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Ukugcina ezothando ziphila!
Uma ucabanga ‘ngokugcina ezothando ziphila,’ cabanga ngokuphana nangokuzimisela.
Kungenzeka ukuthi uya kulo noma ushiya ukuphana nokuzimisela ebudlelwaneni bakho. Ngabe uzimisele ngani empilweni yakho yansuku zonke? Ingabe unesandla esivulekile noma unobugovu? Ngabe wenza ngamabomu futhi wenza ukuthandana nokusondelana ebudlelwaneni bakho kube yinto ephambili?
Ukuze ugcine ezothando ziphila, ufuna ukuba 'ngamabomu.'
Yabelana ngamabomu uthando lwakho, isikhathi sakho, nezinsiza zakho ukusekela umlingani wakho kukho konke abakwenzayo. Bona ubudlelwano bakho ngelensi yamehlo omlingani wakho nothando olungenamibandela.
Uma usebenzisa ukuphana emoyeni inhliziyo yakho iyalandela.
Ubeka intshisekelo yomunye umuntu phambili futhi ubenze babe phambili emhlabeni wakho.
Ungakusebenzisa kanjani lokhu ebudlelwaneni bakho? Ngabe ubeka umlingani wakho u-1 kukho konke okwenzayo, noma ngabe bangaphansi kohlu lwezimfuno eziningi onazo kuwe nsuku zonke?
Ngikhathele kakhulu angisenalutho engingalunikeza, yilokho engikuzwayo emibhangqwaneni eminingi ekululekeni ngokobudlelwano.
Ubulili? Ngubani onamandla alokho? Asikakwenzi lokho kusukela nini, hmmm, sekuphele izinyanga eziyi-10 noma, ngakho-ke ngicabanga. Hhayi uphawu oluhle.
Ingabe unobugovu, noma ingabe unikela ngokukhululekile nangokuzimisela wena nesikhathi sakho nozwela?
Bheka futhi: Umshado udinga malini uthando.
Nawa amathiphu angama-35 okugcina ezothando zikhona -
1) I-Flattery - ukuncoma okukodwa ngosuku. Yabelana ngengikuthandile kakhulu okwenze namuhla
2) Khetha ukuthandana nsuku zonke
3) Shiyelani amanothi othando ezibukweni ezinezimpawu zengilazi, kumanothi anamathelayo, nemiyalezo ebhaliwe, emotweni yomlingani wakho, isikhwama, ipotimende, idilowa, noma iyiphi indawo ongacabanga ngayo ukuletha ukumamatheka ebusweni bomlingani wakho
4) Ngeza ukuthandana esimisweni sakho ngokwakha isikhathi esikhethekile sodwa usuku ngalunye. Kungaba yimizuzu engu-5 ngaphambi kokuthi uvuke nemizuzu engu-5 ngaphambi kokuba ulale ugxile komunye nomunye kuphela
I-5) Yakha ucansi esimisweni sakho ukuze usondelane, uxhume, ujabule, ubonise uthando. Abanye bacabanga ukuthi ucansi kumele lubandakanye amasiko noma lube ngumlingo ngaso sonke isikhathi, kepha ludinga ukuxhuma ngandlela thile empeleni. Kwenze isisekelo sakho sasekhaya
6) Ukudlala ngothando futhi ukhumbule ukuthi indaba yakho yothando ibiyini nsuku zonke. Yini okuhehe komunye nomunye, nokuthi kuzwakale kanjani ukubona lokho kubuka, lokho kubukeka, okuthintayo nokuphinda wenze lezo zikhathi.
7) Uma umyeni noma unkosikazi wakho enqunu engena eshaweni, ucabangani-
- Uhlala eshiya izingubo zakhe phansi.
- Akawashiyi amanzi ashisayo.
- S / Uyashisa! - Azikho ezinye izinto ezibalulekile!
- Ngifisa sengathi bangashesha kungenjalo sizobambezeleka.
8) Yiba nobusuku bosuku lwamasonto onke, uyihlele, bese unamathela kuyo. Yiba nenhloso futhi uvikele leso sikhathi. Uma udinga ukuhambisa isikhathi, hlela kabusha; musa ukukuqhumisa “njengokuzithandela
9) I-Picnic ne-movie noma i-binge-watch umbukiso we-TV nobabili eniwukhethayo ekhaya
I-10) Yenza isidlo ndawonye futhi ube nayo ngaphandle noma ngokukhanyisa amakhandlela
11) Mthinte ngocingo kanye / noma umbhalele imiyalezo emini ukuze umazise ukuthi ucabanga ngaye, uyafuna, ubathande, ubabonge, ubazise
12) Thatha uhambo olwandle, ubambane izandla, futhi ukhulume ngothando lwakho kuphela. Buza: Ngenzani kahle ebudlelwaneni bethu? Yiziphi izinto engizenzayo ezikuthokozisayo?
13) Thathani umdlalo wokuzilibazisa omusha ndawonye noma zibophezele ukwenza umdlalo wokuzilibazisa nomlingani wakho abathanda ukukhombisa ukuthi unakekela kangakanani
14) Hlela usuku lokuthi "wenze."
