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- 1.Qiniseka ukuthi uthathe isinqumo esifanele
- 2. Yima esinqumweni sakho ngaphandle kokuntengantenga
- 3. Cabanga ngobuhlobo bakho besikhathi esizayo ukuthi uzoba nesithandwa sakho sangaphambili
- 4. Ucwaningo
- 5. Hlela ukuthi uzozidlulisa kanjani izindaba
- 6. Lungiselela ukuhlaselwa ngokomzwelo
- 7. Lawula isehlukaniso sakho
- 8. Gwema ubudlelwano obusha phakathi nenqubo yesehlukaniso
- 9. Hlola izimali zakho
- 10. Hlela ukuqasha umlamuli
Noma ngabe ucabanga ukuhlukanisa wedwa okwamanje futhi kusamele utshele oshade naye izinhloso zakho uma oshade naye ekululeke ukuthi bafuna isehlukaniso noma wena nomlingani wakho seninqume ukuthi kwanele ngokwanele kuningi ongakwenzela i-pre yakho ukulungiswa kwesehlukaniso.
Eminye imisebenzi izokwenza impilo yakho ibe lula, eminye izokuvikela, kanti eminye izokusiza ukuthi uqhubekele phambili ngokuzayo.
1.Qiniseka ukuthi uthathe isinqumo esifanele
Qiniseka ukuthi uthathe isinqumo esifanele nokuthi uqinisekile nge-100% ukuthi isehlukaniso yilokho okufunayo.
Uma ungenasiqiniseko esingu-100%, cabanga ukuxoxa ngezinkinga zakho zomshado nomlingani wakho bese ucabanga nokuya kokwelulekwa emshadweni ukukusiza uziqinisekise ukuthi wenza isinqumo esifanele. Ungaqhubeka nokulungiselela kwakho ngaphambi kwesehlukaniso uma kungenzeka.
2. Yima esinqumweni sakho ngaphandle kokuntengantenga
Ibhola ligingqika, ungenzi izinto zibe nzima kuwe noma oshade naye ngokubuyela ezikhathini zokungabaza. Ziphathe kahle wena noshade naye futhi nime esinqumweni sakho noma ngabe izinto ziba nzima.
3. Cabanga ngobuhlobo bakho besikhathi esizayo ukuthi uzoba nesithandwa sakho sangaphambili
Hlala ugxile kumphumela wakho ohlosiwe futhi uqiniseke ukuthi kwenzeka okungenani ngokombono wakho.
4. Ucwaningo
Zinike isikhathi sokulalela ama-akhawunti wedivosi evela kwabanye, futhi izeluleko zangaphambi kwedivosi ziwusizo ekulungiseleleni ngaphambi kwesehlukaniso uma ungathola umuntu ongakhuluma naye oke waba khona. Ukuze ube nomuntu okwazi ukuxhumana nawe kwinethiwekhi yakho yokuxhasa njengoba isehlukaniso singena.
5. Hlela ukuthi uzozidlulisa kanjani izindaba
Uma oshade naye engazi ngezinhloso zakho, thatha isikhathi ukuhlela ukuthi uzoxoxa kanjani ngezinhloso zakho zesehlukaniso.
Zama ukukwenza ngomoya ophansi nangobungcweti, uma ubona sengathi oshade naye angaba sengozini ngemuva kwezindaba, qiniseka ukuthi unenombolo yokuxhumana yomuntu osondelene naye ongamcela ukuthi eze.
Futhi, pakisha isikhwama sakho bese unikela ngokuhlala kude nasekhaya njengoba becubungula izindaba. Qiniseka ukuthi unendawo ongahlala kuyo uma udinga ukushiya ikhaya lomndeni ngokushesha.
Uma wesaba oshade naye, noma nganoma yiziphi izingane funa izeluleko zobuchwepheshe zokuthi ungaphatha kanjani le ngxenye yokulungiselela ngaphambi kwesehlukaniso.
6. Lungiselela ukuhlaselwa ngokomzwelo
Isehlukaniso noma ngabe kuyinjongo yakho kuzokuthwala. Qiniseka ukuthi uhlelela lokho, yazisa umndeni wakho nabangane ukuthi ubhekene nani.
Yenza izinhlelo zokuvakashela abangani bakho nomndeni wakho njalo noma ngabe kuyihora nje.
