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- Ukuthi umshado wakho ungasindiswa yini
- Yazi oshade naye
- Isimo sangempela sezezimali zakho
- Ukuthi ungaphila yini ngaphandle kwemali yomlingani wakho
- Uhlelo lwakho B
- Isikweletu sakho
- Iqiniso ngesehlukaniso
- Uzolahlekelwa abangane
- Akunandaba ukuthi zineminyaka emingaki, izingane zakho ziyakudinga
Abazali, ikakhulukazi omama badinga ukubheka uhlu lokuhlola ngaphambi kokubhalisela into enkulu njengokuhlukanisa. Lokhu kuzobasiza ukuthi bahambe ngendlela efanele futhi babaholele entweni engeke bazisole ngayo ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ikakhulukazi ngenxa yokuthi izingane ziyabandakanyeka. Ngezansi uhlu lokuhlola oludingekayo komama.
Ukuthi umshado wakho ungasindiswa yini
Kungazwakala kuyinto endala, kepha ngikholelwa ukuthi indlela eyiyo yokwenza isimo esifana nesehlukaniso ukwenza isiqiniseko sokuthi ukuphela kwendlela yokuphuma; ikhambi kuphela. Kufanele kube yinto yokugcina oyicabangayo ngoba imiphumela engemuva kwayo (lokho futhi, lapho ungumama) kungaba nzima futhi kube nzima ukuphatha.
Ngakho-ke, kungcono ukuthi ungavumeli isehlukaniso sibe yisixazululo sokuqala osisebenzisayo noma nini lapho kuba khona ukungqubuzana. Zinike isikhathi ubone ukuthi izinto zingalungiswa noma cha. Ungaya ngisho nokwelulekwa ngomshado noma ukwelashwa.
Yazi oshade naye
Leli phuzu lohlu lokuhlola lingahle lizwakale njenge-no-brainer ngoba vele, uyamazi owakwakho, yingakho ulibiza ngokuthi liyayeka. Kepha okudingeka ukwenze ukukucabanga kabusha. Mhlawumbe ababona abalingani abashade nabo kodwa bangumzali omuhle kakhulu wezingane zakho. Futhi ngomzamo omncane ovela ezinhlangothini zombili, ungajabula futhi ukhulise umndeni omuhle ngenkathi usebenza ngezinkinga zakho kule nqubo.
Isimo sangempela sezezimali zakho
Vele, ukusebenza ebudlelwaneni akusebenzi ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ngakho-ke, uma uqedela ekukhetheni isehlukaniso qiniseka ukuthi wazi kahle sonke isimo sangempela nezimali. Ukuba ngumama, uzodinga imali eningi ukuthwala izindleko zasendlini uwedwa, uma uzogcina izingane. Imininingwane eminingi onayo mayelana nempahla yakho nezikweletu zakho, maningi amathuba okuthi isehlukaniso sakho sizokuhambela kahle.
Ukuthi ungaphila yini ngaphandle kwemali yomlingani wakho
Lesi yisilinganiso semali ozoyiletha uma uzohlukanisa, nokuba ngumama, wazi ukuthi izindleko zakho zizoba malini. Uma njengamanje ungenayo imali engenayo, kuzodingeka uthole ukuthi uzonikezwa yini imali yesondlo sezingane noma imali yesondlo okwesikhashana uze ukwazi ukondla umndeni wakho.
Udinga futhi ukuqala ukufuna izinketho zomsebenzi ezikufanela kahle kakhulu. Uma izindleko zakho zingalawuleki, udinga ukuthola indlela yokuphuma ukuze uzithole zikulayini. Kungakhathalekile ukuthi isimo sakho sezezimali sinjani, udinga ulwazi oluphelele ngaso ngaphambi kokusebenzisa igama elithi "isehlukaniso."
Uhlelo lwakho B
Ngalesi sikhathi ohlwini lokuhlola, ngiqonde ukuthi, ngenkathi inqubo yakho yesehlukaniso isaqhubeka, udinga ukunquma ukuthi uzohlala kuphi futhi kuphi. Uzoziphatha kanjani izingane zakho? Uma unenhlanhla eyanele, oshade naye uzobe enikela ngezinga elithile lapho kuziwa ekukhuliseni izingane. Kodwa-ke, uma esimweni esibi kakhulu, lokho akwenzeki ukuthi isinyathelo sakho esilandelayo sizoba yini? Zonke lezi zinto kufanele zinqunywe kusengaphambili ukuze wazi ukuhamba kwakho futhi wenze okulungile ngesikhathi esifanele ngesikhathi senqubo yesehlukaniso.