15) Yiba nosuku lokudla kwasekuseni ekuseni / ngeholide ngempelasonto
16) Thatha iholide lasekhaya elincane. Vala amadivayisi, vala izimpumputhe futhi nilale ndawonye bese upheka ama-pancake, amaqanda, ubhekeni, futhi ube nama-strawberry kanye ne-whip cream ne-Champagne ngesidlo sasekuseni endaweni ekhethwe ngokukhethekile
17) Fundani incwadi ndawonye lapho nishayela. Funda ngokuzwakalayo kumlingani wakho bese wabelana ngemicabango ngakho endleleni
18) Bhaka amakhukhi uwahlobise
19) Kuyashintshana ukumangaza njalo ngenyanga ngokushayisana okukhethekile kosuku lwasebusuku ukupheka ukudla komunye okuthandayo
20) Ubenosuku olunengcindezi? Yishiye ngemuva uye ku-ayisikhilimu, wabelane nge-sundae, noma i-ayisikhilimu. Uzizwa ungcono vele?
21) Bukela amahlaya bese uhleka ndawonye!
22) Uma unabangane nengane (futhi unengane), setha ukushintshana ngokugcina izingane ukuze ube nobusuku mahhala
23) Ngomntwana noma izingane, yiba nobusuku emadolobheni ekhaya ngo-8: 00 ngemuva kokuba izingane sezilale. Noma ulethe umzanyana ovela endaweni yangakini umenze abe nengane yakhe ekhaya futhi unakekele inkambiso yasebusuku njengoba uphumile uzivalele egumbini lakho lokulala ubusuku bosuku
24) I-Dessert Ngobusuku bokuqala .... zijabulele ukuba ne-dessert oyikhonzile kuqala ngobusuku obubodwa bese udla isidlo sakusihlwa kamuva
25) Uzizwa ungaxhunyiwe kangako? Thinta impendulo. Ukubhucungwa unyawo noma isandla, ukubhucungwa intamo, ukubhucungwa emuva, bese ushintsha. Ukubuyisela kuyisihluthulelo
26) Yehlisa! Dedela konke okwedlule nanoma yini eyenziwe umlingani wakho. Qala okusha, khona manje. Qala ukwenza izinkumbulo ezintsha. Zitholele omunye nomunye futhi. Ngemuva kwakho konke, ukuthandana kwakho nowesifazane / indoda entsha, emangalisayo, yasendle. Zivumele ubekhona ngokugcwele ezinsukwini zakho
27) Yiba nentshisekelo! Akusekho okukhononda okuncane esihlathini, izingalo ezincane zamahlombe, noma uthando olubuthakathaka. Okungenani kanye ngosuku, niqabulane njengoba niqonde ngempela. Uma nigonana, qinisekisanani ukuthi nigonisana ngokugcwele, namanzi, futhi nigcwele umzimba wonke (ukuqina noma ukugonana ngezikhathi akusabali). Lapho umlingani wakho ethi love ya, yeka lokhu okwenzayo, uhambe, ubabheke emehlweni, bese uthi, nami ngiyakuthanda. Ngisho, ngiyakuthanda ngempela! Jabulela imizwa lokhu okukuvusayo
28) Qaphela omunye nomunye njengabantu. Ini? Lapho umlingani wakho efika ekhaya, yima umzuzu, ubamukele ekhaya. Noma yimuphi kini ofika ekhaya kuqala, kwazise ukuba khona komunye umuntu ngothando
29) Hlela Phambili. Ngaphambi kwezingane, ungaphuma nosuku noma nini lapho ufuna noma uhlale ubusuku bonke uxoxa nengane, kuthatha ukuhlela okuningi kusengaphambili ukwenza noma yikuphi kwalokho, kepha kusengenziwa!
30) Yiba umngane omkhulu womunye nomunye. Iba namahlaya angaphakathi, uqhekeke izingcaphuno zama-movie omunye nomunye, makabe ngumuntu wokuqala ofuna ukukhuluma naye lapho unezindaba ezimnandi, izindaba ezimbi, noma inhlebo enamanzi
31) Zinakekele. Uyakhumbula lapho uqala ukuthandana? Uhlale uzama ukubukeka nokwenza okusemandleni akho. Ukuheheka ekubukekeni komzimba ngokuvamile kuyinto yokuqala esidonsela ndawonye. Kulula ukukhululeka futhi ukhohlwe lokhu njengoba siba mnandi. Inhlanzeko eyisisekelo ezingutsheni ezinhle nezimonyo isisekelo sokusondelana
32) Yabelana ngekhodi eyimfihlo. Khetha igama elingavela ngezikhathi ezithile engxoxweni (ukushisa, phakathi kwamabili, igumbi lokulala, ukhilimu ophehliwe ...) futhi uvume ukuthi ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho umuntu elisebenzisa, kufanele uthinte - noma yini kusuka ekuqabukeni kuye ekushayekeni kwethanga okuqhubekayo ngaphansi kwetafula
33) Shintsha amashidi wenze umbhede uphakame njengehhotela eliyingqayizivele elinoshokholethi emqamelweni.
34) Gcina umnyango wegumbi lokulala ukhiyiwe futhi ufundise izingane indlela yokwazisa nokuhlonipha isikhathi sangasese nemingcele
35) Gcina uthando luphila ngokwakha, futhi NGIYAWUTHANDA, futhi NGIFUNA ukuthi nizitshengisele ukuze nikwazi ukudlala ngothando nabo endaweni enabantu abaningi!