Hlela ukunakekela izidingo zakho eziyisisekelo; isisekelo esivikelekile, imfudumalo, ukudla, inhlanzeko hlala ugxile esimisweni sokuthi noma uzizwa ungathandi ukuzenza. Uzojabula ngokuthi ukwenzile.
Khumbula ukuqhubeka uqhubeka. Indlela yokuphuma ukuqhubeka nokusebenza ngayo. Lokhu nakho kuzodlula, ngakho-ke ngisho nasezinsukwini zakho ezimnyama kakhulu namathela enkambisweni yakho bese uzikhumbuze ukuthi ngeke kuhlale kunje. Gwema noma yiluphi uhlobo 'lokuzelapha'.
7. Lawula isehlukaniso sakho
Kulula ukufuna ukukhasa ngaphansi kwetshe uma usezinsukwini ezimnyama kakhulu zesehlukaniso, kepha lokhu kungumsebenzi owodwa wokulungiselela ngaphambi kwesehlukaniso ongawusebenzisa ukukusiza ngawo. Ungavumeli izinto zithathe impilo yazo, qiniseka ukuthi ufaka ama-I bese uwela o-T.
Thatha izeluleko kubantu abakuzungezile kodwa wenze izinqumo zakho, uma wenza lokhu isehlukaniso sakho singaba nokuthula okukhulu, futhi singaphela ngokushesha okukhulu kunalokho ebesingakwenza ngenye indlela!
Zama ukuqala ifayili lesehlukaniso futhi uqiniseke ukuthi ufaka wonke amaphepha, imibuzo nemicabango kufayela lakho lesehlukaniso. Leyo yindlela eqinisekile yomlilo yokukugcina ugxile ezinhlosweni zakho futhi ikuqondise ngisho nalapho abeluleki bakho bekucindezela ukuthi ufune okwengeziwe.
8. Gwema ubudlelwano obusha phakathi nenqubo yesehlukaniso
Kwezinye izifundazwe ubudlelwano phakathi komshado (i-AKA ngaphambi kokuqedwa kwesahlukaniso sakho) bungadala izinkinga ezinkulu enkambisweni yesehlukaniso esemthethweni. Eqinisweni, kwezinye izifundazwe, ukuxhumana kwakho kungasetshenziswa ngokumelene nawe.
Njengengxenye yohlelo lwakho lokulungiselela ngaphambi kwesehlukaniso ukuhlala ungashadile.
Sebenzisa leso sikhathi ukuzakha kabusha nempilo yakho yomphakathi, ukuze kuthi lapho usukhululekile, lapho-ke ube sendaweni efanelekile ukujabulela ubudlelwano obuhle futhi.
9. Hlola izimali zakho
Kuningi okufanele ukwenze lapha okufana nalokhu:
- Hlela izindaba zakho zezimali ngendlela efanele.
- Qonda isikweletu sakho somndeni nezindleko zakho zasekhaya.
- Thola ukuthi kuzobiza malini umndeni wakho ukuhlala emakhaya amabili ahlukene.
- Impahla yakho ibe nenani.
- Qiniseka ukuthi uyazi ukuthi iyini impahla yakho ebaluleke kakhulu - izogcina imicabango ngesikhathi senqubo.
- Uma ufuna ukuthenga okukhulu yenza lokho ngaphambi kokuqala inqubo yesehlukaniso (njengoba izimpahla zivame ukuba yiqhwa).
- Lungiselela isabelomali semindeni emibili.
- Hlela izindleko zezingane - qiniseka ukuthi izinhlelo zakho zinobungcweti futhi ziyiqiniso emindenini yomibili.
- Qaphela izimali ezilethwe emshadweni nokuthi uzithuthukise kangakanani ezimalini zakho ngesikhathi somshado.
- Qiniseka ukuthi uvikela amadokhumende afakazela lokho okulethile emshadweni.
- Hlukanisa impilo yakho yezezimali yesikhathi esizayo nomlingani wakho.
- Gcina imali - ungahle uyidinge.
- Buyekeza i-will yakho.
10. Hlela ukuqasha umlamuli
Abalamuli behlisa kakhulu izindleko zesahlukaniso benza kube lula izivumelwano enizenze ndawonye. Ngakho-ke uma ukwazi ukusebenza nomlingani wakho ukuze nibe nokuhleleka okuhle kwezezimali, khona-ke uzokonga imali.