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Yay, uyashada! Manje yisikhathi esijabulisa kakhulu nesiphithizelayo esigcwele amaphupho nezinhlelo zekusasa. Njengamanje, ungangcwatshwa ohlwini lokuhlola ngaphambi komshado wezinto ukulungiselela umshado.
Ukuhlela umshado kuyinselele. Kuningi kakhulu okumele kwenziwe; ufuna konke kuphelele futhi awukwazi ukulinda kuze kufike usuku.
Ukugxila ekuhleleni umshado omangalisayo nakanjani kuyinto eza kuqala, kepha ungakhohlwa ngohlu lwakho lokuhlola ukulungiswa komshado noma uhlu lokuhlola lwangaphambi komshado. Ukuhlela umshado yilokho okubalulekile futhi okufanele kwenziwe ngaphambi kokuhamba phansi.
Ukwenza impilo yakho ibe lula, hlola umhlahlandlela wokuhlela umshado ngezansi. Umhlahlandlela ufaka phakathi uhlu lokuhlola lokuhlela umshado kanye nohlu lokuhlola ukulungiswa komshado ukusiza ukuhlela imicabango yakho nokwenza umshado wakho uqalise kahle.
Buka futhi:
Uhlu lokuhlola lomshado
Nalu uhlu lwezinto ezithile "odinga ukukwazi ngokulungiselela okuhle komshado":
1.Yenza isimemezelo
Abokuqala ukuzwa izindaba kufanele kube ngabomndeni nabangane abasondelene. Futhi kuyinto esobala kakhulu ohlwini lokuhlola lokulungiselela umshado.
2. Hlanganisa ingqondo
Ngemuva kokwenza isimemezelo, kukhona umshado ngokusemthethweni emisebenzini!
Umsebenzi olandelayo ukulungiselela uhlu lomshado, lapho kufanele khona hlala phansi nengoduso yakho nicabange. Izinto ozidingayo emshadweni zifaka uhlobo lomshado olifunayo, isitayela jikelele futhi-ke, ukwamukelwa!
3. Dala umugqa wesikhathi onzima
Lokhu kusenesikhathi, ithuba lokukwazi ukunquma umugqa wesikhathi othize lincane.
‘Ekuhleleni uhlu lwakho lokuhlola umshado,’ yakha umugqa wesikhathi onzima ngokunquma ngenyanga ofuna umshado ube kuyo, inqubo yokuhlela izothatha isikhathi eside kangakanani, njalo njalo. Lezi yizilinganiso nje.
4.Khuluma imali
Imishado ibiza imali. Akekho umuntu othanda le nto ohlwini lwezinto okufanele zenziwe zemishado ngoba ikuphoqa ukuthi ubhekane namaqiniso, kepha imali iyisici esikhulu. Cabanga ngakho konke okufunayo, thola umbono wokuthi zibiza ini lezi zinto, setha isabelomali, bese unamathela kuso.
5.Setha usuku
Le ngenye into esohlwini lwezinto ezidingekayo emshadweni ezingeke ziqonde ngqo ngoba usuku lomshado luxhomeke kakhulu ekutheni izindawo zokutholakala ziyatholakala ngalolo suku, ngakho-ke yiba nezinsuku ezimbalwa engqondweni.
6.Izintombi nezimpelesi
Yenza uhlu lwakho lwezinto ozohlelela umshado, uqinisekise ukuthi wonke umuntu ukhona futhi uhlole lokhu ohlwini lwakho lokugcina lomshado! Qiniseka ukuthi uyachaza ukuthi indima ifaka ini.
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7.Uhlu lwezivakashi
Enye into ebalulekile ohlwini lokuhlola lomshado lokuhlanganisa uhlu lwakho lwezivakashi ngaphambi kokukhetha indawo ukuze ukhethe indawo engcono kakhulu.
8.Khetha indawo
Udinga indawo yomkhosi neyokwamukela. Kuleli qophelo, futhi udinga ukukhetha umuntu osebenzayo.
9.Abathengisi
Lokhu kuzobandakanya:
- Umthwebuli zithombe
- Umqophi wevidiyo
- Ophakelayo
- Izimbali
- Ukuhlobisa
- Abaculi / DJ
10. Ukugqoka netux
Le ngxenye izothatha isikhathi kepha ifinyelela yomibili le misebenzi ngekhanda elisezingeni (ikakhulukazi lapho ufuna ingubo).
