhayibhelini yomshado ophumelelayo okudingeka izithandani ziyilandele ebudlelwaneni bazo ukuze ukukhula kwenzeke ebudlelwaneni babo noNkulunkulu nakomunye nomunye.
1. Shiya eceleni ukuziqhenya futhi wenze ukuthobeka
Ukuziqhenya kubhidliza indwangu yomshado ngokususa ubuhlobo obuseduze. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuziqhenya kufiphalisa izingqondo zethu ngokusinika umbono okhohlisayo ngathi. Ukuba nombono wokuzikhohlisa kungashintsha kabi indlela esiphatha ngayo oshade naye noma izinqumo.
Imishado enempilo isebenza esimweni sokuthobeka. Ukuvuma lapho wenze iphutha akuvumeli nje kuphela ukusebenzisa ukuthobeka, futhi kukuvumela ukuba ube sengozini nozakwenu. Ukuba sengozini kungakhulisa ukusondelana ngokomzwelo emshadweni okukuqinisa ngokwengeziwe. Ukuba sengozini nokuthobeka kubalulekile emshadweni ophumelelayo.
2. Sebenzela ukuthola ukuthethelelwa nokuthethelela oshade naye
Yize kungaba nzima kubalulekile ukuxolela oshade naye, kwabase-Efesu 4:32 kuthi “Yibani nomusa komunye nomunye, ninobubele benhliziyo, nithethelelane, njengoba noNkulunkulu anithethelela ngoKristu”.
Intethelelo efanayo uNkulunkulu asikhombise yona kumele siyibonise kozakwethu ngomshado ophumelelayo. Ngokudlulisa ukulimala okwedlule ubudlelwano buyakwazi ukusebenza ezingeni labo elilungile. Ukubambelela ebuhlungwini besikhathi esedlule kungadala ukuthi sifukamele intukuthelo engazibonakalisa ekuziphatheni okungalungile. Lokhu kuziphatha kungaba nomthelela omubi emshadweni wethu.
3. Khonzanani ngothando
Umshado ungcono kakhulu lapho abantu benesimo sokusebenza, ukusebenzela umlingani wakho kuqinisa umshado ngokuvumela umlingani wakho ukuthi azizwe ethandwa futhi ethandwa. Lapho umbhangqwana oshadile ukhula ebuhlotsheni bawo noNkulunkulu kulapho bethola khona ukuthi ukholo lwabo luyisibopho sokubopha esidingekayo ekwakheni umshado ongaxegi ophumelelayo.