-Delile
- Indaba yethu
- Yini eyashintsha
- 1. Thola ukwesekwa owakwakho
- 2.Dala imigomo ebumbene futhi wabelane ngombono
- 3. Thola isikhathi somshado wakho
- 4. Xazulula izingxabano ngempumelelo
- 5. Uma nibambisene nabo ebhizinisini futhi abashadayo, kwenze kahle
- 6. Bopha amandla wobuntu
Osomabhizinisi besidingo bazibeka engcupheni yokufuna ukuzimela ngokwezezimali, kepha ingozi enkulu kunazo zonke ukuthi ukuqhuba ibhizinisi kungalimaza umshado wakho. Ukuhlala isikhathi eside kude nomndeni, ukucindezeleka okulethwa ekhaya, nokucindezela kwezezimali kuye kwahlukanisa imibhangqwana eminingi.
Kuhlanganiswa lapho abalingani bengabalingani bebhizinisi: imigqa phakathi komshado nomsebenzi ifiphele. Izingxabano ebudlelwaneni zivame ukuvimbela ukuqhubeka kwebhizinisi. Ubunzima bezamabhizinisi bungadala ukuthandana kube muncu.
Kodwa-ke, njengomuntu osebenzisana nomkhuba ophumelelayo wokwelapha nomkami, ngiyakutshela ukuthi ukuba namabhizinisi nakho kungakhuphula ukubambisana kwakho futhi kuqinise uthando lwenu. Ningahlangabezana ndawonye ukushesha kwempumelelo, injabulo eyabiwe yokusebenza kanzima yakho enomvuzo, kanye nokuthula kokuzinza kwezezimali. Udinga nje ukukwenza kahle.
Indaba yethu
Umkami ungowesifazane oqhutshwa, ofezekile, futhi ogxile. Ubeka ingqondo yakhe entweni ethile futhi ayifeze ngokushesha. Waphothula esikoleni samabanga aphakeme eneminyaka engu-14, wabe esethola iziqu ezimbili zasekolishi (eyodwa kwezokwakha nezokuphatha kwezokwakha) eqhubeka nomsebenzi ophumelelayo esemncane.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ngangizibandakanya ekwenzeni amafilimu nakumahlaya esiteji ngaphambi kokuba ngibe ngumelaphi. Ngisebenze kanzima ngathola imfundo, kepha akekho noyedwa ongangisola ngokuthi ngiphuthuma. Bengihlala ngenza isikhathi sokuzijabulisa futhi angikaze ngihleleke noma ngibe neqhinga njengaye.
Sashada saba nezingane ezinhlanu. Wabeka umsebenzi wakhe ukuze abakhulise futhi abafundise, ebeka ukuzinza komndeni wethu ezandleni zomuntu okwathi ngaleso sikhathi, wahola imali encane kakhulu kunaleyo ayehola ngayo, futhi owayengakujwayele ukushaya amagoli ngejubane ayewashaya ngalo .
Izikweletu ziqoqiwe. Sazama ukukugwema, kodwa sangena ezikweletini. Ngenkathi ngizizwa ngifaneleka kakhulu njengokwelapha, njengomnikazi webhizinisi ngiphuma ekujuleni kwami. Yize besisebenza amahora angama-60 (noma ngaphezulu) ngesonto, besingahambi phambili. Inkampani yethu yafaka amapeni. Ngithole izicubu zesibazi ezingunaphakade engalweni yami ngokunikela nge-plasma kasishiyagalombili ngenyanga, ngoba imali eyengeziwe engu- $ 200 yenza umehluko omkhulu ngaleso sikhathi. Ngazizwa ngingelutho futhi nginamahloni. Wayekhungathekile. Saxabana. Ukucindezela kwakunzima emshadweni wethu.Ngakhuluphala kakhulu. Ngalwa nenkinga. Wayenenkinga yokudangala.
Yini eyashintsha
Okokuqala, sibhalisele ukuqeqeshwa kwebhizinisi okungabiza unyaka wonke. Kwakunamandla kakhulu, futhi kwakudingeka siphinde sakhe kabusha futhi sakhe kabusha imodeli yebhizinisi lethu kusuka phansi. Izindima zishintshile njengoba eba yi-CEO (egxile kwezamabhizinisi nakwezokumaketha) futhi ngaba ngumqondisi womtholampilo (ngigxile kwizidingo zamakhasimende nokuqashwa nokuqeqeshwa kwabelaphi abasha). Silandela ukuholwa ngumqeqeshi wethu, saqala ukusungula ngezifundo zobudlelwano eziku-inthanethi ukufinyelela izithameli ezibanzi ngaphandle kwezwe lethu.
Kusebenzile. Ibhizinisi lethu lajika laqala ukuchuma.
Kanjalo nomshado wethu.
Ngezikhathi zasebusuku nokusebenza kanzima, saba yiqembu kakhulu kunangaphambili, sidlala ngamandla ethu futhi sathola ukwaneliseka ekwakheni okuthile ndawonye esiziqhenyayo ngakho, okuthile obekunganikeza ukuphepha emndenini wethu.
