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- Izindlela ezi-5 zokugcina ukuxhumeka okuhle kulo lonke usuku olumatasa:
- 1. Shintsha izinto odinga ukuzenza nsuku zonke, zibe ngamathuba okubophela
- 2. Ungalokothi uthathe kalula amandla okuthinta
- 3. Amanothi amancane yonke indawo
- 4. Vumela ukukhuluma komzimba nezinhloso zakho kukhulume
- 5. Memezela ukuthi amaSonto wusuku lwakho lomndeni olukhethekile
Ukuphila kwethu okumatasa, okumatasa, kwanamuhla okugcwele ubuchwepheshe, imikhuba engenampilo, amahora enwetshiwe okusebenza, nayo yonke imithwalo yethu yemfanelo engapheli, kungasishiya nezitolo zamandla eziphelile. Kungalezi zikhathi lapho uqala khona ukufisa imizuzu embalwa yesikhathi sodwa ukuvala amehlo akho imizuzwana embalwa bese uphefumula nje. Masidwebe isimo senqubo ejwayelekile yansuku zonke, ekhaya elijwayelekile. Ulwela ukuvuka embhedeni, usindiswe okwesikhashana inkomishi yekhofi, ekuhambisa esimisweni sakho sasekuseni esijwayelekile. Ngemuva kokuyeka izingane esikoleni, umisa ngokushesha kunoma yisiphi isitolo ugcina njalo iziphuzo zakho ozithandayo zamandla, ozozisebenzisa emini, ngomzamo wokukwazi okungenani ukondla, futhi ugcine okungabonakali kwakho izinga lamandla. Lapho usubuyela ekhaya, usuvele uzizwa udangele, ngoba uyazi ukuthi ishifu yakho yesibili ikulindele ngokulangazela. Okwamanje lapho ubona ukuthi yonke imisebenzi yakho yasekhaya yosuku yenziwe, ngokungazelelwe uhlangabezana nokuvalwa kohlelo okungazibandakanyi. Manje, uma ungumuntu osebenza ngokweqile, futhi usadinga ukuqedela isabelo esithile somsebenzi, izinto ziba zimbi kakhulu. Wena nophathina wakho ningahle nibe ndawonye futhi ningahlanganyela noma nixoxe ngezinto ezibaluleke ngokushesha, kepha awusoze wabiza lowo mzamo wokuxhumana, indlela yakho yokuzama ngempela ukuxhumana nomlingani wakho. Yebo, uyaziphoqa ukuthi uqedele leso sabelo esishiwo ekuqaleni, ngenkathi umlingani wakho elele, okusho ukuthi nizobona kuphela futhi nixoxe ngakusasa ekuseni.
Ngoba usukhathele futhi udangele, ngicishe ngibe nesiqiniseko sokuthi nakanjani awuzukuvuka embhedeni ngehora lesihlanu ekuseni, unamehlo aqhakazile futhi onemisila eshisayo ukuze uthathe ijubane elisheshayo, nokho eliqabulayo kanye umlingani. Ngeke ukwazi ukwenza imizamo yokuvuka kusenesikhathi ukuze ube nanoma iyiphi indlela yokuxhumana ngenkathi wazi ukuthi awusoze wasithola isikhathi saso ebusuku, noma ngabe uzama ngempela ngezinhloso ezinhle kakhulu. sidinga ukudala ezinye izindlela ezinqamulelayo nezikhathi zokuzihlanganisa nomlingani wethu.
