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- 1. Mncome futhi umtshele ukuthi yini oyithandayo ngaye
- 2. Hambani ndawonye niye kohambo olusha
- 3. Sebenzisa amanothi othando, imibhalo nalokho akuthandayo
- 4. Mnike isikhala sokuphumula futhi abe nguyena
Ngabe ubenza kanjani ubuhlobo bakho bube ngomlingo?
Ngabe ikhona imibono elula, emnandi futhi ezenzekelayo engabandakanyi ukushisa imbobo enkulu ephaketheni, ubukhulu, nokusiza ekwakheni impilo yothando egculisayo?
Ngaphambi kokujula emibonweni yothando ukukusiza uthuthukise ubudlelwano bakho futhi wakhe ezothando empilweni yakho yothando, ake sizijwayeze ngekhanda ukuthi abesilisa nabesifazane bahluke kanjani kwezothando.
Abesilisa babheka ezothando nge-lens ehlukile uma kuqhathaniswa nabesifazane.
Umbono wabesifazane wezothando ukutshala imali nokuthuthukisa ubudlelwane ngokuba nengxoxo ende nokuchitha isikhathi ndawonye, kodwa umqondo wamadoda uhluke kakhulu.
Amadoda ajwayele ukusabela kangcono kakhulu uma ethinta noma ezibonela izinto.
Amabhayisikobho nezincwadi ezikhuluma ngomshado wothando noma amathiphu wokubuyisa uthando, noma wakhe umbono wokuthi imvamisa kuyindoda eyenza imizamo yokuthandana nowesifazane, ukumheha ngentelezi yakhe nokwenza izinto ezomenza amoyizele futhi amthande.
Kepha iqiniso yilokho amadoda athanda futhi ajabulele ukuthandana njengabesifazane.
Yize zingashukunyiswa ncamashi yizimpawu ezithandwa ngabesifazane, kunezinto ezimbalwa ongazenza ukumenza athandane.
Okushiwo ngezansi kunamathiphu ambalwa wokuthi ungamenza kanjani umyeni wakho abe nothando.
Bheka futhi le vidiyo ngezeluleko zothando zomyeni nenkosikazi:
Lezi izindlela ezinhle zokuguqula umlingani wakho abe ngumyeni othandana kakhulu futhi ugcine umshado wakho uphilile futhi uphumelela.
Imibono yothando yokwengeza ezothando empilweni yakho yansuku zonke
1. Mncome futhi umtshele ukuthi yini oyithandayo ngaye
Awudingi ukushukuma komzimba okuhle okuzungeze ukuthi ungamenza kanjani ukuba athandane ngokwengeziwe.
Noma ngubani angathandana nomunye walezi zeluleko zothando.
Ukwazi ukuthi ungalunga kanjani ngamagama kungenza izinto zivele kakhulu.
Sonke sifuna ukuthandwa, ukwaziswa nokwazi ukuthi sisho umhlaba kothile. Amadoda awahlukile futhi ajabulela ukunconywa kakhulu.
Kufanele ukhumbuze umyeni wakho ngazo zonke izinto ozithandayo ngaye kuye kumenze azizwe eziswa futhi eqinisekiswa.
Lokhu kungaba yinoma yini efana nokuthi mhlawumbe umtshele ukuthi umthanda kangakanani angakwenza uhleke nganoma yini noma ukuthi uzizwa uphephe kakhulu kuye futhi uma unezingane, ungamtshela nokuthi wenza umsebenzi omuhle njenge ubaba.
Embuzweni ovame ukubuzwa, ungayenza kanjani indoda ibe yothando, yenza ukuncoma kube yingxenye yesimiso sakho sansuku zonke.
Menze azi ukuthi uthanda ukubukeka kwakhe okusha ngezinwele zobuso noma mhlawumbe nokuthi ukudla akupheke ngempelasonto edlule bekungokunye okuhle kakhulu owake wakwenza!
Kungaba yinoma yini, hlanganisa amagama kodwa noma yini oyishoyo, yisho ngobuqotho.
Kalula nje, ukuthi ungamenza kanjani umuntu wakho athandane, qiniseka ukuthi uyazi ukuthi uyamkhathalela futhi uyakujabulela ukuba naye.
2. Hambani ndawonye niye kohambo olusha
Ufuna imibono yothando ngomyeni noma ukuthi uthandana kanjani nomyeni?
Ngemuva kwalokho lena ingenye yemibono eyinhloko yothando. Linganisa ubuhlakani ebudlelwaneni bakho.
Ukwenza okuthile okusha nokudala kwenza nobudlelwano bakho buzizwe busha.
