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- Impilo ngemuva komshado - Indaba kaTom noLori
- Izinto ezizoshintsha lapho ushada
- Ungagxili emaphutheni womlingani wakho
- Bala izibusiso zakho
- Yeka ukuqhathanisa ngaphambi nangemva komshado
Izinguquko ngemuva komshado azinakugwenywa. Noma ngabe umazi isikhathi esingakanani umlingani wakho, ubudlelwano bakho ngemuva komshado buzohluka kunalokho obekuyikho ngaphambili. Ezinye izinguquko emshadweni zenzelwe okuhle kanti ezinye zingakwenza uzibuze ukuthi kungani abantu beshada!
Njengoba impilo ngemuva komshado izoshintsha, sonke kufanele sizame ukwamukela ushintsho ngemuva komshado ngomusa futhi sivuleleke ekwamukeleni umlingani wethu ngama-idiosyncrasies abo.
Lapho sikhuluma ngakho, ukuthi ukushintsha kanjani umshado, iLights Night Lights ingaba isithombe esiphoqelela kakhulu somshado ukuvela muva nje kuthelevishini.
Ochungechungeni lwamasonto onke, imizwa igxile ebudlelwaneni phakathi komqeqeshi wasedolobheni elincane kanye nonkosikazi wakhe abamxhasayo njengoba emphikisa ngezindlela eziningi.
Esikhundleni sezinto ezijwayelekile zomshado-movie ezisonteka njengobugebengu, ukulutha, noma izimfihlo, iLights Night Lights ilawulwa yisigqi sangempela sobudlelwano.
Lezi zithandani zihlangabezana nokulwa okuncane okuvamile, ukuxolisa okungekho lula kanjalo namaphutha nokuxolelana okuyizimpawu zothando oluhlala njalo.
Isithambisi sewayini nama roses singena esikhundleni samaqiniso okuphila komshado uma "I Dos" seziphinyisiwe.
Impilo ngemuva komshado - Indaba kaTom noLori
Lapho uTom noLori bethandana, wayephuma ekamelweni "ayodlulisa uphethiloli". Baxoxa ngomkhuba wakhe ngobunye ubusuku, futhi uLori wahleka lo msebenzi wokuthi angaze ahambe phambi kwakhe. Umtshele ukuthi amazwi akhe azwakala engenangqondo futhi enobuhlakani.
Impilo yomshado igcwele amaqiniso. Umuntu owake wachitha amahora amaningi phambi kwesibuko, okwamanje, ukukubona uphethe ama-zits, uyazi ukuthi uphefumula ekuseni, neminye imikhuba efihliwe.
Umshado omningi udliwa ukungaguquguquki. Ukuphakama nokwehla kuzophazamisa inqubo.
Amabhayisikobho akhuluma ngenqubo evame ukubuthuntu yomshado. Benza emakhaya angenacala lapho izinwele zihlala ziphelele, futhi ingxoxo igcwele ama-liners ahlakaniphile. Ama-movie enza izinto ezithile zilungile:
1) onkhe ntofontofo
2) ubumbano lwabazali
3) ukungavumelani okukhungathekisayo
Lona ngumshado wangempela. Ikhadi elilodwa elisuka emphemeni womshado alibonisi iqiniso ngaso sonke isikhathi. Amaviki, izinyanga - futhi kwesinye isikhathi iminyaka - agcinwa ngobuhlungu nangothando ngenkathi ezinye kungenjalo.
Kwesinye isikhathi ufisa noma yini ngaphandle kokwejwayelekile. Ngemuva kwalokho, kuvela injabulo, bese uzizwa uzizwa ungathandeki ngokwenzekile.
ULori ubhekene nomshado "ophakeme" manje - kodwa ngezizathu ezingalindelekile.
Iminyaka emithathu edlule ibigcwele izinselelo. Iminyaka emithathu yesikole somthetho, ukwehla kwemali engenayo, ukuhamba okuningi, nengane entsha.
Okuhlangenwe nakho kuvivinye lokho akubheka njengobunye obuqinile. ULori noTim baphumelela. Imvamisa ingxenye engcono kakhulu yomshado yinkimbinkimbi.
Umuntu uthola ukuthi bangaba semshadweni ebe esazithola. Bathandana ngoshintsho nokukhula.
