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- Izingane zinamalungelo, iziphathimandla, amandla, nenkululeko njengabantu abadala
- Umthetho wesithupha iziphathimandla ziza nemithwalo yemfanelo elinganayo
- Abazali kufanele banqume imingcele yengane yabo
- Ukuvumela izingane inkululeko yokuziveza
- Vumela izingane ziveze imizwa yazo
- Ingane ngayinye ihlakaniphile emhlabeni wayo
“Siyakhathazeka ngokuthi ingane izoba yini kusasa, kodwa siyakhohlwa ukuthi ingumuntu namuhla” - uStacia Tauscher.
Inkululeko yokukhuluma ichazwa 'njengelungelo lokuveza imibono nemibono yomuntu ngokukhululeka ngenkulumo, ukubhala nezinye izindlela zokuxhumana kepha ngaphandle kokulimaza ngamabomu isimilo sabanye kanye / noma idumela ngesitatimende esingamanga noma esilahlekisayo.'
Izingane zinamalungelo, iziphathimandla, amandla, nenkululeko njengabantu abadala
Banamalungelo ayisisekelo afana nalawa: - inkululeko yokukhuluma, ukukhuluma, ukuhamba, ukucabanga, ukwazi, ukukhetha ukuxhumana, inkolo nelungelo lempilo yangasese.
Banelungelo lokubeka imibono yabo, babelane ngemibono yabo, babuke imibono yabo futhi banikeze iziphakamiso ezingahluka kunabazali babo.
Banelungelo lokwaziswa, bazi ukuthi kwenzekani emhlabeni wonke, ukufinyelela kulwazi oluwusizo kubo. Bangabelana ngemibono yabo nganoma yisiphi isihloko noma isihloko.
UStuart Mill, isazi sefilosofi esidumile saseBrithani wathi inkululeko yokukhuluma (ebizwa nangokuthi inkululeko yokukhuluma) ibalulekile ngoba umphakathi abantu abahlala kuwo unelungelo lokuzwa imibono yabantu.
Akubalulekile nje ngoba wonke umuntu kufanele abe nelungelo lokuziveza yena (engikholwa ukuthi kukhona nezingane). Ngisho neMithetho ehlukahlukene kaZwelonke neyeZwe iyayisekela inkululeko yokuveza imibono.
Ngokwe-Article 13 yeCRIN (Child Rights International Network), “Ingane izoba nelungelo lenkululeko yokukhuluma; leli lungelo lizobandakanya inkululeko yokufuna, ukwamukela kanye nokudlulisa imininingwane nemibono yazo zonke izinhlobo, kungakhathalekile imingcele, kungaba ngomlomo, ngokubhala noma ngokuprinta, ngendlela yobuciko, noma nganoma iyiphi enye imithombo yezindaba ekhethwa yingane ”.
- Ukusetshenziswa kwaleli lungelo kungaba ngaphansi kwemikhawulo ethile, kepha lokhu kuzoba kuphela njengokuhlinzekwa ngumthetho futhi kuyadingeka:
- Ngokuhlonipha amalungelo noma udumo lwabanye; noma
- Ngokuvikela ukuphepha kwezwe noma ukuhleleka komphakathi (ukuhleleka komphakathi), noma impilo yomphakathi noma isimilo.
Ingxenye yokuqala ye-Article 13 iphakamisa ilungelo lezingane ‘lokufuna, ukwamukela nokunikeza ulwazi nemibono yazo zonke izinhlobo’, ngezinhlobo ezahlukahlukene nangasemingceleni.
Ingxenye yesibili ikhawula imikhawulo engabekwa kuleli lungelo. Kungukuveza imizwa nemibono yabo lapho izingane zikwazi ukuchaza izindlela amalungelo azo ahlonishwa noma aphulwa ngazo futhi afunda ukumela amalungelo abanye.
Ngaphezu kwalokhu, i-Article 19 yeSimemezelo Somhlaba Wonke Samalungelo Abantu ichaza kabanzi izingane ngeNgqungquthela Yezizwe Ezihlangene Yezamalungelo Engane, iyalela ilungelo lengane ngayinye lokubamba iqhaza kuzo zonke izindaba ezibathintayo. Kuzosiza futhi ukufunda nokuqonda kabanzi ngobumfihlo bezingane online nenkululeko yokukhuluma.
Umthetho wesithupha iziphathimandla ziza nemithwalo yemfanelo elinganayo
Inkululeko yokukhuluma yezingane ibalulekile kepha kubalulekile ukufundisa izingane zethu ukuthi lapho zijabulela la malungelo zibophezelekile ukuthwala umthwalo wamalungelo abanye wokungavumelani nawo.
Noma ungavumelani, kufanele balalele futhi bahloniphe imibono yabanye.
Inkululeko yokukhuluma ibandakanya nokuba nolwazi lokuthi ungabambiqhaza nini. Isb.
