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- 1. Yenza ukuhlolwa kwaminyaka yonke
- 2.Hlela umndeni wakho
- 3. Yiba khona ngokwengeziwe
- 4.Hlanganisa futhi
- 5.Yiba okhuthazayo
- 6. Dlulisa izinzwa
- 7.Qala ukukhathalela impilo yakho yezocansi
- 8.Sebenzisa igama elithi 'L' kaningi
- 9.Lungisa leso simo sengqondo
- 10.Yigone
Unyaka Omusha umele ukuqala okusha kwemibhangqwana. Shiya izinkinga zakho ngo-2020 bese uvuselela umshado wakho. Sondela futhi, uthole uthando futhi, ube onakekelayo, uqonde futhi wamukele uthando. Ufuna ukwazi ukuthi kanjani? Kunezindlela eziyishumi zokwenza ngezansi.
1. Yenza ukuhlolwa kwaminyaka yonke
Ukuhlolwa minyaka yonke kungavimbela izinkinga ezincane ukuthi zingalungiseki. Ukuze wenze ukuhlolwa kwaminyaka yonke, buyekeza umshado ndawonye ngokukhomba ukuthi yini esebenzayo, yini engasebenzi nokulungisa okungasebenzi. Ukubeka konke etafuleni kuyisinyathelo sokuqala sokuvuselela futhi kunikeza imibhangqwana ithuba lokufuna usizo uma kudingeka.
2.Hlela umndeni wakho
Ikhaya kufanele libe yindawo yokuzola; indawo ofuna ukuba kuyo. Ukufeza lokho kuthula futhi wenze ikhaya lakho libe i-oasis, thatha noma yiziphi izinyathelo ezidingekayo zokususa ukucindezeleka. Lokhu kungafaka ukuchitha isikhathi esithe xaxa sindawonye, ukuba nochungechunge lwezingxoxo ezinzima ukufinyelela esinqumweni kanye / noma ukuzidela okuthile ukufeza ileveli enkulu yenjabulo. U-2016 unyaka wokunqoba izingqinamba, uguquke futhi uvuselele lowo mshado onempilo, ojabule owake waba nawo.
3. Yiba khona ngokwengeziwe
Kwesinye isikhathi konke okudingwa ngumshado isikhathi. Ngaphezu kwesikhathi, yenza leso sikhathi sibalwe. Uthando ludinga kokubili ubuningi nekhwalithi.
4.Hlanganisa futhi
Umshado ubizwa ngokuhlanganiswa ngesizathu. Ngemuva komshado, abashadile bayathandana kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi lokho kuyenzeka. Ukuze uvuselele, kufanele uhlangane futhi. Kwenze lokho ngokuzibandakanya kakhulu ezimpilweni zomunye nomunye. Vele uyabandakanyeka njengoba nihlala ndawonye kodwa gxila kakhulu ezintweni ezingaphandle komndeni ezibalulekile komunye wakho obalulekile. Ukubonisa ukuthi uyakhathala kuhumushela othandweni.
5.Yiba okhuthazayo
Ukwesekwa kuthuthukisa ubudlelwane obunempilo. Thatha izikhathi ezimbalwa ezengeziwe kusuka osukwini lwakho ukunikela ngothando lwakho amagama akhuthazayo bese ubuyela kuye. Isikhuthazo nokwesekwa kwenza izimanga.
6. Dlulisa izinzwa
Ukuze uqinise umshado wakho, yenza umzamo owengeziwe ekuheheni izinzwa zomlingani wakho. Mbheke kahle, gqoka i-cologne noma amakha owathandayo oshade naye, sebenzisa ukuthinta ithenda kaningi futhi ugcine izwi lakho lizolile. Konke kuzokwandisa ukuheha kwakho okuzokwenza ukuthi anake. Lokho okwenzayo ngokunaka lokho kukuwe.
7.Qala ukukhathalela impilo yakho yezocansi
Ukuphela kokufanele ukukhumbule ukwenza isikhathi sakho, ukujabulele futhi ungesabi ukuzama izinto ezintsha.
8.Sebenzisa igama elithi 'L' kaningi
Ukuvuselela umshado kumayelana nothando ngakho tshela oshade naye ukuthi umthanda kakhulu. Ukuzwa, "Ngiyakuthanda" kubalulekile.
9.Lungisa leso simo sengqondo
Masithembeke, sonke sinesimo sengqondo lapho sikhungathekile noma sicasukile kepha ukunganaki kuyinto sonke esingaba nayo engaphansi. Sebenza ngendlela oxhumana ngayo ngokubhekana nokukhungatheka okunesimo esilinganayo. Kuthatha ukwenza kepha ungakwenza.
10.Yigone
Esikhundleni sokuqeda izingxabano ngenothi elibi, lihlanganyele. Yiba nokungaboni ngaso linye kwenu, nikhulume ngakho njengoba nobabili nisehlise umoya bese niyangana ekugcineni. Uthando olulandela ukungqubuzana luthi, “Ngiyakuthanda noma singazwani” futhi lusiza ukuvimbela intukuthelo.