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- Imali - Uhlangothi olumnyama lomshado
- Uyangithanda, akangithandi
- Okungenzeki okulindelwe
- Ukuphikisana njalo nokushoda kokulingana ebudlelwaneni
Kulezi zinsuku, amazinga ezehlukaniso asephakeme kakhulu kunangaphambili. Okwakukade kuyihlazo futhi kungafinyeleleki kalula manje sekujwayelekile njenganoma yimuphi omunye umsebenzi wansuku zonke. Futhi isisusa salokhu siza ngazo zonke izinhlobo nobukhulu: kusuka kuzizathu eziyinqaba ezifana nokuthi “ukubhoreka umlingani womuntu” noma “ukumane ufune ukushada ngaphambi kokufinyelela eminyakeni ethile bese ukumane ukukuphelelisa” kube buhlungu kakhulu futhi kube ngokoqobo izimbangela ezinjengokuthandana nothade naye noma ukungakwazi ukuhlala ndawonye.
Izizathu eziyindida eceleni, kunezimbangela ezithile eziholela emibhangqwaneni ekhetha isehlukaniso esejwayeleke kakhulu kunendlela umuntu abengacabanga ngayo. Yize ezinye zingahle zibonakale zingamangalisi, yizinto ezilokhu zivela njalo ezivame ukudala umonakalo omkhulu ebudlelwaneni. Ezinye zingagwenywa kanti ezinye azikwazi, kepha kunento eyodwa eqinisekile. Kunesixazululo senkinga ngayinye empilweni futhi lokhu kuyasebenza nakwezinye zalezi zinkinga.
Imali - Uhlangothi olumnyama lomshado
Ukwehlukana ngodaba lwezezimali kubonakala kungenangqondo, kepha kuyinto eyejwayelekile kepha iyinkohliso ukubhekana nobudlelwano besikhathi eside. Ukunquma ukuthi ngubani okumele aphathe ini noma ngubani ophethe umthwalo omningi lapho kufanele akhokhe izikweletu ezivamile imvamisa kuyisici wonke umuntu okufanele abhekane naso. Noma kunjalo, kulula ukusho kunokukwenza. Ukunganaki lesi sici nokuhluleka ukwakha uhlelo lokuthi wena nomlingani wakho nisingathe izinkinga zezezimali cishe ngaso sonke isikhathi kubangela izingxabano. Okubi kakhulu, kungaba yisizathu esihlala njalo sokucindezeleka noma ukungavumelani nomlingani wakho. Ungahle uzizwe uzizwa uhlukunyezwa ngokungafanele noma uphethwe ngumlingani wakho ngenxa yokusebenzelana kwezezimali komshado. Futhi, ngokuzumayo, okuthile ekuqaleni obekungakafiki emqondweni wakho kungahle kube yisizathu sokuthi awusafuni ukwabelana nganoma yiziphi izibopho nomuntu obumthanda kakhulu.
Kusukela ezingxoxweni ezivulekile nomuntu wesithathu oqondisa ukuxhumana nokunikeza izeluleko zochwepheshe ekwakheni uhlelo lwakho, kunezindlela eziningi zokugwema izingqinamba ezinjalo noma ukuzigcina zilawulwa. Ukwehluleka ukwenza lokho zisuka nje nakho kuyinto engalungiswa. Akukephuzi kakhulu ukulungisa indlela yokubhekana nezinto ezinjalo.
Uyangithanda, akangithandi
Kuzo zonke izinkinga ezingavela endleleni, ukuncipha noma ukukhashelwa kothando kungenye yezinkinga ezivame kakhulu. Futhi yize ngayinye inemiphumela ehlukile, izimbangela zivame ukuhlangana. Umuntu wesithathu ongena phakathi kwakho noshade naye akuyona into engajwayelekile, kepha indlela umuntu aphendula ngayo esilingweni esinjalo ivame ukuthonywa okungaphezu kobuntu bomuntu noma izinto azitholile. Ngenkathi abantu abathile bengahle bathambekele ekuhambeni le ndlela naphezu kwemizamo emihle yomlingani wabo, kunezinye izizathu eziningi zokuthi kungani abantu bakwamukela lokhu njengendlela esebenzayo yize beshadile. Umshado oqinile ungazigwema kalula izimo ezinjalo. Ngalokhu, wena nomlingani wakho kufanele nondle futhi nakhe ubudlelwano benu ngaso sonke isikhathi. Izinkinga akumele zishiywe zinganakiwe futhi amaphuzu aqinile kufanele aqiniswe endleleni njengoba zonke izinto zingaba nokwehla ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
“Kungaba wuthando noma ukwethembana, ungathathi lutho kalula futhi unakekele sengathi ukhulisa isitshalo.”
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Okungenzeki okulindelwe
Njengakwezinto eziningi umuntu afuna ukuzizuza empilweni, lezo owabelana ngazo nomlingani wakho kufanele kuxoxwe ngazo ngokukhululekile futhi kuvunyelwane ngazo ngobuqotho. Phakathi neminyaka eminingi kangaka, kuyaqondakala ukuthi ezinye izifiso ziyashintsha endleleni. Ungahle ufune ingane lapho uneminyaka engama-30, kodwa ngeke nakancane uyicabangele lapho uneminyaka engama-50 noma engama-60. manje. Kodwa-ke, ukwenza isiqiniseko sokwabelana ngendlela efanayo empilweni nomyeni noma unkosikazi wakho kungaba nomthelela omkhulu emshadweni wakho ube ngcono.
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Ukuphikisana njalo nokushoda kokulingana ebudlelwaneni
Ungacabanga ukuthi kulolu suku nakubantu abashadayo ngeke babe nobunzima ekwabelaneni ngemithwalo yemfanelo ngokulinganayo. Kodwa-ke, imikhuba emidala ifa kanzima futhi imvamisa ukuthi owesifazane azithole enza imisebenzi eminingi ebijwayele ukunikezwa yona ocansini lwakhe esikhathini esedlule. Ukwehluleka ukusabalalisa imisebenzi ngendlela elinganiselayo ngesinye sezizathu eziyinhloko lapho imibhangqwana igcina isilwile. Vele, izizathu zezimpikiswano eziphindaphindwayo ziningi futhi lapho lokhu kuba "yindlela yokuphila" akumangazi ukuthi abantu banquma ukuhamba ngezindlela zabo ezihlukile.