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- Umlando womshado wobulili obufanayo nomshado wezitabane e-US
- Ukubusa kuka-2015
- Izinzuzo zezimali
- Izinzuzo ezingokomzwelo
- Izinzuzo zezingane
UMshado Wokulingana e-USA yigama lenhlangano eyasungulwa ngonyaka we-1996, eyaziwa nangokuthi yi-MEUSA. Yinhlangano engenzi nzuzo ebhalisiwe ephethwe amavolontiya ngenhloso yokukhuthaza ukulingana komphakathi we-LGBTQ (abesilisa abathandana nabobulili obufanayo, abesilisa abesilisa nabesifazane, abesilisa nabesifazane, abesilisa nabesifazane). Inhloso yabo ukufuna ukuthi umshado wobulili obufanayo ubhaliswe ngokusemthethweni noma banikezwe amalungelo alinganayo omshado anikezwa imibhangqwana nemindeni ye-LGBTQ.
Ngo-1998, le nhlangano yaqala njenge-Equality Through Marriage, .kwaze kwaba ne-workshop yayo yokuqala ebizwa nge-Marriage Equality 101 ukufundisa ngokubaluleka komshado.
Umlando womshado wobulili obufanayo nomshado wezitabane e-US
Ngo-1924, Inhlangano Yamalungelo Esintu yokuqala yasungulwa eChicago ukuze kwenziwe ngokusemthethweni umshado wezitabane. Le Nhlangano kaHenry Gerber iphinde yethula iphephandaba lokuqala lezitabane ngenhloso yokuthakazelisa umphakathi we-LGBTQ.
Ngo-1928, Kwashicilelwa uRadclyffe Hall, imbongi eyiNgisi, nomlobi ‘Umthombo Wesizungu’ lokho kwadala izimpikiswano eziningi. Nangesikhathi seMpi Yezwe II, amaNazi afanekisela amadoda anjalo ngebheji lePinki Triangle futhi awanikela kubanukubezi bezocansi.
Ngo-1950, IMatachine Foundation yasungulwa nguHarry Hay njengeqembu lesizwe lamalungelo ezitabane eLos Angeles. Inhloso bekuwukuthuthukisa izimpilo zomphakathi we-LGBTQ.
Ngo-1960, amalungelo ezitabane athola umfutho nabantu baqala ukuphuma kakhulu kunakuqala bezokhuluma ngembangela. Izwe lase-Illinois laba ngelokuqala ukwedlulisa umthetho wokunqanda ubungqingili.
Eminyakeni embalwa kamuva, ngo-1969, kwenzeka iShiwallwall Riots. Ngokusho kwemithombo, lokhu kuvukela kwaseStonewall kube neqhaza ekuqaliseni inhlangano enamandla yamalungelo ezitabane e-USA nasemhlabeni wonke.
Ngo-1970, eminye imiphakathi yaseNew York City yamasha kukhunjulwa Iziphithiphithi Zase-Stonewall.
Ngo-1977, iNkantolo Ephakeme yaphuma nesinqumo sokuthi uRenée Richards, owesifazane oguqula ubulili, unelungelo lokudlala umqhudelwano wethenisi wase-United States Open. Amandla anjalo abeyindlela enhle yokuhlinzeka ngamalungelo abantu emphakathini we-LGBTQ. Ngokushesha ngo-1978, uHarvey Milk, indoda eyisitabane evulelekile, wathola isikhundla ehhovisi lomphakathi laseMelika.
Ngo-1992, UBill Clinton weza nenqubomgomo ethi “Ungabuzi, Ungatsheli” (DADT) enikeza abesilisa nabesifazane abayizitabane ilungelo lokusebenza ebusosheni ngaphandle kokudalula ukuthi bangobani. Le nqubomgomo ayizange yesekwe ngumphakathi futhi yachithwa ngo-2011.
Ngo-1992, Isifunda saseColumbia saba umbuso wokuqala ukubhalisa ngokusemthethweni imishado yezitabane nokubhaliswa njengabalingani basekhaya. Kodwa-ke, lapho umshado wobulili obufanayo ubhaliswa ngokusemthethweni, eminyakeni ethile kamuva, ngo-1998, iNkantolo Ephakeme yaseHawaii yakhipha ukuvinjelwa komshado wezitabane.
Ngo-2009, UMengameli uBarrack Obama unikeze uMengameli waseMatthew Shepard umthetho oqonde ukuthi konke ukuhlaselwa okususelwa ekuziphatheni ngokocansi kuyicala.
Ngakho-ke, wavunyelwa nini umshado wezitabane eMelika?
