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- 1. Nikezanani isikhala nobunye
- 2. Yiba nesibindi
- 3. Zenzele isokhemisi
- 4. Yiba khona komunye nomunye
- 5. Sebenzani njengeqembu
Umshado umane ugcwele impumelelo - futhi unyaka omkhulu unezinto ongazethembela ezandleni zombili.
Uma kwenzeka ulungela ukuhamba ngendlela noma usanda kushiya wonke amasiginesha adingekayo ukuze usebenzise noma yini esele yokuphila kwakho nenye ingxenye yakho, yize kukhona konke okuhle ozokuthola.
Njengoba noma yimuphi umuntu othintekile ezokwazisa, noma ngabe sebeshade isikhathi eside samashumi ayisihlanu, kunezinto eziqinisekile ezenzeka nabashadikazi ngamunye ezinyangeni eziyinhloko, ngemuva kwesikhathi eside unganakile ukuthi ngubani okuthathele leso sitsha esibi njengamanje udinga ukuhlala egumbini lakho lokulala uma kungenzeka bavakashele.
Unyaka wokuqala womshado ubaluleke ngokumangazayo enjabulweni yakho yesikhathi esizayo.
Waziwa ngokuthi “unyaka wesibopho esimanzi,” ngoba kulapho laba bantu ababili abavela kwabashadikazi benza umqondo wokuthi bangaphila kanjani njengabahambisanayo ngaphandle kokuma ngaphandle, ngaphandle kokukhula kokubi okungahle kubabambe kamuva.
Kuyithuba lokwakha izibonelo ezinhle nezindlela zokuba njengomunye okufanele uqhubeke ngokuthola noma yini esele yomshado wakho.
Qondanisa Njalo! Kunoma ibuphi ubude besikhathi nobabili ebenivulekele ngaso izinto futhi nizobambisana ngokuqhathanisa, nizolunga.
Yisikhathi esinika amandla futhi akufanele kube mnandi.
Nakhu okumbalwa okufanele ukwenze nokungafanele ukwenze ukuze uqaphele futhi ube nokuhle:
Owokuqala nokunye okuningi okuzayo -
1. Nikezanani isikhala nobunye
Yenza isikhala lapho nina nobabili nidinga ngempela ukuhlangana.
Awudingi ukuthi ikhaya lakho lizizwe njengehhovisi noma indlu yezihambi enibhekene nazo nobabili. Thenga amakhandlela anephunga elimnandi nezembozo ezintekenteke ngamasaka ukuze kwakhiwe ikhaya elijabule nelinethezekile.
Usuku olulodwa kuphela kuzo zonke izinsuku oluyingqayizivele luyoba lihle, noma lube lukhulu kakhulu, futhi lokho kufanele kulunge. Ingxoxo mayelana nezici kanye nobuhlungu kugxila. Zama ukungazikhuhli.
I-aphorism ejwayelekile ithi umshado umjaho webanga elide, hhayi ideshi.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ezinye izinsuku zizozwakala njengenkambo yokuvimbela lapho udinga ukwedlulisa umlingani wakho akhuphukele entabeni nasemgodini wodaka. Ukulungiselela ukuthi ngabe unomshado oqinile noma ngabe ngokungangabazeki ngawo "kulungile" izindlela ezinhle zokuzibekela ukudumazeka.
Ngokusobala, ungabhekana nawe, kepha isici esimnandi maqondana nokuchonywa ukuthi awudingi ukuthwala impilo uwedwa. Nikeza umlingani wakho wokuphila ithuba lokubhekana nawe njalo.
2. Yiba nesibindi
I-post-wedding blues ijwayelekile impela.
Ngemuva kwayo yonke intshiseko yomshado, kuyinto ejwayelekile ukuzizwa udunk esimweni sakho sengqondo. Kodwa-ke, ungayigcina kanjani leyo ntshisekelo emshadweni?
Qhubeka nokuzibophezela nomlingani wakho wempilo.
Angikhulumi nje ngokuxoxa ngokungajwayelekile egumbini (noma ngabe lokho kungaba ukuqala okuhle). Ungathola umthelela ofanayo ekuhloleni olunye uhlobo lokupheka ndawonye noma ukugibela uhambo olumnandi ebandleni lomcimbi.
Qhubeka nokuthola i-hang of, uthuthukise futhi uzame izinto ezintsha ndawonye.
3. Zenzele isokhemisi
Into ebaluleke kunazo zonke njengezinyoni zothando ngokukhuthazelela unyaka (onzima ngempela) wokuqala womshado, ukuthi umshado wakho awufani neze nabanye.
Okusebenzela omunye umuntu kungenzeka kungakusebenzeli.
Yamukela isaziso sokukhuthazwa nokuqonda kwabathandekayo bakho nokwethenjwa - ngaleso sikhathi yakha eyakho indlela.
Uyaziphendulela ngokujabula kwakho njalo.
4. Yiba khona komunye nomunye
Uyabalekela ubudlelwano obufaka kubo.
Uma ungamnaki ngocingo / i-PC yakho ngokungaguquguquki, uzobona ukuthi angazibandakanya kanjani ngaphandle kwakho, futhi kungekudala uzobe uhlukane nentanta.
Esimweni lapho umthuma khona ukuba athokozele amanothi noma akopishe imiyalezo ngezikhathi ezithile, uzothola ukuthi uyalulama njengombhangqwana.
Ngezikhathi ezithile, zuza okuthile akuthandayo / ungakwenzi ngaphandle kokukhononda. Ngethuba lokuthi uyindoda ehloniphekile uzoqhubeka futhi aqale ukwenza ngokufanayo. Lokho kushiwo, ungazenzi izinto ukuze uthole okuthile emuva.
Menzele izinto njengoba umthanda.
5. Sebenzani njengeqembu
Yize ngokwesiko izibopho zombhangqwana zibonakala ziyingqophamlando yezinsuku ezidlulile, uzogcina ngokwamukela umsebenzi nesikhundla ngaphakathi komshado wakho kungekudala nje emva komshado, noma ngabe ngabe lowo muntu onika umndeni imali ebalulekile noma umuntu yengamela izinto ezenzeka endlini.
Isibonelo - ukukhokha izikweletu, okokwembatha, ukuhlanza, njalonjalo. Ngokuhambisana nale migqa, kulula ukuthi omunye wenu azizwe sengathi wenza konke ngaphandle kosizo.
Zama ukungavumeli lokhu kwenzeke! Oshade naye akayena ophishekela ingqondo, futhi uma kungenzeka ukuthi udinga usizo, lucele. Nangena emshadweni wenu njengeqembu, futhi yilokho okwakufanele nibe yikho.
Akunandaba noma yini enye, khumbula ukuthi ukushaywa kusho ukuthi njengamanje unaye umuntu wokuhlala useduze naye, ngezikhathi ezinhle nezimbi, nganoma yini esele empilweni yakho.
Unyaka wokuqala womshado ungahle ungabi lula, kepha kufanele ube mnandi futhi ulayishwe ngokuhleka, umsebenzi nothando.