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- Setha izindinganiso zokuziphatha
- Yiba yisibonelo esihle
- Fundisa kokubili ukwabelana nokuhlonipha
- Nikeza wonke umuntu ubumfihlo
- Bekela eceleni isikhathi sokubambisana
- Musa ukuphoqa izinto
Umbango wezelamani ungadala ubutha ngisho emindenini ehlelwe kahle kakhulu.
Njengoba izingane zikhula futhi zifunde ngazo nangendawo yazo emhlabeni, inani elithile lombango wezelamani kulindelekile.
Ukuzama ukugcina ukuthula lapho izingane zilwa kuyinselelo abazali abaningi bezingane ezingaphezu kweyodwa okufanele babhekane nayo kwesinye isikhathi.
Uma unezingane zokutholwa, amathuba okubangisana kwezelamani nomona phakathi kwezelamani uyanda.
Ubudlelwano bezelamani ingaba nesiyaluyalu kakhulu futhi ijwayele ukukhombisa okuningi isimilo esinolaka ngoba ukubeka izingane ezingazani ndawonye ngaphansi kophahla olulodwa kungasheshe kuholele ekulweni.
Ngeza eqinisweni lokuthi izingane zakho zokutholwa zizama ukuzivumelanisa nokwehlukana kwabazali bazo, nezingane zakho azikuthandi ukuhlanganyela nawe nezingane zakubo, futhi unendlela yokulwa.
Kungenzeka yini ukuthi izingane zakubo zizwane?
Impela yebo, kepha kuthatha isikhathi, ukuzibophezela, ukubekezela, nemingcele emihle evela kubo bobabili abazali. Nawa amanye amathiphu wokukusiza ukuba ulamule phakathi kwezingane zakubo futhi wakhe impilo yomndeni enokuthula.
Setha izindinganiso zokuziphatha
Ukusiza izingane zakho zokutholwa ukuthi zizwane nomndeni, kufanele uhlale phansi nomlingani wakho nivumelane ngezindinganiso zokuziphatha okulindele kuzo zonke izingane nentsha ekhaya lakho.
Pela imithetho eyisisekelo kusuka kokusobala (kungashaywana) kuye kokucashile (zimisele ukwabelana ngezinto zomphakathi ezifana ne-TV, noma isikhathi nomzali ngamunye).
Lapho usuyibekile imithetho oyibekile, xhumana nezingane zakho kanye nezingane zakho zokutholwa.
Nquma ukuthi uzophendula kanjani kokwephulwa komthetho - uzophuca amalungelo wefoni noma we-TV, ngokwesibonelo. Yiba ongaguquguquki nolungile ekusebenziseni imithetho yakho emisha kuwo wonke umuntu.
Yiba yisibonelo esihle
Ungazwana kanjani nezingane zokutholwa? Ungaqala ngokulwela ukuba yisibonelo sabo.
Izingane zakho kanye nezingane zakho zokutholwa zikhetha okuningi kusukela ekubhekeni wena nomlingani wakho, ngakho-ke qiniseka ukuthi ubeka isibonelo esihle.
Khuluma nabo futhi nikhulume ngenhlonipho nangomusa, noma ngabe izinto zishubile. Bavumele bakubone uphatha izingxabano ngomusa nangomuzwa oqinile wobulungiswa.
Babonise ukuthi balalela kanjani futhi babacabangele, ngokulalela nangokubacabangela kanye nomlingani wakho.
Uma unamaphakathi noma intsha endlini, zama ukubangenisa ebhodini ngalokhu. Izingane ezindala zingenza izibonelo ezinhle, futhi izingane zakho ezincane kakhulu amathuba okulingisa izingane zakwabo kunabazali bazo.
Fundisa kokubili ukwabelana nokuhlonipha
Izelamani zakithi eziphikisana njalo zingaba ngenxa yekhono lazo lokwabelana nokuhloniphana. Ukuntuleka kwenhlonipho kungaguqula izingane zakho zibe izingane zakini ezizondanayo.
Ukufundisa izingane ukwabelana kahle kubalulekile, kepha ukufundisa inhlonipho ngezinto zomunye nomunye kubalulekile.
Ngesikhathi senqubo yokuhlanganisa umndeni, womabili la maqoqo wezingane azozizwa sengathi indlela yawo yokuphila ejwayelekile iyasuswa kubo.