IMassachusetts yaba yisifundazwe sokuqala sokubhalisa ngokomthetho umshado wabantu bobulili obufanayo, futhi umshado wokuqala onjalo wenziwa Meyi 17, 2004. Ngalolu suku, eminye imibhangqwana engama-27 yashada ngemuva kokuthola amalungelo kuhulumeni.
E-USA nangale kwawo
Kusukela ngoJulayi 2015, zonke izifunda ezingamashumi amahlanu zase-USA zinamalungelo alinganayo omshado wabobulili obufanayo nabashadile. Vuliwe Juni 26, 2015, iNkantolo Ephakeme yase-United States yakhipha isinqumo esivuna ukulingana kwemishado, ngokombono weningi, futhi yanikeza imvume yomthetho womshado wobulili obufanayo.
Lokhu akuholelanga emalungelweni alinganayo kuphela kepha nasekuvikelweni okulinganayo emshadweni womshado.
Ukubusa kuka-2015
Isinqumo sifundeke kanje:
Abukho ubumbano obujule ngaphezu komshado, ngoba buqukethe izinhloso eziphakeme zothando, ukuthembeka, ukuzinikela, ukuzidela nomndeni. Ekwakheni umshado, abantu ababili baba yinto enkulu kunakuqala. Njengoba abanye abakhongi kulezi zimo bekhombisa, umshado uhlanganisa uthando olungabekezelela nokufa kwangaphambilini. Kungabaqondi kahle laba besilisa nabesifazane ukusho ukuthi bayawuhlonipha umqondo womshado. Ukunxusa kwabo ukuthi bayakuhlonipha, bakuhloniphe ngokujule kangangokuba bafuna ukuthola ukuzigcwalisa kwabo. Ithemba labo akufanele ligwetshwe ukuhlala ngesizungu, likhishwe kwesinye sezikhungo ezindala kakhulu zempucuko. Bacela isithunzi esilinganayo emehlweni omthetho. UMthethosisekelo ubanikeza lelo lungelo.
Ngaphandle kwe-USA, kunamanye amazwe amaningi emhlabeni avumela abashadikazi bobulili obufanayo ukuthi bashade. Lokhu kufaka phakathi, phakathi kokunye, iNetherlands, iBelgium, iSpain, iNingizimu Afrika, i-Uruguay, iNew Zealand neCanada.
Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, isenzo sokulingana emshadweni sesithole ukwamukelwa. Ngokusho kwe-USA Today,
Bangaphezu kuka-500,000 imibhangqwana yobulili obufanayo e-United States abashadile, kufaka phakathi ababalelwa ku-300,000 abashade kusukela ngesinqumo sango-2015.
Kwelinye lamavidiyo ajabulise kakhulu ngezansi, bheka indlela umphakathi osabele ngayo ngemuva kokuwinwa kwempi ende:
Izinzuzo zezimali
Enye indawo ebaluleke kakhulu kunoma imuphi umbhangqwana oshadile yizimali kanye nengxenye yokwabelana ngezimali emshadweni.
E-USA, kunenombolo ebonakalayo yezinzuzo ze-Federal nezibopho ezisebenza kubantu abashadile kuphela. Uma kukhulunywa ngezinto ezifana nempesheni nokuvikeleka komphakathi, abashadile bangazuza ngokwezezimali. Umbhangqwana oshadile uphathwa njengeyunithi ngokuya ngezintela ezihlangene, kanye nezinqubomgomo zomshwalense ezihlangene.
Izinzuzo ezingokomzwelo
Ngemuva kwemithetho yokulingana emshadweni, abantu abashadile bavame ukujabulela izinzuzo ezingokomzwelo futhi baphila isikhathi eside kunaleso esingashadile. Kukholakala ukuthi ukugodla ilungelo lokushada kuyalimaza impilo yengqondo yabantu abashadile. Ngokulingana komshado, bangajabulela uhlobo olufanayo lwesimo, ukuphepha, nokwaziwa njengabalingani babo bobulili obuhlukile.
Izinzuzo zezingane
Esinqumweni seNkantolo Ephakeme sokulingana emshadweni, ukwehluleka okubonakalayo kwabantu bobulili obufanayo ukukhiqiza izingane akubonwanga njengesizathu esanele sokungashadi. Lesi sinqumo sifake inhloso yokuvikela izingane ezitholwe ngezinye izindlela emshadweni wobulili obufanayo.
Ngokuvamile kuyazuzisa ukuthi ingane ibe nabazali abanobudlelwano obusemthethweni, kufaka phakathi izinzuzo zomthetho nokuvikelwa okungokomthetho.
Ukumiswa ngokusemthethweni komshado wezitabane kube yimpi ende ekude kakhulu ukuyenza. Kepha azibanga khona izindaba ezijabulisayo zokuthi yonke imizamo, izimpi nobunzima bekufanele. Kuyinqoba!