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- 1. Ukuvuthwa kwegazi
- 2. I-trimester yesibili yokukhulelwa
- 3. Ukuvimbela inzalo ngamahomoni
- 4. Ukuzibona nokuzethemba
- 5. Ukungakhathazeki nokuzola
- 6. Shintsha ekuziphatheni komlingani
- 7. Ukunikeza isikhala sakhe
- 8. Isikhathi sosuku
- Izici ezihlukile
Ngokungafani nezinye izilwane ezincelisayo ezidlula "ekushiseni" ngezikhathi lapho zingakhulelwa khona, abesifazane abangabantu balangazelela ukuya ocansini unyaka wonke. Kodwa-ke, kunezikhathi ezithile nezici ezinganikela ekutheni abesifazane bakhokhiswe kakhulu.
Ukuqonda ukuthi kunini lapho abesifazane besabeka kunabo bonke kungakusiza ukuthi ungene kulokho okungahle kwenzeke ngokocansi futhi ujabulele isikhathi sokulala ngokwengeziwe.
Izici ezifaka isandla kulokhu kukhuphuka kwesifiso sobulili zingahlukahluka, kufaka phakathi izinto eziphilayo nezingokwengqondo.
Funda izinto ezifakwe kuhlu ezibonakala zinomthelela omkhulu ekushayeleni ubulili kwabesifazane. Nakhu lapho abesifazane besabeka kakhulu-
1. Ukuvuthwa kwegazi
Ucwaningo oluphenya ukuthi kunini lapho abesifazane besabeka kakhulu lukhombisa ukuthi ngesikhatsi se-ovulation, maphakathi nokuya esikhathini. Ngokwezinto eziphilayo lokhu kunengqondo njengoba lesi yisikhathi lapho amathuba emakhulu kakhulu ukuthi abesifazane bakhulelwe. Ukwanda kwe-testosterone ngesikhathi sokuvuthwa kuthinta i-spike ku-libido futhi kwesinye isikhathi kuyashintsha nasekuziphatheni.
Abesifazane bavame ukugqoka nokwenza ngendlela yobulili, futhi izwi labo liba phezulu kakhulu okuholela ekutheni amadoda adonseleke kubo.
2. I-trimester yesibili yokukhulelwa
Ngesikhathi sesithathu sokukhulelwa iningi labesifazane lizwa isigaba senjabulo eyedlulele yezocansi. Ku-trimester wokuqala, isicanucanu nokugula kwasekuseni kukhona, futhi iningi labesifazane lizizwa ligula kakhulu ukuthi lingaya ocansini. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, isicanucanu siyahamba ku-trimester yesibili futhi sithathelwa indawo ukukhuphuka kwamandla.
Ngokwengeziwe, i-estrogen ne-progesterone spike ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kuthinta ukwanda kwesondo lokushayela ngokuqondile nangokungaqondile ngokwanda kokuthambisa kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane kanye nokugeleza kwegazi endaweni ye-pelvic.
Kungenzeka kube khona, empeleni, esinye isizathu semvelo salokhu kwanda kwe-libido. Njengoba ukukhulelwa kuqhubeka, ucansi lungasiza ukulungiselela ukulethwa. Isidoda siqukethe ama-prostaglandin anomthelela omuhle ekukhuleni komlomo wesibeletho. Ngokwengeziwe, ucansi oluvame ukwedlula usuku olubekiwe kanye nama-orgasms aqhubekayo asiza ukugcina imisipha esibelethweni sakho isesimweni esihle.
3. Ukuvimbela inzalo ngamahomoni
Ukulawulwa kokuzalwa kukhulisa amazinga e-progesterone axhunywe ekwehliseni isifiso sobulili. Iphilisi liguqula umjikelezo wemvelo wokuya esikhathini futhi, ngemuva kokuthi abesifazane beyeke ukulidla, bangazizwa benamahloni.
4. Ukuzibona nokuzethemba
Ubulili abuyona nje into ebonakalayo kodwa bungokomzwelo futhi. Ngakho-ke, ukuphendula ukuthi kunini lapho abesifazane besabeka kakhulu okudingeka sibheke nezici ezingokwengqondo. Indlela owesifazane azibona ngayo ingakhulisa noma inciphise inkanuko yakhe yezocansi.
Lapho owesifazane ezizwa efiseleka futhi ezethemba uvulekele kakhulu ukuya ocansini.
Ukuzigxeka nokuzibeka phansi kuzokwehlisa.
5. Ukungakhathazeki nokuzola
Ukucindezeleka kubeka umzimba wethu esimweni lapho kugxilwe khona ekusindeni, hhayi ekuzaleni. Ukucindezeleka kwandisa ukugeleza kwegazi nokushaya kwenhliziyo ngenkathi kunciphisa imisebenzi engabalulekile (kufakiwe ocansini). Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngaphansi kwengcindezi engapheli, umzimba wethu ukhiqiza inqwaba yehomoni i-cortisol, eyehlisa i-libido futhi iphazamise umjikelezo ojwayelekile wokuya esikhathini.
