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- Umshado uyisizo empilweni yakho
- Yindawo enempilo yezingane
- Ilayisensi yomshado ikutholela zonke izinhlobo zamalungelo
- Ungathola izinzuzo zezezimali
- Ukushada kungakwenza (futhi kukugcine) ujabulile
- Ezinye izinzuzo
Kwake kwaba nesikhathi lapho umshado wawuyisisekelo sesiko lethu. Kodwa-ke, kusukela ngawo-1960, umshado uye wehla cishe ngamaphesenti angama-72. Lokhu kusho ukuthi cishe isigamu kuphela sabantu baseMelika abasebudlelwaneni bomshado.
Akugcini lapho, kodwa ngokusho kwePew Research Center, izikhathi eziphindwe ka-15 inani lemibhangqwana manje elihlala ndawonye kunalokhu elalihlala eminyakeni engama-60, kanti amaphesenti angama-40 abantu abangashadile bakholelwa ukuthi umshado awunaso isidingo noma ukubaluleka njengoba wawunjalo ngaphambili.
Ngeshwa, kwabaningi, a ilayisensi yomshado akulutho ngaphandle kocezu lwephepha.
Abanye bangathi uma lowo mbono kwaphikiswana ngawo enkantolo yomthetho, kuyathakazelisa ukuthi itayitela lendlu noma itayitela lemoto alibonwa “njengephepha nje” - futhi bazoba nempikiswano evumayo. Umshado awubobudlelwano nje phakathi kwabantu ababili abathandanayo.
Manje iyini ilayisensi yomshado? futhi iyini inhloso yelayisensi yomshado? Ngamagama alula, ngumbhalo othengwe ngabashadikazi okhishwe yisonto noma yisiphathimandla sikahulumeni esibanikeza igunya lokushada.
Umshado futhi uyisivumelwano esisemthethweni nesivumelwano esibophezelayo. Futhi-ke, lapho abantu ababili benquma ukuba ngabalingani bokuphila ngosizo lwelayisense yomshado kanye nomkhosi womshado, empeleni kukhona izinzuzo eziningi eziza nakho.
Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukubukela phansi ukubaluleka kwelayisense yomshado, ake sikukhanyisele ukuthi kungani udinga ilayisense lomshado? kufanele uyithole nini ilayisense yakho yomshado? futhi yiziphi izinto ezidingekayo zelayisense lomshado?
Umshado uyisizo empilweni yakho
Wonke umuntu ufuna "ukuhlala kahle futhi aphumelele", akunjalo? Yebo, enye indlela yokwenza lokho ukushada. Isibonelo, kukhona ucwaningo olukhombisa ukuthi "labo abangakaze bashade babenamathuba aphindwe kabili okufa kusenesikhathi kunalabo ababesemshadweni ozinzile kuyo yonke impilo yabo yobudala".
Akukona nje ukuthi umshado ungasindisa impilo (ngokoqobo), kepha wehlisa namathuba okuba nesimo esingelapheki, kuthuthukisa impilo yakho yengqondo nengokomzwelo futhi kunezifundo ezikhombisa ukuthi ucansi olushadile lungcono kunocansi phakathi kwabantu abangashadile.
Esinye isizathu ukuthi abantu abashadile bavame ukuya ocansini ngokungaguquguquki kunabantu abangashadile; lokhu kubangela ukushiswa kwamakhalori amaningi nempilo yenhliziyo engcono. Futhi, ukuzibandakanya kulo msebenzi nomlingani wakho oyedwa kuphephe kakhulu futhi.
Yindawo enempilo yezingane
Kukhona i-caveat encane kuze kube manje. Umshado yi- indawo enempilo yezingane uma umshado ngokwawo muhle.
