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Ngabe unecala lokulahlekelwa ubuwena ebuhlotsheni futhi ushiye ukuzimela kwakho ngokuphelele?
Lapho uqala ubudlelwano obusha, noma ngabe kumngani omusha noma ukuba ngumlingani emshadweni, lokho okuhlangenwe nakho kungakushiya uzizwe ujabule kakhulu. Uzama ukuxhumana, isibopho esikulethela wena nomuntu wakho okhethekile ndawonye.
Yize lo kungumbono omuhle, kepha kufanele uqaphele ukuthi ungalahli ubuwena. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ukuzimela yikhona okudonse lowo muntu kuwe kwasekuqaleni.
Akuvamile ebuhlotsheni obusha ukuqala ukuthatha imikhuba yabanye abantu bese ulahlekelwa eyakho ngokwenzeka. Ushintsho olukuwe lucashile, awuziqapheli kuze kube yilapho ubuhlobo sebuguqukile noma bucibilikile. Lapho-ke usala uzibuza ukuthi lowo muntu ukuphi wena kuphi ngaphambi kokubandakanyeka. Uthi phakathi kwakho, "Kwenzekeni kimi?"
Ngaphandle kokuba yinkosikazi, umama, umyeni, ubaba, isisebenzi, kufanele ube nomazisi okungewakho konke. Ngokuningi okwenzeka empilweni yakho yansuku zonke, kungaba ngumzabalazo oxhomeke kubuntu bakho. Uhlu olungezansi kukhona iziphakamiso ezimbalwa zokukusiza ukuthi ungalahli ukuthi ungubani.
Ngenzeni
Chitha isikhathi (nsuku zonke, masonto onke, njll.) Ukwenza okuthile okukujabulelayo. Noma ngabe wedwa noma nomunye umuntu, into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi uthathe isikhathi sokuthi "uyakwenza" Lokho kuyasiza ekuqinisekiseni ukuthi awugcini ulahlekelwa ubuwena ebuhlotsheni.
Hlala uthintana naye
Qiniseka ukuthi uhlala uthintana nabangane nomndeni ngenkathi ubudlelwano bakho obusha. Kungaba nzima, kepha noma ngabe kungumbhalo noma okuthunyelwe kwezokuxhumana, okungenani ngena ukuze ubingelele.
Uma kungenzeka, setha usuku lwasemini noma lwekhofi. Lokhu kukunika ithuba lokuveza, ukushintshanisa izindaba, noma ukuthola umbono omusha ngodaba / ukukhathazeka futhi kusiza ekulahlekelweni ubunikazi bakho ebudlelwaneni.
Isikhala esiphephile
Akufanele uzizwe kabi ngokuthi cha, ikakhulukazi uma kuyinto ekwenza uzizwe ungakhululekile. Ukusetha imingcele kuvumela omunye umuntu azi izinga lakho lokunethezeka, onelungelo lokuthola.
Uma lo omunye umuntu ekukhathalela, bafuna ukuthi uzizwe kahle ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi ngeke bafise ukuthi ulahlekelwe ubunikazi bakho ebudlelwaneni noma uzilahlekele emshadweni.
Amathiphu wokuthi ungazimela kanjani ebudlelwaneni
Ukuzilahlekisela ebuhlotsheni noma ukuzwa umuzwa ongenampilo wokuhlangana lapho ungafuni ukuchitha isikhathi nawe kuyethusa.
Uma ujule kakhulu ebudlelwaneni bakho kangangokuba awusakwazi ukuzihlalela, futhi awukwazi ukugcina ubunikazi njengomuntu ohlukile, yilapho ulahlekelwa umuzwa wobudlelwano bakho.
Ukubandakanyeka nothile ebudlelwaneni besikhathi eside akumele kusho ukuthi ukuzitholela ubudlelwano nokuba ngumuntu wakho uqobo kuwumsebenzi okhuphukayo. Akusikho ukuthi abantu abasebudlelwaneni obunempilo kufanele basebenze kanjani.
Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ngalezo zikhathi ukuthi inhloso yobudlelwano obujabulisayo nobunempilo ukuhlala eduze futhi ngasikhathi sinye ubheke izeluleko ezisebenzayo zokuthi ungazithola kanjani futhi ebudlelwaneni.
Ngakho-ke, ungazimela kanjani ebudlelwaneni lapho nihlanganyele ndawonye ngendlela engenampilo ebudlelwaneni?
Lezi zeluleko zokuthi ungahlala kanjani uzimele ebudlelwaneni zizokusiza ukuthi wephule le ndlela engenampilo, uxhumane nawe futhi uhlale uthembekile kuwe ngenkathi ujabulela injabulo ehlala njalo ebudlelwaneni bakho noshade naye.
- Ungaba kanjani ebudlelwaneni, funda ukuvuma ukungavumi. Ukusungula inkululeko kubalulekile ukuqonda nokwamukela umbono womlingani wakho, noma ngabe akuhambisani nombono wakho ngale ndaba.
- Ukuzimela ebudlelwaneni kungenzeka kuphela uma wena yeka ukuthembela kumlingani wakho ukufeza zonke izidingo zakho nezidingo zakho. Ukuthembela okungenampilo ebudlelwaneni kuyisiphetho sokugcina semibhangqwana. Zama ukushaya ibhalansi enhle phakathi kokuzimela nokuncika, bese uhlose ukuthembela ebudlelwaneni ngenkathi wena uqobo lobo budlelwane.
- Uma uzilahlekisela ebuhlotsheni, kubalulekile ukuthi zikhumbuze uhlelo lwakho lwama-value value. Musa ukuphindaphinda izindinganiso zomlingani wakho ukuze nibe ebudlelwaneni, qhubekani nimela izimiso namagugu enu, ukuze nikhule kubudlelwano bothando obuqinile nomunye wakho obalulekile.
- Ukuzitholela futhi ebuhlotsheni kudinga ukuthi wenze kanjalo thola ukuthi yiziphi ezinye izinto ozifunayo empilweni eceleni kobuhlobo bakho. Ngenkathi kufanele ubeke phambili ubudlelwano bakho, ungabenzi ukuphela kwendawo ebalulekile empilweni yakho. Thatha okubalulekile eceleni kobuhlobo bakho bese uthola izindlela zokuthola ukuzimela kwakho.
Ngokuhambisana nalesi seluleko sendlela yokuba ngumuntu wakho ebudlelwaneni, udinga funda ukujabula noma ungenaye umlingani wakho.
Ngenkathi ukuhlala uthembekile futhi uzibophezele kubalulekile, kufanelekile ngokulinganayo, ukuhlangana nabantu abasha, ukuba nezinkanuko zakho nokuhlola imisebenzi ekujabulisa.
Ukuze ubudlelwano bukhule, kubalulekile ukuthi uzinakekele izidingo zakho, phokophela ukuthola amava wedwa futhi uzithande.