Ukuchitha isikhathi ndawonye futhi nijabulelane nomunye kuyindlela enhle yokuvuselela ilangabi ebudlelwaneni bakho.
Uma kunokuthile umyeni wakho abekade efuna ukukuzama njengokushushuluza eqhweni noma ukuzama indawo yokudlela entsha yedolobha, kuhlele bese uhamba ukukwenza konke ndawonye.
Shiya izingane ngemuva nomuntu ogcina izingane bese ushiya zonke izinkulumo zasekhaya ngemuva lapho ubalekela ukuphuma ebusuku noma ubaleke ngempelasonto.
Iya emapikinikini, ukuhamba amabanga amade, ukushayela, ukuhamba izintaba noma ukukhempa, zama okuthile okusha njalo.
Kumicimbi ekhethekile enjengezinsuku zokuzalwa kanye nesikhumbuzo, hlela kusengaphambili uhambo lwamaholide oluya ezindaweni eziyinqaba, kwenye indawo engenye yezindlela ezinhle kakhulu zokwenza umyeni wakho athandane kakhulu noma afake umyeni wakho esimweni sothando.
3. Sebenzisa amanothi othando, imibhalo nalokho akuthandayo
Yokuthi ungathandana kanjani, lena iyisigaxa segolide kuhlu lwamathiphu ezothando.
Lokhu kungenye yezinto zokuqala eziqhamukayo emqondweni wakho lapho ucabanga ukuthi ungenza kanjani ukuthi umyeni wakho athandane.
Kuyinto emnandi futhi egangile.
- Ungamthumelela umbhalo oyisoso emsebenzini noma ufake inothi lothando ephaketheni langaphakathi lebhantshi lakhe.
- Sondela eduze kwakhe futhi uhlebe ama-nothings amnandi lapho uphuma emphakathini
- Bhala okuthile okuhlekisayo noma okulinganiselwe ku-napkin ngaphambi kokukudlulisela kuye lapho uzodla isidlo sakusihlwa.
Yonke le mibono yothando ngokuqinisekile izobeka ukumamatheka ebusweni bakhe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, yenza okuningi kwezinto owaziyo ukuthi uyazithanda.
- Uma umlingani wakho ekuthanda ukudla, mphekele ukudla akuthandayo.
- Uma ethanda ukuhamba, hlela uhambo olumnandi.
- Noma ethanda ingubo ethile kuwe, yigqoke ngokuzayo lapho niphuma.
Uyokwazisa ukuthi uyabacabangela futhi ubhekane nabo bonke ubunzima ukuze umjabulise.
Ngiyethemba, lokho futhi kuyaphendula ukuthi ungathandana kanjani nomyeni wakho futhi ungalokothi ubeke ezothando emhlane ngenxa yokuphazamiseka kwempilo.
4. Mnike isikhala sokuphumula futhi abe nguyena
Kwesinye isikhathi, sonke sifisa ukuthi kube nomuntu obengenza ingxenye yethu yomsebenzi ukuze sihlale phansi siphumule.
Asikwazi ukusiza kepha sikhonze ukuthi umuntu osisizayo senze imisebenzi yasekhaya asisekela kunoma yini esiyenzayo.
Ngakho-ke, nayi enye yezeluleko ezinhle kakhulu zothando.
Nikeza umyeni wakho isikhathi sokuphumula lapho ebuya ekhaya ngemuva kosuku olude esemsebenzini noma ucindezeleke ngempela ngenxa yomsebenzi.
Mbuyisele ama-rubs noma ama-massage futhi enze ezinye izinto endlini njengokukhipha udoti ajwayele ukukwenza.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, Isikhathi sabafana sibaluleke ngokulinganayo kumyeni wakho njengoba isikhathi samantombazane nawe sibalulekile.
Mkhuthaze ukuthi aphume nabangani bakhe bayophuza iziphuzo noma ayobuka iqembu lakhe alithandayo lidlala ngenkathi unakekela izingane nendlu ngenkathi engekho.
Uzokuthanda ukuthi usekela ilungelo lakhe lokweqa isikhashana ukuze azijabulise nabangane bakhe.
Ngale mibono yothando ngaye, ungangezelela ezothando emshadweni wakho, uphethiloli obaluleke kakhulu ogcina ubudlelwane buqhubekela phambili.
Ngokwazisa umyeni wakho, ungamenza athandane naye.
Yenza okunye kwakho okuphawulekayo uzizwe uthandwa ngemibono ehlanganyelwe engenhla futhi elula yothando, futhi ubudlelwano bakho buzozizwa busha futhi buhle njengobusha.