Izindlela ezi-5 zokugcina ukuxhumeka okuhle kulo lonke usuku olumatasa:
1. Shintsha izinto odinga ukuzenza nsuku zonke, zibe ngamathuba okubophela
Udinga ukupheka noma ukulungisa ukudla nsuku zonke, mema umlingani wakho ukuthi azopheka nawe, okungenani kathathu ngesonto. Ngaphezu kwalokho, udinga ukudla. Uyawazi lowo mqondo wakudala wesikole, owawudinga ukuthi wonke umndeni udle ndawonye etafuleni, ngaphandle kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo lokuphazamiseka? Phikelela ekubuyiseni isikole esidala, ekhaya lakho. Ukuhlala ndawonye njengomndeni, okuholela esikhathini esiyigugu futhi esiyigugu sokubopha, kuzokhulisa okwakho komndeni
inhlalakahle yezobudlelwano, yezengqondo neyenhlalo.
2. Ungalokothi uthathe kalula amandla okuthinta
Ngingakuqinisekisa; maningi amathuba okuthi wena nomlingani wakho niqhubeke nihamba niseduze komunye nomunye. Esikhundleni sokumane uphuthume egumbini elilandelayo, khumbula wonke amathuba okuthola nje uthinte umlingani wakho. Lokhu kungafaka noma yini kusuka kwimpama kubhamu, ukwangana okusheshayo, ukwanga okuntshontshiwe, njll. Nginesiqiniseko sokuthi uzokwazi ukucabanga ngemibono embalwa yokudala, "ethinta ngokushesha" ongayengeza kuhlu lwakho.
3. Amanothi amancane yonke indawo
Udinga ukuthatha ishawa noma ukugeza nsuku zonke, okuholela ekuthambekeni kwengilazi nezibuko. Sebenzisa leli thuba ukushiya inothi yesithombe esidwetshiwe ngomunwe noma igama elingukhiye ukukhanyisa usuku lomlingani wakho. Izingane zakho nazo zizokujabulela ukwambulwa kwamanothi akho ayimfihlo komunye nomunye, futhi zizophinde ziqinisekiswe ngothando lwabazali bazo ngomunye nomunye. Lapho upakisha amabhokisi emini ngosuku olulandelayo, bhala inothi elisheshayo bese ulifaka ebhokisini lakhe lesidlo sasemini, bazokuthanda ukumangala okungalindelekile. Uma wenza lokho kuma okusheshayo ukuthenga iziphuzo zamandla akho, thenga umlingani wakho okuncane bese ukufihla ngaphansi komcamelo wabo, isibonelo. Ungathumela futhi umlingani wakho umyalezo osheshayo usho okuthile okufana nokuthi, “ngicabanga ngawe”, “ngikutshele kamuva nje ukuthi ngiyakuthanda?”, “Ngiyakukhumbula!”, Njll.
4. Vumela ukukhuluma komzimba nezinhloso zakho kukhulume
Uma uthola isikhathi sokubuka i-movie noma uchungechunge ndawonye, yenza umzamo wokumelana noma ukubamba umlingani wakho, awudingi ukusho noma wenze noma yini; unga nje Nethezeka futhi yiba ndawonye.
5. Memezela ukuthi amaSonto wusuku lwakho lomndeni olukhethekile
Ngokusho kososayensi, imibhangqwana ejabulayo eshadile idinga ukuchitha okungenani amahora ama-5 esikhathi sokukhuluma esezingeni ukuqinisekisa ukwaneliseka emshadweni nenjabulo. Hlela imisebenzi embalwa emnandi nejabulisayo yosuku lwakho lomndeni olukhethekile. Akudingeki ukuthi kube yinto ewubukhazikhazi futhi enhle, ipikinikini emvelweni, ukuzihambela epaki, noma ukukhipha izithombe zakho ezindala futhi uphinde ukhumbule izinkumbulo zakho ndawonye, kuzokwanela. Khumbula ukuthi akukona okwenzayo, kumayelana nokuthi kwenza wonke umuntu azizwe kanjani.
Sicela wabelane ngolwazi lwakho, ngemuva kokusebenzisa lezi ezinye izindlela. Siyayithokozela impendulo yakho futhi sihlala sibonga njalo ngelungelo lokugubha ushintsho oluhle empilweni yakho nasemshadweni wakho nawe.