Isikweletu sakho
Uma wabelana ngawo wonke ama-akhawunti akho noshade naye futhi ungakaze usungule noma iyiphi imali egameni lakho, yisikhathi esifanele sokwenza lo msebenzi. Ukufaka isicelo samakhadi esikweletu egameni lakho kuzoba lula kakhulu ngaphambi kokufaka idivosi kunasemuva ngoba ngaleso sikhathi izinkampani zamakhadi wesikweletu zizobe zibheka imali oyiholayo (imali engenayo yasekhaya) lapho kunqunywa umugqa wakho wesikweletu.
Yiqiniso, awufuni ukwakha isikweletu kulawo makhadi esikweletwa yinkampani, kepha ukuba nesikweletu esithile ngaso sonke isikhathi kungakunika ukuphepha kwezezimali okuzoba ngumsindisi wokuphila kamuva.
Iqiniso ngesehlukaniso
Iqiniso ngesahlukaniso ukuthi noma ngabe uthatha isikhathi esingakanani ukuluhlela, kunezinto ezingalindelekile ezizophuma zingabonakali ndawo futhi ezizobambezela yonke inqubo, ziyidonse futhi zisebenzise imali yakho eningi kakhulu kunalokho obukucabanga. Phakathi kwazo zonke lezi zinxushunxushu, izingane zakho zizohlupheka. Kungadingeka ukuthi unciphise izindleko zabo ukufeza lezo zezinqubo zesehlukaniso.
Bona, izingane zakho, bazoba ngaphansi kwengcindezi enkulu futhi kungenzeka bahlupheke noma ngabe bathule. Ungahle ungakwazi ngisho ukuhlangana nabo kuze kuphothulwe isehlukaniso. Ngakho-ke, kufanele ube nesibindi sokubhekana nalesi simo futhi wazi enhliziyweni yakho ukuthi yibo obenzela konke futhi lesi sikhathi esinzima naso sizodlula!
Uzolahlekelwa abangane
Yinye into esungulwayo uma kukhulunywa ngesahlukaniso, lokho ngabantu abathatha uhlangothi. Uzolahlekelwa ngumlingani wakho, kepha kanye nabo, uzolahlekelwa nabangane bakho abaningi. Abambalwa bazokusola ngokuba unkosikazi omubi, umama o-lousy, ngisho nowesifazane ongemuhle ekukhetheni.
Bazokusola ngakho konke okungahambanga kahle. Kufanele wazi ukuthi awukwazi ukuvimba abantu abathile ukuthi bacabange kanjalo. Ngakho-ke, ake kube njalo. Yiba ngumama ongcono kakhulu, ngoba lokho kuzokwanela izingane zakho. Zilungiselele amazwi ahlabayo ongase uwalalele.
Akunandaba ukuthi zineminyaka emingaki, izingane zakho ziyakudinga
Kungamqondo ophusile ukuthi isehlukaniso sithinta kuphela izingane ezisencane kakhulu. Isehlukaniso sithinta izingane zonyaka ngamunye. Ukuthi nje zonke izingane zivumela ukukhungatheka nokudangala kwazo ngezindlela ezahlukene. Abambalwa bahlala bethule ngenkathi abanye bekhombisa intukuthelo namamaki aphansi. Kukhona nalabo abangena emikhubeni emibi (ukuhlala kude nekhaya, ukwenza izidakamizwa, ukucekela phansi impahla, njll.).
Uma izingane zakho zingaphansi kwezingane, khona-ke isehlukaniso kungenzeka sizithinte kabi ngokuqhathaniswa nezingane esezikhulile. Isizathu salokhu ukuthi izingane ezincane (ezisaphila nabazali) zishintsha ngokuphelele empilweni yazo.Indlela abaphila ngayo, indlela abadla ngayo, indlela abalandela ngayo inqubo, konke kuyashintsha ngenxa yehlukaniso. Kungakho bephazamiseka ngokwengqondo, futhi njengomama, kufanele ukulungele.
Njengowesifazane onezingane, hamba kulolu hlu olubalulekile lokuhlola omama ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi uzilungele izinguquko ezahlukaniswa owakwakho ezizoletha empilweni yakho neyengane yakho.