Ukusetshenziswa kwezinto zabo, ukubolekwa, noma ngisho ukwephulwa yizingane zakubo ezizokwengeza kulomqondo wokungabi namandla.
Kubalulekile ukuthi izingane zakho zidlale okuhle futhi zabelane ngezinto zomphakathi ezifana ne-TV, imishini yokudlala ngaphandle, noma imidlalo yebhodi lomndeni, ukuze zifunde ukwabelana nengane yakubo entsha.
Ungacabanga ukusetha amashejuli uma ingane eyodwa izwa ukuthi ingane yakubo ithola okuthile okuningi kakhulu.
Kodwa-ke, kubalulekile futhi ukufundisa izingane zakubo ukuthi zihloniphe izinto zomunye nomunye, nokuthi kunezinto ezithile abavunyelwe ukuzithatha.
Khombisa izingane zakho nezingane zakho zokutholwa ukuthi uyazihlonipha izinto zabo nokuthi ulindele ukuthi nabo benze okufanayo.
Buka futhi:
Nikeza wonke umuntu ubumfihlo
Izingane, ikakhulukazi izingane ezindala nentsha, zidinga ubumfihlo.
Izingane ezisemindenini ehlangene zizwa sengathi indawo yazo nobumfihlo ziyathathwa kubo, ikakhulukazi uma bezuze njengefa abafowabo abancane abafuna ukubalandela!
Qiniseka ukuthi zonke izingane zakini azitholi ubumfihlo lapho zidinga khona. Lokhu kungaba yisikhathi sodwa egumbini labo, noma uma bengenawo amagumbi ahlukene, kungaba yisikhathi esibekelwe eceleni emgodini noma etafuleni lokudlela lezinto zokuzilibazisa.
Mhlawumbe isikhathi esithile ngaphandle noma ukuya epaki noma enxanxatheleni yezitolo nomzali wabo ongokoqobo kuzoba yinto nje. Sekela zonke izingane emndenini wakho ukuthi zibe nesikhathi sazo nesikhathi lapho bezidinga khona - uzokonga ukucindezeleka okukhulu nentukuthelo.
Bekela eceleni isikhathi sokubambisana
Uma ufuna izingane zakubo ezizelwe emndenini wakho zibambane, qiniseka ukuthi ubeka eceleni isikhathi esithile somndeni lapho bezokwazi ukuhlangana khona kanye nawe.
Isibonelo, ungazama ukubeka eceleni isikhathi sokudla somndeni esijwayelekile lapho wonke umuntu engahlala phansi azungeze itafula akhulume ngokwenzeke kubo ngalolo suku.
Noma ungaqoka usuku lwasebhishi lwamasonto onke noma ubusuku bomdlalo lapho wonke umuntu engahlangana ukuze ajabule.
Ukubekela eceleni isikhathi semisebenzi yobumnandi kusiza ukuqinisa umbono wokuthi izingane zakwethu ezingabazali zingabadlali abasha abadlalwayo nomuntu ongaba nezinkumbulo ezimnandi naye. Khumbula ukunikela ngokuphatha nesikhathi esimnandi ngokulinganayo, ngakho-ke akekho ozizwa eshiywe ngaphandle.
Musa ukuphoqa izinto
Ukuzama ukuphoqa izingane zakubo ukuba zizwane kuzobuyela emuva.
Isikhathi esikhuthazayo ndawonye kubalulekile, kepha vumela wonke umuntu isikhala sakhe, futhi. Izingane zakho kanye nezingane ozizalayo zingase zikwazi ukufunda ukuba nobuntu futhi zichithe isikhathi esincane ndawonye kodwa ngeke zibe abangane abakhulu, futhi lokho kulungile.
Nikeza wonke umuntu ukuthi anikeze isikhathi nendawo yakhe futhi avumele ubudlelwano bukhule ngokwemvelo. Musa ukunamathela emcabangweni wokuthi izingane zakho zizwane ngokumangalisayo. Isivumelwano esinenhlonipho sisebenza kakhulu kunokulindela ukuthi babe ngabangane abakhulu.
Ukusiza izingane zakubo ukuthi zizwane akuyona into elula. Hlanganisa ukubekezela kwakho, usethe imingcele emihle, futhi uphathe ngenhlonipho nangomusa bonke abantu abasha abasemndenini wakho osanda kuhlanganiswa.