Ngaleso sikhathi, sifunde nokuncane mayelana nokulinganisa ubunikazi bebhizinisi nokunakekela umshado. Uma ushadile futhi uqhuba inkampani, noma ngabe usebenza noshade naye noma cha, lesi seluleko esakho.
1. Thola ukwesekwa owakwakho
Noma manje noma ngesinye isikhathi phansi komugqa, izingqinamba oshade naye uzobhekana nokuthi uliphatha kanjani ibhizinisi lakho. Kungaba izingqinamba zemali, isikhathi ongasichithi nomndeni wakho, ukusebenza ngokukhokhela i-sex drive yakho, ukucasuka, ingcindezi, noma enye into ngokuphelele. Ngenkathi isimo sakho esithile singadinga ukunakwa ekwelulekeni, imvamisa udinga ukwesekwa ngoshade naye uma nizoba nobabili umshado futhi ibhizinisi.
Lalela umlingani wakho. Thobeka futhi ube nezimo. Sebenzisa izinguquko ukuchitha isikhathi esithe xaxa nomndeni wakho. Susa izinto eziningi epuletini lakho (ngokuzidlulisela noma ngokuzisebenzisa) ngangokunokwenzeka. Uma kukhona izigaxa emgwaqweni, kodwa unomshado omuhle, sebenza ngazo! Thola usizo: akunamahloni ngokucela usizo lomeluleki. Kuwuphawu lokuhlakanipha, hhayi ukwehluleka, ukuthola amakhono okugcina ukungaboni ngaso linye kulawuleka esikhundleni sokulinda kuze kube kukhulu.
Kodwa-ke, uma oshade naye angawasekeli amaphupho akho, ehlukumeza, enganaki, noma elawula, iseluleko sami ukuthola usizo noma ukuphuma! Ukumelana kwabo namaphupho akho kungaba yimbangela yokuphela okungenakugwemeka. Ungakhululeka ukuba ngumuntu ongcono kakhulu kuwe. Kepha nguwe kuphela ongathatha leso sinqumo.
2.Dala imigomo ebumbene futhi wabelane ngombono
Wena nomlingani wakho nidinga ukudonsa ndawonye kunokuba nihlukane. Kudingeka ukuthi nobabili nilwe nezwe, hhayi nobabili nimelene. Hlela izinhloso ndawonye ngomshado wakho, ibhizinisi lakho, nomndeni wakho. Yiba nomhlangano wokuhlela masonto onke (owaziwa nangokuthi “umkhandlu wabashadikazi”) ukuhlela isonto lakho, ukuzwakalisa ukuncoma, nokuxazulula izingxabano, kanye nokubeka nokubika ngezinhloso.
3. Thola isikhathi somshado wakho
Khulisa umshado wakho ngaphezu kokuhola kwakho. Njengesitshalo, umshado wakho ungabuna ngenxa yokunganakwa. Udinga ukwenza isikhathi sokunisela futhi unikeze ilanga lakho emshadweni wakho ngenkathi ukhulisa ibhizinisi lakho. Indlela engcono yokuthola isikhathi somshado wakho ukuphathwa kahle kwemisebenzi. Susa ebhizinisini lakho leyo mikhuba engalethi imiphumela. Shintsha izinsiza ezingenziwa umshini, iwebhusayithi, noma uhlelo lokusebenza. Thumela imisebenzi engakwenzi unayo okuzokwenziwa nguwe.
Uma kukhulunywa ngesikhathi sakho ekhaya, ubuningi be-trumps obuningi. Yiba khona lapho ukhona. Beka umsebenzi eceleni ukuze uxhumane nowakwakho nezingane zakho lapho usekhaya. Lokhu kulula kakhulu uma uhlela isikhathi esingaphikisani nomndeni wakho, lapho izibopho zomsebenzi zingavunyelwe ukuphazamisa. Yenza usuku lwasebusuku lube yinto eza kuqala.
Khumbula, uyazisebenzela! Awunaye umphathi ongafuna ukuthi uthathe isikhathi kude nomndeni; nguwe wedwa onesibopho salokho kukhetha. Vele, kungavela izimo eziphuthumayo zomsebenzi ezikususa esikhathini somndeni esihleliwe, kepha lezo kufanele kube okuhlukile, hhayi umthetho, futhi leso sikhathi kufanele usenze kumlingani wakho nasezinganeni.
Ungadidanisi ukuhlinzekela umndeni wakho ngempumelelo. Umndeni wakho udinga ikhaya nokudla, yebo, kepha nabo bayakudinga. Isikhathi sakho, uthando lwakho, nokunaka kwakho. Qiniseka ukuthi wenza isikhathi ngabo. Uma uqala ukubona umndeni wakho njengesithiyo ezinhlosweni zebhizinisi lakho, sekuyisikhathi sokuthi uzibeke phambili
4. Xazulula izingxabano ngempumelelo
Ingxabano ingawuhlukanisa umshado wakho, kepha imfihlo enkulu ukuthi ingakwazi futhi ukuhlanganisa izinhliziyo zenu. Uma uphethwe kahle, ungakwenzela iqembu eliningi. Ungazami ukuxazulula izinto lapho uthukuthele. Yima wehlise umoya. Khomba ukuthi uzizwa kanjani ngempela (ulimele, wesaba, unamahloni, njll.) Bese ukuveza lokho esikhundleni sentukuthelo. Zama ukubona izinto ngombono womlingani wakho futhi uveze uzwela nokuziphendulela.
