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- Okudingayo ukwazi ngemikhonyovu yothando
- Izinhlobo ezijwayelekile zomkhonyovu ezenziwayo
- Ubuchwepheshe obusha, imikhonyovu emisha yezothando
- Izimpawu zokuxwayisa umkhonyovu wezothando
Ufuna uthando? Abaningi bethu baphendukela ezithandweni zokuxhumana online ukuze bathole ‘lowo,’ kepha izinto azihlali zihleli njalo.
Ungahle ucabange ukuthi akukho lutho oluyingozi ngaphandle lapho kunezinhlanzi ezimbalwa ezilambile, kepha iqiniso liyingozi kakhulu.
Abakhohlisi abathandanayo abaku-inthanethi basebenzisa ama-singleton asengozini ukubopha ukheshi - kanye nabo imikhonyovu yothando iya ngokuya iba yinkimbinkimbi ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Buka futhi:
Okudingayo ukwazi ngemikhonyovu yothando
Imikhonyovu yezothando eku-inthanethi yizindaba ezinkulu, futhi iya ikhula.
E-US, inani labantu ababika lezi zelelesi lacishe laphindeka kathathu phakathi kuka-2015 no-2019, kanti isamba esingu- $ 201 million silahlekelwe ngabakhwabanisi.
Le mikhonyovu yezothando nokuthandana online ayigcini eMelika kuphela. Abakhohlisi bezothando basebenza emhlabeni wonke, kanti I-intanethi ibanikeze inkundla yokudlala entsha yokuzingela izisulu.
I-MO eyisisekelo kakhulu yabakhwabanisi bezothando ilula:
- Bathuthukisa ubudlelwane obuku-inthanethi nomuntu othile kepha abahlangani mathupha.
- Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, bakholisa labo okuthiwa ngabalingani babo ukuthi babathumele imali, babathengele izipho, noma batshale imali ebhizinisini labo.
- Banganikela ngezipho - kepha ekugcineni, bayohlala bethatha okungaphezulu kakhulu kwalokho abakunikezayo.
Izinhlobo ezijwayelekile zomkhonyovu ezenziwayo
Abakhohlisi abaningi bezothando badla abantu asebekhulile noma abasengozini. Imvamisa bazoba nendaba echaza ukuthi kungani bengakwazi ukuhlangana.
Mhlawumbe basebenza phesheya, noma banendaba eyindida eyinkimbinkimbi ehilela i-ex eyingozi kanye nesikhathi esedlule esibuhlungu.
Ngenjwayelo, bazoziveza njengomdlalo ophelele: ohlakaniphile, onothando, osebenza kanzima - futhi, impela, ubukeka kahle kakhulu.
Umkhohlisi wezothando ojwayelekile utshaleka ngokujulile "ebudlelwaneni" kusenesikhathi futhi akhuthaze isisulu sabo ukuba senze okufanayo.
Kulesi sibonelo sakudala somkhonyovu osebenzayo, umkhonyovu waqinisekisa isisulu sakhe ukuthi ufuna ukusishada - ngaphandle kokuhlangana naso.
Lapho nje ubudlelwane obuku-inthanethi busunguliwe, umkhonyovu uqala ukudonsa isisulu sabo ku.
Mhlawumbe bathatha uhambo lokuya phesheya, bese kukhona okungahambi kahle kabi. Mhlawumbe babalekela umuntu owayekuhlukumeza. Mhlawumbe bebeyisisulu sobugebengu uqobo, futhi ngokuzumayo badinga imali yokumboza irenti.
Noma ngabe yisiphi isizathu, kwenziwa isicelo semali. Njengoba isikhathi sihamba, lezi zicelo ziba kaningi, zenze amathemba kakhulu, futhi zidinga izamba ezinkulu nezinkulu.
Ubuchwepheshe obusha, imikhonyovu emisha yezothando
Isikhathi eside abakhohlisi basebenza kumasayithi wokuxhumana nabantu njenge-Facebook.
Kodwa-ke, amaqhinga abo ayevame ukungabi buciko; abantu abaziphenduli kahle izicelo zobungani ezingahleliwe ezivela kubantu ongabazi emazweni angaphandle.
Kulezi zinsuku, imikhonyovu inamathuba amaningi okuthi itholakale kumasayithi wokuphola wamahhala, lapho abasebenzisi bafuna uthando ngenkuthalo - futhi bazenze babe sengozini kule nqubo.
Iseluleko esisodwa esivamile uma uzizwa uhlukunyezwa ngumkhonyovu ukuthi yenza ukusesha okuhlukile kwe-Google kwesithombe sabo.
Lokhu kungaholela ekutholeni ukuthi isithandwa sakho esiku-inthanethi akusiyena lowo athi unguye - noma kungenzeka.
Kuleli cala lakamuva, umkhonyovu empeleni ubenezingcingo zevidiyo nesisulu sakhe. Ngisho nabangane bakhe babengasoli lutho - kodwa empeleni, konke kwakuyinkohliso ebanzi.