Umshado ungakhipha okungcono kakhulu - futhi okubi kakhulu. Kuthatha ukuzimisela, ukusebenza; kwesinye isikhathi umshado awunamzamo.
Umshado unikeza umuntu umlingani isikhathi eside. Imayelana nezinguquko ezijwayelekile nezingalindelekile. Kusondelene, kuyazihlukanisa, kuyakhathaza futhi kunomvuzo.
Yini eguqukayo lapho ushada
Kucace bha ukuthi uma usushadile, izinto eziningi zimiselwe ukushintsha ebudlelwaneni. Lokho owawukuthanda phambilini ngomlingani wakho manje kungakushayela amantongomane ngakho-ke kungaba iqiniso koshade naye.
Kepha, umbuzo usalokhu ucabanga ukuthi kwenzekani lapho ushada nokuthi yini eguqukayo ngemuva komshado. Futhi, uma imibhangqwana ibe sebudlelwaneni bokuhlala isikhathi eside, namanje iningi labo libike ukulingana okuguqukile ngemuva komshado.
Umshado uhlanganisa imiphefumulo emibili ngendlela yokuthi 'ubuntu' buphoqeleka ukuba buhlalise emuva.
Uma ukuzimela kubaluleke kakhulu kuwe, lapho-ke kufanele ucabangele ukushada.
Ngenkathi nihlala ndawonye ngaphambi komshado, ningavikela ubuntu benu. Yize uthandana nothile, awunacala lokuthi wabelane ngemali yakho futhi uphendule ngayo yonke into encane.
Kepha, emshadweni, abashadayo kumele babelane ngezimali zabo, ikhaya, imikhuba, abakuthandayo nabangakuthandi ngaphandle kokubelana ngombhede ofanayo.
Futhi, umshado uwuhlobo oluthile lokuqinisekisa okucashile ukuthi laba bantu baboshelwe ukuhlala ndawonye impilo yabo yonke, yize kunjalo, isehlukaniso akuyona into engajwayelekile.
Lo muzwa ongaqondakali ungakwenza uthathe oshade naye kalula. Futhi ungahlosile, uyeka ukwenza imizamo ekwenzeni ubudlelwano bakho busebenze. Kungakho ubudlelwano buguquka ngemuva komshado.
Izinto ezizoshintsha lapho ushada
Manje, njengoba sesazi ukuthi kungani izinto zishintsha nokuthi zishintsha kanjani emva komshado, ake sigxile ekuthuthukiseni nasekulondolozeni ubudlelwano ngemuva komshado.
Ungagxili emaphutheni womlingani wakho
Imibhangqwana eminingi ikhononda ngokuthi umyeni ushintshe ngemuva komshado noma umzimba womuntu wesifazane uyashintsha ngemuva komshado.
Njengoba sazi ukuthi okuhlala njalo empilweni 'kuguquka', ngakho-ke ungalokothi uphambukiswe ukubonakala kwangaphandle. Umzimba womuntu uyabola futhi ungashintsha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Yamukela ngomusa nangothando!
Bala izibusiso zakho
Esikhundleni sokukhanyisa ngezinto ezishintshayo lapho ushada, kungani ungazibali izibusiso esesizishadile?
Zama njalo ukubheka izici ezinhle zomlingani wakho. Vele, akulula kepha kungenzeka uma ujwayele ukuba nethemba ngokungaguquguquki.
Yeka ukuqhathanisa ngaphambi nangemva komshado
Cabanga isigaba ngasinye sempilo yakho njengesahluko esizimele. Ukuqhubekela phambili empilweni nokuqoqa okuhlangenwe nakho okusha, kufanele udlulele esahlukweni esilandelayo, ngokuvumela isahluko esidala empilweni yakho.
Ngesahluko esisha, kuza okuhlangenwe nakho okusha. Futhi ukuze uzijabulele ngokugcwele, kufanele uyeke ukuqhathanisa okwedlule nokwamanje. Bobabili abasoze bafana.
Ngakho-ke, thola impikiswano evuselelayo 'yamadoda ngaphambi nangemva komshado' nangokuthi 'abesifazane ngaphambi nangemva komshado'. Sidinga ukufunda ukubuka isithombe esikhulu.
Uma senza umzamo, singathola izici eziningi zobudlelwano bethu ezingajabulisa ngazo futhi zisindise umshado wethu ngokugxila kokuhle futhi siziguqulele kokuhle.