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- Lo mbhangqwana ungahlala ekukhetheni okuhle
- 1. Ukuthola ibhalansi elungile
- 2. Lindela okuzayo
- 3. Musa ukuqina kanzima komunye nomunye
- 4. Phakamisani ngokuqhubekayo
- 5. Impilo iyinhlanganisela yezinsuku ezinhle nezimbi
- 6. Impilo iyaqhubeka
- 7. Okomfazi
Izinga lokusweleka kwemisebenzi liphezulu enqabeni njengolunye lwezehlakalo ezinciphisa impilo nezikhathaza ingqondo.
Kodwa-ke, ngenkathi izinzuzo zalabo abangenawo umsebenzi zibhalwe kahle, kukhona okunye ukulahlekelwa okuhlala isikhathi eside kungabhekwa njengokuvamile: umlingani.
Ngenkathi bezama ukusiza abanye babo ababalulekile ngokusebenzisa isikhathi esinzima, laba besifazane bathwala i-mayhem enkulu ngokwabo. Ngenhlanhla, kunezinsizakusebenza eziningi nokuholwa kulabo ababhekene nokungasebenzi.
Lo mbhangqwana ungahlala ekukhetheni okuhle
Ukungabi namsebenzi kungashiya umuntu — kanye nabashadile — bezizwa benamandla, bebuthakathaka futhi benganakiwe. Ngempela, umlingani ofuna umsebenzi angaphishekela yonke imisebenzi ephakanyisiwe yokuthola lowo msebenzi olandelayo; kodwa-ke, kungaba yisikhathi esithile ngaphambi kokuba umyeni athole umsebenzi.
Ngenhlanhla, okwamanje, abashadikazi bangahlala ezinqumweni ezinhle ezingagcina ziqinise ubudlelwano babo.
Nazi izindlela zokubhekana nendoda engasebenzi
1. Ukuthola ibhalansi elungile
Ukungabi namsebenzi kubeka ubunzima ebudlelwaneni bomshado ngezizathu ezisobala.
Ngaphandle kobunzima bezezimali obubangela ukwakheka komndeni, umlingani wempilo oqhubeka nokusebenza ubhekana nezinkinga zakhe ekuphatheni ophethe kahle umndeni odangele, odangele.
Umlingani omsebenzi wakhe "ongawukhetha" manje uwukuphela komthombo wabangenisanayo angavele asithwale ngokungazelelwe isisindo sokukhokha izikweletu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kufanele futhi badlale indima yokuba ngumeluleki kanye nomholi we-cheerleader kumyeni ohlukumezekile, ongazinzile.
Noma yimuphi umuntu wesifazane obambeke kulesi simo uhamba umugqa omuhle phakathi komsizi onakekelayo nomeluleki.
Uma unobuntu obunakekelayo, kungadingeka ukuthi ubuke ukuthambekela kokunikeza umlingani wakho wempilo imvume yokuhlala unamathele ekuzijabuliseni nasekungenzi lutho.
Okwamanje, uma ucindezela ngokweqile, ungazibeka engcupheni yokuqhamuka ubanda futhi unonya.
2. Lindela okuzayo
Ngethuba lokuqala ngemuva kokungasebenzi, wena nohhafu wakho ongcono kufanele nihlale ndawonye nihlele amasu okufuna umsebenzi futhi nikhulume ngezindlela eningasusa ngazo noma ninciphise izingxabano ezihambisana nengcindezi yokungasebenzi.
Izinsuku ezizayo ngeke zibe lula.
Setha amakhanda enu ndawonye ukucabanga “ngohlelo lokuhlasela” - ngoba empeleni yilokho okuzodingeka ubhekane nengcindezi ebucayi enganciphisa ubudlelwano benu kulezi zimo ezinzima nezinzima.
3. Musa ukuqina kanzima komunye nomunye
Ungabhekana kanjani nomyeni ongasebenzi? Okokuqala, zijwayeze isimo sengqondo esibheka ukungasebenzi njengengxenye yesikhashana — futhi engalawuleka -.
Kunzima ukuxoshwa okuqhutshwa ngenhloso yokufuna umsebenzi.
Kodwa-ke, amathuba ukuthi omunye umsebenzi uzoholela ekuhambeni kwesikhathi uma nobabili nihlala nizibandakanye futhi nazi ohambweni lwenu. Gcina umbono ozwakalayo.
Vuleleka kulokho uNkulunkulu angazama ukukubonisa nina bobabili ngalolu lwazi.
4. Phakamisani ngokuqhubekayo
Ukuze ubhekane nendoda engasebenzi, funa okungenani ubusuku obubodwa ezinsukwini eziyisikhombisa lapho ungahlelela isikhathi sokuba wedwa noma nabangane bakho uqobo.
Siza omunye wakho obalulekile ukuthi aqonde ukuthi isikhathi osichitha kuwe sizokwenza ukwazi ukuba ngumlingani wempilo ongcono uma nimunye - ngoba kuzokwenzeka. Ngempela, noma ezikhathini ezimnandi kakhulu, kuhle ukuthuthukisa izintshisekelo zakho nezinto ozifunayo.
5. Impilo iyinhlanganisela yezinsuku ezinhle nezimbi
Ungabhekana kanjani nomyeni ongasebenzi? Into ebaluleke kakhulu ongayenza ukwamukela ukuthi uzoba nezinsuku ezinhle nezinsuku ezimbi.
Ezinsukwini ezinhle, hlola ukuthi yini eyenza zibe nkulu futhi ucabangele izindlela zokugcina amandla amnandi, ukushaya isaka ngehora elinengqondo, ukuvuka ndawonye, ukuzivocavoca ekuseni, isikhathi sokuncenga, njalonjalo.
Gcina ukujwayela kwansuku zonke noma ngabe kuningi njengokulindelekile. Yibani nesibopho esivamile, nibekele uhlelo lwenu usuku nosuku nobabili; abazoba khona ukuhlangana kwabasebenzi, amalungiselelo ngamanye, imisebenzi ezungeze indlu, njll.
6. Impilo iyaqhubeka
Ukuntuleka kwemisebenzi kungenza abantu badinge ukubuyela emuva - kepha bagweme ukuqeda ukuzibandakanya emphakathini.
Qhubeka nokuya esontweni futhi uqhubeke nezibopho zomphakathi phakathi nesonto. Nikeza okuqhubekayo nabangane. Udinga ukuqinisa manje kunanini ngaphambili - futhi naphezu kwalokho ongakubona, abangane bazohlonishwa ngokulangazelela kwakho ukubethemba.
Hlela imisebenzi ezosiza ukudedela umoya.
Phumela ngaphandle emoyeni omusha, ugibele ibhayisikili, ujabulele ipikinikini; hlela isikhathi lapho uvumelana khona ukubeka eceleni izinkathazo zomsebenzi bese ugxila kuphela ekuzijabuliseni.
Phuma futhi uvumele amandla amahle aphume emaqenjini womabili.
7. Okomfazi
Oshade naye ubhekene nesikhathi esingeqile; noma kunjalo, kunjalo.
Thandaza kuNkulunkulu ucele amandla, uzwela, ukubekezelelana nolwazi ukuze ukwazi ukudlula kule sizini yokuhlolwa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, khumbula; njengazo zonke izikhathi, nalokhu kuzodlula!