Umkhwabanisi usebenzise ubuchwepheshe obusha ukudala ubuso obungelona iqiniso, obenziwe ngekhompyutha, nokuqhubeka nezingxoxo ezibonakala zijwayelekile nesisulu sakhe.
Abakwa-Scammers bangasebenzisa ubuchwepheshe bamuva ukudala amadokhumende asekelayo abonakala engokoqobo ngokuphelele. Isibonelo, le ndoda esikhulile yakholwa ukuthi ibinikela ngemali emnyuziyamu.
Umkhwabanisi wamthumelela izitatimende zasebhange, imibhalo yomnyuziyamu, nokuningi - konke okwakubonakala kunokwethenjelwa ngokuphelele.
Kodwa-ke, lesi ngesinye isikhathi lapho abakhohlisi basebenzisa amakhono abo ekhompyutha ukwenza ubufakazi obungamanga.
Izimpawu zokuxwayisa umkhonyovu wezothando
Indlela elula yokugwema abakwa-scammers ukuhlala kude nezizathu zabo ezijwayelekile zokugxoba.
Ngokuvamile, imikhonyovu inamathela kumasayithi wokuphola wamahhala nezinhlelo zokusebenza noma amanethiwekhi omphakathi.
Ngokusho kwabakwaWeLoveDates, abasebenza izingosi eziningi ezikhokhelwayo zokuphola, “Uma uzimisele ngokugwema imikhonyovu, dala iphrofayli engosini noma kuhlelo lokusebenza olukhokhelwayo. Lezi zinsizakalo zingakwazi ukunakekela amaklayenti azo kangcono, futhi zisebenzisa i-AI nobuchwepheshe bakamuva ukuthola abakhohlisi futhi zibathumele ukupakisha. ”
Ngaphandle kwalokho, nazi ezinye izimpawu eziyisixwayiso ezibalulekile zokuthi ukuthandana kwakho ku-inthanethi kungumkhonyovu ngempela:
1. Ozoba umlingani wakho ngeke ahlangane nawe
Vele, bambalwa kakhulu abantu abazolahla konke ukuze basheshe baphume osukwini imizuzu engamashumi amabili ngemuva kokubingelela (futhi uma bekwenza, lelo yifulegi elibomvu ... nangezinye izizathu).
Kodwa-ke, uma uthando lwakho olusafufusa luqhubeka isikhathi esithile, futhi umlingani wakho ehlala enezaba, lokho kuyisibonakaliso esiyisixwayiso.
2. Umlingani wakho wenza izinhlelo zokuhlangana nawe, kodwa ziyawela
Ngamaphoyinti ebhonasi, awela ngesitayela esimangalisa kakhulu: endleleni eya esikhumulweni sezindiza, uthando lwakho lutholwa yiloli.
Yebo, kungenzeka - kepha kungenzeka? Uma lolu hlobo lomdlalo lwenzeka kaningi, isikhathi esedlule impela ukuthi sayonara.
3. Izithombe zomlingani wakho azibonakali ziyimvelo
Abakwa-Scammers baya ngokuya beba yinkimbinkimbi uma kukhulunywa ngesithombe "sobufakazi" bokuthi bangobani, kepha iningi labo lisawela kulesi sithiyo.
Uma zonke izithombe zabo zibukeka sengathi zithathwe ehhovisi, zingahle zebiwe kuphrofayili ye-LinkedIn yothile.
Uma zonke zithandeka kakhulu, noma zivezwe ngokusobala, leyo enye inkinga.
4. Indaba yomlingani wakho ayihlanganisi
Isibonelo, uthi uneziqu zaseyunivesithi, kepha isipelingi sakhe nohlelo lolimi kusikisela okunye.
Yenza ukubulala okuthile uma udinga: thola ukuthi wafunda kuphi, yini ibha yakhe ayithandayo uma eyilungu lanoma yiliphi iqembu ... bese uqala ukugogoda, ukubona ukuthi ingakanani impilo yakhe ekhona.
5. Umlingani wakho usuka kokuthi "sawubona" aye "ngiyakuthanda" akuniki sikhathi nakancane
Lokhu kunzima ukukala, ngoba nawe kungenzeka uzizwa unemizwa enamandla.
Khumbula, noma kunjalo: uze uhlangane nomuntu mathupha, akufanele unikeze kakhulu.
Lesi iseluleko esihle ngokuvamile sokuphola online, noma ngabe akukho mkhonyovu othintekayo. Hlala uqaphile futhi ungalokothi utshale ngokweqile entweni okungenzeka ukuthi ayiyona yangempela.
6. Isiphetho semikhonyovu yezothando
Ukunamathela ngensizakalo yokuphola ekhokhelwayo, hhayi uhlelo lokusebenza lwamahhala, kuyindlela enhle yokugwema iningi labakhwabanisi. Kodwa-ke, qaphela njalo, njengoba ezimbalwa zalezi zigebengu zingase zishelele enetheni.
Khumbula umthetho wegolide wokuphola online: uze uqiniseke ngokuphelele ngezinhloso zomuntu, ungalokothi unikeze inhliziyo yakho - noma imali yakho - kude.