Okwesibili, ngokubanika inkululeko yokukhuluma, ungaphenduki umzali we-laissez-faire onikeza isandla sakho mahhala enganeni yakho. Ngisho ukuthi ngibavumele baziveze, bafunde okulungile nokungafanele ngabo ngaphandle kokumiswa noma ukujeziswa.
Abazali kufanele banqume imingcele yengane yabo
Inkululeko yokukhuluma ifana nokuzethemba. Lapho beyisebenzisa ngokwengeziwe, iba namandla ngokwengeziwe.
Ukusinda emhlabeni wokuma ngokuncintisana, ukudlula umncintiswano futhi uthole inzuzo nikeza ingane yakho ithuluzi elibukhali - inkululeko yokugomela.
Vumela ingane yakho ikhulume ngokukhululekile lokho ekujabulisayo (noma ngabe ucabanga ukuthi ayiphutha) futhi uyifundise ukuzwa okushiwo abanye (noma ngabe bacabanga ukuthi abanye noma abalungile). Njengoba kushiwo nguGeorge Washington ukuthi uma inkululeko yokukhuluma ithathwa bese siyisimungulu futhi sithule singaholwa, njengezimvu ekuhlatshweni.
Ukuvumela izingane inkululeko yokuziveza
"Izingane zithola konke kungenalutho, amadoda awatholi lutho kukho konke" - UGiacomo Leopardi.
Ngesikhathi sokuphumula lapho ngicela indodakazi yami eneminyaka emihlanu ukuba idwebe futhi ifake umbala ezincwadini zayo, uyangibuka sengathi bengimcele ukuthi ahlanganyele u-ayisikhilimu wakhe ayithandayo noma ahlanze indlu yonke.
Uma ngimphoqa wayegcina ngokuthi, “Mama, kuyadina”. Nginesiqiniseko sokuthi abaningi benu bazoyazi. Abazali abaningana bacabanga ukuthi ubuhlakani yithalente elizalwe ngumntwana okungenzeka analo noma cha!
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ucwaningo (yebo, ngihlala ngigxila kakhulu ekuhlolweni okwenziwa izifundo ezahlukahlukene njengoba kufakazelwe) kuveza ukuthi imicabango yengane iyabasiza bakwazi ukubhekana kangcono nobuhlungu.
Vumela izingane ziveze imizwa yazo
Ubuciko babo bubasiza nokuba bazethembe ngokwengeziwe, bathuthukise amakhono abo okuxhumana nabantu futhi babasize bafunde kangcono. Ubuqambi buchazwa njengekhono lomuntu lokwakha imiqondo emisha noma imibono, okuholela ezixazululweni zoqobo. Nginesiqiniseko sokuthi sonke sizovumelana no-Einstein ukuthi ukucabanga kubaluleke kakhulu kunolwazi.
Isichazamazwi seWebster sichaza ukucabanga ngokuthi, “ikhono lokwenza isithombe engqondweni yakho sento ongayibonanga noma ongakaze uyibone; ikhono lokucabanga ngezinto ezintsha ”.
Ingane ngayinye ihlakaniphile emhlabeni wayo
Ukuqonda ilungelo lezingane lenkululeko kusiza ekukhuleni okuphelele kwezingane.
Kungumsebenzi wethu njengomzali ukukhulisa iso lengqondo yengane yethu futhi sijabulele ukwahlulela nokulingwa kwabo.
- Khetha isikhala endlini yakho lapho bangenza khona ubuciko. Ngesikhala angisho ukubakhela indawo yokudlala yasendlini noma igumbi lokudala labo. Ngisho nengxenye encane noma ikona elincane KULUNGILE!
- Banikeze zonke izinsiza / izinto abazidingayo ukuze benze umsebenzi wokudala. Vele wenze amalungiselelo ezinto eziyisisekelo ezifana nepeni / ipensela lapho bengadlala khona imidlalo ehlukahlukene yamaphepha noma amakhadi, bakhe imibhoshongo yeCassel, amabhlogo, izinti zokufanisa nezinqaba.
- Banikeze okokuhlobisa okufanele iminyaka yobudala, izinkezo, amatshevu amathoyizi, isokisi, amabhola, amaribhoni bese ubacela ukuthi bahlele isikethi. Ungabasiza uma bancane kepha ungabasizi kakhulu.
- Noma bengenzi njengokulindela kwakho ungabathethisi noma ubasole ngokumosha kuvela noma ezinye izinto. Banikeze ithuba lokuziveza kangcono.
- Iminyuziyamu yasendaweni, imibukiso, imikhosi yamasiko kanye nemicimbi yamahhala yomphakathi kuyizindlela ezinhle zokuthuthukisa ukwanda kobuciko nobuhlakani.
- Ngokuphindaphindiwe, ngingahle ngiphakamise ukuthi wehlise isikhathi sesikrini.