Ukugcina lokho engqondweni, kunemibiko eminingi ekhombisa ukuthi izingane ezinabazali ababili ekhaya zithola amamaki angcono, maningi amathuba okuthi ziqhubeke nokufunda (futhi ziye ekolishi), zinamathuba amancane okusebenzisa izidakamizwa noma ukubamba iqhaza ekuphuzeni ezingaphansi kweminyaka , abasengozini yokuthola izingqinamba ezingokomzwelo nokudangala futhi banethuba elikhulu lokushada lapho sebekhulile.
Ilayisensi yomshado ikutholela zonke izinhlobo zamalungelo
Yize kungekho noyedwa okufanele ashade ngenxa ye- izinzuzo zomthetho, kusese kuhle ukwazi ukuthi bakhona. Abaningi, eqinisweni. Ukushada kukunikeza ilungelo lenzuzo yezenhlalakahle yomlingani wakho, iMedare, kanye nezinzuzo zokukhubazeka.
Kukubeka esimweni sokwenza izinqumo ezinkulu kwezokwelapha egameni lomlingani wakho. Uma umlingani wakho enezingane ngaphambi kokuba ushade, ungafaka ngokusemthethweni ngokusemthethweni indima esemthethweni yokuba usingamzali noma ngisho nokutholwa.
Ungasayinela ukuvuselelwa kokuqashisa egameni lomuntu oshade naye. Futhi, uma kwenzeka befa, uyakwazi ukuvuma izinqubo zangemva kokufa futhi wenze nezinhlelo zokugcina zokungcwaba. Uyakwazi nokuthola ukufinyelela ezinxephezelweni zabasebenzi noma ezikhwameni zomhlalaphansi.
Ungathola izinzuzo zezezimali
Ubuwazi ukuthi kukhona izinzuzo zezezimali eza nokushada? Umshado ungakutholela ukuncishiselwa intela okuningana.
Kungabuye kuvikele ifa lakho, kunciphise izindleko zakho zokunakekelwa kwezempilo, kukuzuzele imali enkudlwana eminikelweni yakho yokusiza futhi kungasebenza njengendawo yokukhosela yentela uma umlingani wakho enebhizinisi eligcina lilahlekelwa yimali.
Ukushada kungakwenza (futhi kukugcine) ujabulile
Ungaphila impilo egculisayo njengomuntu ongashadile? Vele, ungakwazi!
Kepha lapho wazi ukuthi unomuntu oseceleni kwakho ozibophezele ekukusekeleni nasekukukhuthazeni, ngezikhathi ezinhle nezinzima, impilo yakho yonke, lokho kungaletha umuzwa okhethekile wokukhululeka nenjabulo.
Futhi yingakho kukhona futhi nezifundo ezibonisa ukuthi abantu abashadile bavame ukujabula kakhulu, isikhathi eside, kunabantu abangashadile (nabantu abahlukanisile).
Ezinye izinzuzo
Ngaphandle kokusebenza njengobufakazi obubalulekile noma ubufakazi bomshado, a ilayisensi yomshado kunezinye izinzuzo eziningi. Ezinye zazo zingokulandelayo:
- Ukuthola ukugunyazwa kwama-visa kumlingani wakho
- Iqinisekisa ukuphepha komphakathi
- Inenzuzo kwabesifazane njengoba ingadlulisela ukuzethemba kubo
- Inenzuzo yokufuna umshuwalense wempilo, impesheni, namanye amadiphozithi asebhange
- Kungabaluleka ngesikhathi sokuhlukana ngokomthetho, isondlo, ngisho nesehlukaniso
- Ukulandelana kwempahla.
Ngakho-ke, njengoba ukwazi ukubona, uma ucabanga ukuthi ukuthola ilayisense lomshado kuzokwenza umehluko omkhulu kangaka empilweni yakho maqondana nobudlelwano bakho, kunobufakazi obuqand 'ikhanda obuthi bungabenza nakanjani.
Ukushada kumayelana nokunye okungaphezu nje kokuba "nokuba nocezu" lwephepha. Cishe kuzo zonke izigaba ongacabanga ngazo, kuza nezinzuzo eziningi. Ezingahlala impilo yonke!