Ukubheka ubuchopho "isitho sethu sobulili" esibaluleke kakhulu, kuyaqondakala ngani ukuba ngaphansi kwengcindezi ubuchopho obumatasa nobunzima bungabangela ukwehla kokushayela ucansi.
Abesifazane bagcizelele emsebenzini kulabo abaseholidini bakhombisa umehluko omkhulu ekushayeleni ubulili. Iqembu lokuqala likhombise ushintsho oluncane lwe-cyclic ku-libido futhi lanciphisa intshisekelo kwezocansi ngokujwayelekile, ngenkathi iqembu elifanayo eholidini lithole ukukhuthazwa kwe-libido kanye nezinguquko ezijwayelekile zokuvusa inkanuko. Ukuxhumana phakathi kocansi nengcindezi kuyinto eyinkimbinkimbi. Ukucindezeleka kunganciphisa isifiso sobulili, kodwa ucansi lungasiza ekunciphiseni ukucindezeleka. Ukukhishwa kwama-endorphin namanye ama-hormone kungakhuphula imizwa, okungukuthi uma ukucindezela bekungeqile ngokweqile ukuqeda isifiso sobulili ngokuphelele.
6. Shintsha ekuziphatheni komlingani
Sihlala sonke singaphansi kwenqubo yokujwayela ophathina bethu, ngakho-ke ushintsho ekuziphatheni kwabo lungathinta ushintsho ekukhokhisweni okuvusa inkanuko kwabesifazane.
Ushintsho lungaletha ubusha futhi luqhume igwebu lokujwayela, inqobo nje uma ushintsho lubonwa njengento enhle.
Abesifazane bangadonswa ngokwengeziwe kubalingani babo lapho beqala ukuzivocavoca, banake kakhulu indlela abagqoka ngayo noma banake izidingo zabo.
Lapho owesilisa eqala ukunakekela kakhulu ukubukeka kwakhe komzimba, uba muhle kakhulu kumlingani wakhe nakwabanye besifazane. Indlela abanye ababona ngayo umlingani wakhe ingathonya indlela ambona ngayo futhi yenyuse isifiso sobulili.
Olunye ushintsho olungathinta ukwanda kwe-libido yabesifazane ushintsho enkambisweni yezocansi. Ozakwethu bajwayela indlela ethile enkambisweni yezocansi futhi ushintsho kulo kungenza umehluko.
7. Ukunikeza isikhala sakhe
Okokugcina, abesifazane babike ukuthi bane-sex drive eyengeziwe lapho amadoda abo eyeka ukubahlupha ngocansi. Lokhu bekungabavumela ukuba babe ngama-horny bebodwa futhi esikhundleni sokuzwa sengathi kufanele baye ocansini (ngoba umlingani wabo uyayiqala). Babenesikhathi sokuqala lapho befuna ukuya ocansini.
Ukungabikho kwenza inhliziyo ikhule futhi kukhulise isifiso sobulili.
Abesilisa abakwaziyo ukubanika isikhala esidingekayo bazoklonyeliswa ngocansi olunothando.
8. Isikhathi sosuku
Ucwaningo lukhombisile ukuthi abesilisa nabesifazane empeleni badonsa kakhulu ngezikhathi ezahlukene emini. Abesifazane bavame ukuba ngama-horny kakhulu ebusuku kusukela ngo-11: 00 kuya ku-2 ekuseni, kuyilapho amadoda eshaqisa kakhulu ekuseni ngo-6 ekuseni kuya ku-9 ekuseni.
Qiniseka ukuthi isikhathi sisodwa asanele ukuthi singachaza nini ukuthi abesifazane bathuke kangakanani, kepha kungenye yezinto okufanele uzicabangele.
Abesifazane izidalwa eziyinkimbinkimbi ezinaka kakhulu indlela abazizwa ngayo nokuthi bazizwa beqiniseka kangakanani ngomzimba wabo, futhi ngokuqinisekile lokhu kuzoba yinto ebaluleke kakhulu kunesikhathi.
Izici ezihlukile
Njalo kungaba yimfihlakalo kowesifazane uqobo ukuthi kungani efuna ukuya ocansini ngasikhathi esithile. Kungaba lula njengokuvezwa kwimidiya enama-horny noma ukubheka umlingani wakhe ngombono ohlukile. Noma kunjalo, noma ngabe kunezici ezithile zebhayoloji nezingokwengqondo esingazibona ezithinta i-libido yeningi labesifazane, uma kukhulunywa ngomuntu othile kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi sibuze ukuthi "yini emenza aqothuke" futhi sibuze lokhu kaningi njengoba impendulo ingashintsha futhi ziguquke ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.