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- 1. Shintsha isifungo sendabuko
- 2. Bhala izifungo zakho
- 3. Bheka ngaphandle kwebhokisi ukuthola izifungo
- 4. Ukuzijwayeza kwenza kuphelele
Umshado womphakathi umshado owenziwa noma owamukelwa isikhulu sikahulumeni kunokuba umuntu okholwayo owengamele umcimbi wenkolo.
Imishado yomphakathi inomlando obanzi — kunamarekhodi emishado yomphakathi ebuyela emuva ezinkulungwaneni zeminyaka — futhi imibhangqwana eminingi ikhetha ukuba nemishado yombango kunemikhosi yezenkolo ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukahlukene.
Kukhona ngisho nemibhangqwana yezenkolo ekhethe ukuba nomcimbi womphakathi, kungaba yodwa noma kuhlanganiswe nomkhosi wenkolo ngemuva kokushada ngokusemthethweni.
Ukuthi ukhetha umcimbi wenkolo noma womphakathi isici esiyinhloko somshado wakho kungaba ukubhala izifungo zomkhosi wakho womshado. Umshado izithembiso ziveza isithembiso imibhangqwana esithembisana sona emshadweni wabo ukucabanga ngothando nokuzinikela kwabo komunye nomunye.
Ukubhala izethembiso zomcimbi womshado kuyisiko lasendulo futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi sekuthandane kakhulu. Kunezibonelo eziningi ezinhle zokuthembisa umshado wendabuko nezomphakathi zokwenza umshado wakho ube ngowakho futhi uwenze ukhetheke ngokwengeziwe.
Uma wena nomlingani wakho ninqume ukuba nomshado womphakathi, ungahle uzibuze ngezifungo zakho zomshado womphakathi. Uma ulungiselela umshado wakho womphakathi, nazi izeluleko namasu amane wokubhala izithembiso zomshado eziphelele zomphakathi.
1. Shintsha isifungo sendabuko
Umqondo wesithembiso somshado ukwenza izithembiso ezithile bese uzibophezela kumlingani wakho. Akunandaba noma ngabe izifungo zingokwesiko ngokwengeziwe noma ngaphansi, inhloso yazo ihlala ifana.
Lokho kushiwo uma ubhekene nezinselelo ezithile ekubhaleni izifungo zakho ungahlala njalo thola izithembiso zomshado zendabuko ozithandayo bese uzifaka ukuze ungeze okuzwakala kulungile okwakho nomlingani wakho
EsiNgisini, izifungo zomshado zendabuko ezijwayelekile zivame ukuhlotshaniswa nomcimbi womshado wenkolo — kepha lokho akusho ukuthi awukwazi ukukusebenzisa kancane ekusebenzeleni kwakho umphakathi.
Uma ufuna ukusebenzisa izifungo zomshado zendabuko, kepha ungafisi ukuba nomyalezo wenkolo kuzo, konke okudingeka ukwenze ezifungweni eziningi zendabuko ukushintsha amagama ambalwa lapha nalaphaya.
2. Bhala izifungo zakho
Kuya ngokuya kujwayelekile kubantu abashadile, umshado womphakathi noma okunye, ukubhala izifungo zabo. Uma ungeke ukwazi ukuthola izethembiso ezifanele ezibhalwe ngaphambilini zomshado womphakathi, noma umane nje ufuna ukwenza izifungo zakho zibe ngezakho, lapho-ke ukubhala izifungo zakho kuyisinqumo esihle kakhulu.
Izifungo zakho zingasho noma yini oyifunayo-Ungaveza amathemba akho nezifiso zakho ngekusasa nomlingani wakho, ungakhuluma ngokuthi uhlangane kanjani, noma ukuthi ubathanda kangakanani, noma ukuzibophezela nothando lwakho.
Qiniseka ukuthi bhala phansi imibono yakho ngezifungo zakho zomkhosi womphakathi, asikho isidingo sokukhathazeka ngemisho ephindaphindwe ngokuphelele. Umqondo ukubhala okuningi ngangokunokwenzeka bese uqala ukukupholisha.
Isizathu sokubhala izifungo zakho zomshado womphakathi ukwenza umcimbi ube ngowomuntu uqobo ngakho-ke qala ngokuzibuza imibuzo elula efana nokuthi, nihlangane kanjani ?, kuphi okokuqala futhi lapho nihlangana khona?
Yini eyakukhanga kumlingani wakho? Ubeqiniseka nini ukuthi nguyena? Kusho ukuthini ukushada kuwe ?, futhi iyiphi indima ongayidlala ukwakha ikusasa lomunye nomunye emshadweni wakho?
Kunjalo, uma unenkinga encane yokubhala izifungo zakho, ungesabi ukucela usizo kothandiweyo wakho. Ungacwaninga futhi ngezifungo zomshado zezinye izithandani ukuthola umbono ofanele ngokuthi kufanele kube ithoni yezifungo zakho noma ukuthi kufanele kube yisifungo esingakanani.
3. Bheka ngaphandle kwebhokisi ukuthola izifungo
Iningi lezithembiso zomshado wendabuko zivela ezincwadini zenkolo noma emikhosini yakudala yenkolo eye yanikezwa emakhulwini eminyaka adlule.
Kodwa wena akudingeki ucabange ngaphakathi kwebhokisi uma kukhulunywa ngezifungo zakho zomshado womphakathi; kunemithombo eminingi ehlukene yezingcaphuno nezifungo ezingahlobene nenkolo noma imibhalo yenkolo.
Okulandelayo kumane nje kuyi- imibono embalwa lapho ungathola khona izingcaphuno ezikhuthazayo noma imiyalezo yezifungo zakho zomshado womphakathi:
- Izincwadi
- Imibukiso yamafilimu / ye-TV
- Izinkondlo
- Izingoma
- Izilinganiso zomuntu siqu
Imibhangqwana eminingi ekhetha ukusebenzisa izincwadi, ifilimu noma izingcaphuno zomculo ezifungweni zomshado womphakathi ikhetha lezi zingcaphuno kuzintandokazi zazo — noma zabalingani bazo.
Lokhu kwenza izifungo zibe ngezomuntu uqobo futhi kungaba yindlela enhle yokukhombisa umlingani wakho ukuthi ubakhathalele kangakanani. Vele, ungahle ungene enkingeni yokuthola isilinganiso esifanele sesifungo uma ibhayisikobho oyithandayo yomlingani wakho ifana neGhostbusters!
4. Ukuzijwayeza kwenza kuphelele
Noma yakho izithembiso zifaka imizwa ejulile yothando nozwela onayo kumlingani wakho uma kukhulunywa ngawe umi e-altare futhi uwasho ungazithola ukhohlwa amagama afanele.
Akunandaba ukuthi kungazwakala kunzima kangakanani noma kuyisithutha kepha ukuqhuba izifungo zakho kungenye yezindlela ezinhle kakhulu zokuzithuthukisa. Ukuzilolongela izifungo zomshado womphakathi ngokuzwakalayo eshaweni noma phambi kwesibuko kukunikeza umbono omuhle wokuthi zilunge kangakanani futhi kukusiza nokuthi uzibambe ngekhanda ngokuzayo.
Zilalele ukuze ubone ukuthi izifungo zakho zizwakala zilula futhi ziyaxoxa noma ngabe kukhona noma yiziphi izigaxa zolimi nemisho emide edinga ukusetshenzwa.
Lezi zeluleko namasu kungalandelwa ukwenza ukubhala izifungo zakho kube lula, kepha khumbula ukulalela inhliziyo yakho futhi ujabule ngokwakha lezi zifungo ezinengqondo!