5. Uma nibambisene nabo ebhizinisini futhi abashadayo, kwenze kahle
Ukungena ebhizinisini ndawonye kunezela ukucindezeleka futhi kusebenze emshadweni wakho. Kunzima ukwazi ukuthi ibhizinisi liqala kuphi nokuthi umshado uqala kuphi. Imigqa phakathi kwalaba bobabili iyafiphala. Ukukhungatheka komunye umkhawulo kuvame ukungena komunye.
Kodwa-ke, uma ukwenza kahle, ukuqhuba ibhizinisi ndawonye kungakunika ukuthokozisa okuhlanganisayo kokulandela nokufeza izinhloso ezabiwe. Kungakhulisa ubunye ngenhloso kanye nomsebenzi ohlanganyelwe.
Ngakho-ke uyenza kanjani isebenze? Okokuqala, chaza ngokucacile izibopho. Ngubani owengamele ukuthengisa? Ubuholi (ukuqhuba iqembu)? Ezezimali? Insizakalo yekhasimende? Zokuthuthukisa umkhiqizo? Uma kunokugqagqana, ngubani obika kubani kuleyo ndawo? Ngubani ekugcineni ophethe endaweni enikeziwe? Hlunga lokhu bese udlala ngamandla akho.
Zibekele imigomo emikhulu, bese kuba nemigomo emincane ukukusiza ukuyifeza. Bika komunye nomunye ngezinhloso zebhizinisi lakho emhlanganweni wabashadikazi bakho wamasonto onke. Impela yiba ngabajabuli bomunye nomunye, kepha yiba nokuzethemba okwanele kokunikeza nokwamukela impendulo ethembekile nokulungiswa ngaphandle kokuzivikela.
Ngaphezu kwakho konke, lapho kufanele, yenza umsebenzi ube mnandi futhi ube nothando! Sibe “nobusuku bezinsuku zokusebenza” eziningi lapho sivula khona umculo, si-oda ukudla, futhi sisebenze kumaphrojekthi ngenkathi sizijabulisa.
6. Bopha amandla wobuntu
Kunezinhlobo ezine zobuntu eziyisisekelo. Abaphuphi, Abacabangi, Abaphilisi, nabaValayo.
Abaphuphi baqhutshwa yimibono nobumnandi. Zimnandi ngokuqamba izinto ezintsha, zigcina amandla ephezulu, futhi zigcina abantu benethemba. Bangase balwe nokuphazamiseka nokungahleleki kahle. Uma oshade naye engumphuphi, hlonipha amandla abo. Vumela ukuthi benze izinto zibe mnandi. Yazi ukuthi ukusebenzisa kwabo amahlaya akuchazwanga njengokungahloniphi. Basize ngokulandela.
Abacabangi baqhutshwa imininingwane nolwazi. Banembile futhi banakisisa, bacabangisisa izinto futhi benze ucwaningo lwabo. Zingaba ezomtholampilo futhi ezingathandeki. Bangase futhi bathole “nokukhubazeka kokuhlaziywa,” behluleke ukuthatha isinyathelo kuze kube "konke kulungile." Uma oshade naye ecabanga kahle, zwakalisa ukuncoma nokubonga ngeminikelo yabo. Gwinya ukuziqhenya kwakho, uthathe iziphakamiso, futhi uvume uma beqinisile. Basize benze okuthile.
Izinyanga ziqhutshwa ukuxhumana. Bangabalaleli abahle futhi bayazwelana. Ngezinye izikhathi bayazwela ngokweqile, bacasuke kalula, futhi "bayakhipha". Uma oshade naye engumelaphi, vumela bakududuze. Cabanga ngamazwi akho futhi ugweme ukwenza ukuhlasela komuntu siqu. Balalele bese uwaqinisekisa, ungajahi ukulungisa. Basize ukumela izindinganiso nemibono yabo.
Ama-Closers aqhutshwa impumelelo nokufeza. Benza izinto zenziwe futhi bathole indlela yokunqoba izithiyo. Bangancintisana ngokweqile futhi babe buthakathaka kuze kufike ezingeni lokuba nokhahlo. Uma ushade nomuntu osondelene naye, yenza lokho othi uzokwenza. Sebenza kahle noma uphume endleleni yabo. Yiba oqondile, ungavikeleki, futhi uqaphele ukuthi ubuhlalu babo abuhloselwe ukulimaza.
Ukufaka lolu lwazi kube wusizo olukhulu emshadweni nakumabhizinisi ethu. Sethemba ukuthi kuzokwenza okufanayo nakowakho.