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- Uthando lwezingane luhlala luyiqiniso
- Isiphakamiso
- Amalungiselelo omshado
- Ekugcineni, usuku lomshado!
- Iseluleko esivela kuJessica osanda kushada
Uthando lunqoba bonke ubunzima, lunqoba zonke izithiyo, nemiphumela lokho kwamanye amandla obekungeke kwenzeke ~ William Godwin
Ubudlelwano phakathi kwenkinga ye-COVID-19 akungabazeki ukuthi buhlangabezana nezinselelo ezahlukahlukene - ikakhulukazi uma kukhulunywa ngokucabanga kabusha ngezinhlelo zomshado wakho.
Ingabe lokhu kufanele kube nomthelela ebudlelwaneni bakho? Lutho neze!
Uma uzibuza ukuthi ungashada kanjani ngalezi zikhathi ezinzima, funda kanye nendaba yomshado ebonakalayo kaJessica Hocken noNathan Allen okwenzeke phakathi kwemikhawulo yokukhiya.
I-saga yabo yomshado ebonakalayo iyisikhuthazo kubo bonke labo abanogqozi lokunqoba lesi simo.
Uthando lwezingane luhlala luyiqiniso
Mashi 21, 2020, kwakuwusuku lapho abathandekayo besikole samabanga aphakeme, uJessica Hocken noNathan Allen, benothando oluningi emehlweni abo, bakhuluma amagama amabili omlingo athi 'I do' ezindaweni eziwugwadule ezomile zase-Arizona.
Indawo abebeyibhukhe ekuqaleni ibingatholakali futhi umcimbi womshado awenzekanga ngendlela abebecabanga ngayo.
Futhi-ke, konke lokhu kwenzeka kwaba kuhle kakhulu, bobabili abasanda kushada bethi bekungeke kube ukuthandana kakhulu
Isiphakamiso
KwakungoMeyi 2019, lapho izinyoni zothando zihambe izintaba eweni lolwandle eSeattle, kanti uNathan waguqa ngamadolo ukuphakamisa uJessica.
Ekhuluma noMarriage.com, uJessica ubize lo mcimbi ngokuthi 'isiphakamiso seminyaka eyizinkulungwane esifanele.' Yize ayazi ukuthi kwakumele kwenzeke ngolunye usuku, empeleni wayengakulindelanga ngaleso sikhathi.
Futhi kusobala ukuthi kwakungu "Yebo" kuye!
UJessica ekubeni ‘ngumtholi,’ waqala ngokuhlela kabanzi ngomshado ngokushesha nje lapho lezi zithandani zibuyela e-Arizona.
Indawo yakhethwa, futhi usuku lomshado lwaxazululwa ngoMashi 21, 2020, kwiklabhu yezwe eScottsdale, e-Arizona.
Amalungiselelo omshado
Ngohlu lwezivakashi olulungiselelwe nguJessica noNathan, babelane ngezimemo zabo nezihlobo nabangane abaseduze ngoSepthemba 2019.
Inkinga ye-COVID-19 yayingakaqali inhlekelele yomhlaba wonke namuhla emuva ngaleso sikhathi, futhi lo mbhangqwana wawucwiliswe kakhulu emalungiselelweni omshado.
UJessica wayememe izintombi eziyisithupha, enye yazo yayihlala eHong Kong. KwakungoJanuwari lapho impelesi yaseHong Kong yabelana ngezindaba zayo zokukhiya futhi yatshela kusengaphambili ukuthi ngeke ikwazi ukufika emshadweni.
UJanuwari waqedwa, futhi kungaleso sikhathi lapho amacala ambalwa okuqala eCoronavirus aqala ukutholakala e-U.S.
Yize lezi zithandani zazi ukuthi ukwethuka kweCoronavirus kuyeza, ngokuqinisekile zazingacabangi ukuthi kungaba nomthelela omkhulu kangakanani emhlabeni.
Lapho usuku lomshado lusondela, sekusele cishe isonto, i-Arizona yaqala ukuvala.
Imishado ibingenzeka kepha imibuthano bekufanele ilinganiselwe kubantu abangama-50 kuphela.
UJessica noNathan vele babehlele umshado obuseduze, ngakho banquma ukuqhubeka nezinhlelo zabo zokuqala.
Ezinsukwini ezinhlanu ngaphambi komshado wabo, indawo yabo ebibhukiwe isikhanseliwe kubo. Kusele izinsuku ezimbili kuphela ngaphambi komshado, uJessica noNathan bavuselele abangane nomndeni wabo ngentuthuko engalindelekile.
UJessica uthe, “Yize besicabanga ukuhlehlisa, ngezinga lokungaqiniseki, sibone kungcono ukuthi sishade noma yikanjani. Ukuthi nje besingazi ukuthi kanjani, nini futhi kuphi! ”
Bagcina izimemo zivulekile. Kepha, ngemikhawulo yokuhamba nemikhosi, lo mbhangqwana ubazi ukuthi iningi lawo ngeke likwazi ukuwenza.
Yilapho lo mbhangqwana uthathe isinqumo sokuya emshadweni online. Umshado obonakalayo wahlelelwa ukuthi abangane babo nomndeni wabo babe yingxenye yomshado wabo ngesikhathi sokukhiya phansi.