11. Izimemo
Izimemo zivame ukuphuma emasontweni ayisithupha kuya kwayisishiyagalombili ngaphambi kosuku olubekiwe.
Uhlu Lokuhlola Ukulungiselela Umshado
Ukuze ugweme ukugoqwa emshadweni esikhundleni somshado uqobo (okubaluleke kakhulu), qiniseka ukubhekana nazo zonke izinto kulolu hlu lokuhlela ukuhlela umshado.
Yenza isikhathi sokuhlala phansi nomuntu ozoshada naye ngokushesha futhi nibe nochungechunge lwezingxoxo kokulandelayo.
1.Zihlole
Ngaphambi kokudlulela kwezinye izinto ohlwini lwakho lokulungiselela umshado, zibheke wena. Ukuzihlola kuwumqondo omuhle kubantu abalungiselela ukushada.
Ngesikhathi sokuhlolwa, hlola izici zakho futhi unqume ukuthi ungathuthukisa kanjani. Futhi, cela usizo lozakwenu ukuthola okokufaka. Sonke sinezinto esingasebenza kuzo.
Mhlawumbe unenkani, uyaphikisana, ujwayele ukuba namandla wezinzwa, unenkani eqinile noma akabekezeli. Noma ngabe kuyini, qala ukuthatha izinyathelo zokuthuthuka. Kuzozuzisa umshado wakho ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Eqinisweni, ucwaningo lwamuva luveza ukuthi kukhona ubudlelwane obuseduze phakathi kwezici ezithile zobuntu nokwaneliseka emshadweni.
2.Setha imigomo yempilo
Hlalani phansi nesoka lakho nixoxe ngalokho enifuna ukukuzuza ndawonye. Lokhu kuzobandakanya imigomo efana nokuthola imfundo ephakeme, ukuthenga ikhaya nokuba nezingane.
Futhi, xoxani ngezifiso zomsebenzi nokuthi ufuna ukuba kuphi eminyakeni engu-5. Le nkulumo imane nje iphathelene nokuthi izinhloso zomunye nomunye ziyini njengoba imayelana nokuthi ngabe wena nomlingani wakho nisekhasini elilodwa.
3.Inkolo / ingokomoya
Bambalwa kakhulu abafinyelela eqophelweni lokuthembisana umshado bengazi ukuthi umlingani wabo umi kuphi ngokwenkolo nangokomoya. Noma kuyiqiniso, kufanele ube nengxoxo yokuthi inkolo nengokomoya kuzodlala kanjani indima emshadweni.
4.Ukuzibandakanya komndeni
Umshado udlulela ngalé kwakho noshade naye. Womabili amaqembu kufanele azwane futhi amukele nemindeni yomunye nomunye. Ngaphandle kwalokho, kuyohlale kukhona idrama nokungezwani ongakusika ngommese, ikakhulukazi ngamaholide.
Uma ungakakwenzi lokho, ujwayelane kahle nomndeni womlingani wakho futhi wenze umzamo wokwakha ubudlelwano obuhle. Ngubani ongazuzi ngokuba nabantu abaningi abangabathanda futhi bathandwe?
5.Izimpilo zomphakathi
Ngaphezu kokubandakanyeka komndeni, qiniseka ukuthi unobudlelwano obuhle nabangane besoka lakho abaseduze. Cishe bazobe sebephelile ukudla kwakusihlwa, beze ukuzobloma, njalonjalo.
Indlela enhle yokwenza lokhu ukusebenza ekwakheni ubudlelwano obuhle nalowo nalowo kubo. Mema abangani ukuba bazodla isidlo sasemini noma ikhofi, baxoxe, futhi bathole okuvamile ukwakha ubungani bangempela.
Lezi ziphakamiso kungenzeka zingabi yikho konke okudingayo ngomshado kepha zimboze uhla lwezinto ezibalulekile ukudala uhlu lokuhlola lomshado oluphelele.
Ngokwakha uhlu oluhle lokulungiselela umshado, kufanele uqale ngokushesha okukhulu; lokhu kukuvumela isikhathi nesikhala esidingekayo sokuguquguquka nezinye izinhlelo namalungiselelo.
Kodwa-ke, ungadluli futhi uchithe isikhathi esiningi kuphela ohlwini lokuhlola lokulungiselela umshado; qiniseka ukuthi unesikhathi esiningi esisele empeleni sokwenza izinto ohlwini lokuhlola lokulungiselela umshado.