Yize kunjalo, bonke ababemenyiwe babesiqonda kahle futhi besisekela isinqumo sabashadikazi sokushada.
Ekugcineni, usuku lomshado!
Yize lo mshado ungenzeki ngendlela obekucatshangwe ngayo lezi zithandani, bebeziqinisile.
Indawo entsha yomshado yayisehlane lase-Arizona, cishe umzuzu nje ukusuka endlini yabazali bakaJessica. Wayengakaze abone ukuthi indawo akhulela kuyo yayiyinhle futhi iphelele ukwamukela umshado wakhe!
Futhi, ekugcineni, lwafika usuku lapho konke kwenzeka kahle. Ngabo bonke abathengisi abasesekayo, indawo yomshado yayihlotshiswe ngomhlobiso omuhle wezimbali.
UJessica ubukeka emangalisa engutsheni yakhe yomshado yesitayela se-mermaid enhle evela e-Essense yase-Australia enconywe yizinwele ezinhle kakhulu nezimonyo zikaMonique Flores. UNathan, egqoke isudi enhle eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, wagcwalisa umakoti omuhle.
"Ngezimpelesi ezimbili kanye nabaqaphi abayisithupha, uNathan wayebukeka njenge-diva," kuhleka uJessica ngenkathi ekhuluma ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe.
Futhi, ngendawo enhle eyomile yase-Arizona ngemuva, lezi zithandani ekugcineni zisho izifungo zazo zomshado. Umphathi, uDee Norton, owayejwayele umkhuba wokuzila ukudla ngesandla, wasiza lezi zithandani ngomcimbi womshado.
UJessica noNathan babenemindeni nabangane babo abaseduze ukuba beze emshadweni, okwakuhlanganisa bobabili abazali babo nogogo kaJessica.
Babenomcimbi omile womshado ukuze kugcinwe ibanga lomphakathi futhi kugcinwe wonke umuntu ephephile ekuthelelekeni kweCoronavirus.
Futhi, bekungekholi yevidiyo ye-Zoom lapho umfowabo kaJessica eChicago, umfowabo kaNathan eDallas, nabanye ababemenyiwe cishe kuzo zonke izingxenye ze-U.S., Beze emshadweni wabo online.
Ngemuva kokuthi laba bashadikazi bevale isibopho sabo saphakade ngokumanga okunothando, uJessica noNathan bathelwa izifiso nezibusiso ezisuka enhliziyweni ngeseshini ye-Zoom ebonakalayo.
Lo mbhangqwana wabe usungenwa kamnandi egcekeni endlini yabazali bakaJessica, kanti uBaba kaNathan wenza ukubukeka kokuqala kwalaba babili.
Njengoba ilayisense lomshado lenziwe kusenesikhathi, lo mbhangqwana wawungenasizathu sokukhathazeka futhi waba nomshado osemthethweni ongenazihibe.
Ngakho-ke, naphezu kwazo zonke izingqinamba, ngothando nokusekelwa okuvela kubangani nomndeni wabo, uJessica noNathan babenomcimbi womshado ongaphezu kovamile ababengawucabanga.
Iseluleko esivela kuJessica osanda kushada
UJessica nomyeni wakhe balandela yonke imihlahlandlela ebekwe nguhulumeni futhi balandela izinkambiso zokuqhela komphakathi futhi baba nomshado ophephile impela.
Kulabo abasazibuza- kungenzeka yini ukushada online ngesikhathi sokungaqiniseki kwesifo iCoronavirus, uJesica uneseluleko esincane semibhangqwana ezizwa ibhajwe esivunguvungwini sokungaqiniseki.
“Hlalani ninomqondo ovulekile. I- usuku lomshado cishe ngeke kuhambe ngendlela obucabanga ngayo kodwa, kwesinye isikhathi kugcina sekungcono kunalokho obungahle ukuhlelile ngenxa yenjabulo emsulwa ezungeze umshadoi-dings. Kunzima kepha kufanelekile,“uthi UJessica.
“Sasilahlekile amalungu omndeni abalulekile emshadweni wami owawuku-inthanethi njengomfowethu ohlala eChicago (okwakuyindawo edume kakhulu) nomfowabo kaNathan ohlala eDallas kodwa bakwazi ukujoyina ngeZoom.
Abantu abaningi abakwazanga ukufika kodwa futhi, isikhukhula nje ekuseni, ngokwesibonelo izintombi zami ezingithengela umakoti zingithumelela ama-video wazo zigqoke izingubo zempelesi, ziyibuka, noma bezilungiselela nami noma ngabe bezikhona izwe noma izwe elehlukile, lalithinta ngempela. Abantu basiqonda kahle isimo nokuthi kungani sizofuna ukuqhubeka siye phambili. Ngizwe sengathi iyangisekela ngempela, ”kuhlanganyela uJessica.
Ngenkathi isikhathi sokuhlukaniswa siqhubeka nokunwetshwa, indaba kaJessica iphakathi kwabanye abaningi abakhetha imishado eku-inthanethi noma ebonakalayo njengendlela yokuvumela uthando lunqobe ngalesi sikhathi senhlekelele. AbakwaMarriage.com badlulisa izifiso zabo ezinhle kubo bonke labo bantu futhi siyethemba ukuthi ngalezi zindaba, abanye bangathola ithemba elidingeka kakhulu ngemishado yabo.
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