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- Ukuchaza ukuthandana ngemibono yosuku lokuthandana
- Okufanele ukwazi ngezothando
- Ungalufaka kanjani uthando ebudlelwaneni bami
- 1. Ukunikezwa kwezipho
- 2. Amakhadi okubingelela
- 3. Okubhaliselwe kwe-imeyili
- 4. Geza izinyawo
- 5. Ukubhucungwa kwezobuchwepheshe
- 6. Izinkondlo nomculo
- 7. I-albhamu yezithombe
- 8. Ithawula ku-dryer
- 9. Ukuzingelwa kokukhwabanisa okumangazayo
- 10. Amanothi amaswidi
Uma ufuna ukwazi ukuthi ungathandana kanjani kakhulu ebudlelwaneni bakho, ufike endaweni efanele ukwazi kabanzi ngemibhangqwana yothando, ukuthi ungaba kanjani nemisebenzi yothando nemibhangqwana.
Isibhakabhaka sinqunyelwe uma kukhulunywa ngemibono yothando yemibhangqwana eshadile evuselela ezothando.
Ukubeka phambili ezenzweni zansuku zonke zothando kuqinisa izibopho, futhi kuthuthukise ikhwalithi yokubambisana kwesikhathi eside.
Lo mbhalo uhlose ukunikeza izeluleko zobudlelwano bezothando futhi unikeze imisebenzi eyishumi enamandla yezithandani zokwenza abathandi baqale.
Ukuchaza ukuthandana ngemibono yosuku lokuthandana
Iningi labantu licabanga "ngothando" njengemisebenzi ehlekisayo efana nokubuka ukushona kwelanga ndawonye, ukudla amakhandlela, noma ukuphuza iwayini ngomlilo odlayo.
Yize lezi zifaneleka njengemisebenzi yothando, umqondo ngukukhuthaza ugqozi lwemibhangqwana enemibono yothando eqala izenzo ezincane kepha ezinengqondo zothando nokudumisa.
Imisebenzi yezothando ingaba lula, njengokukhetha i-rose kumlingani wakho ngezikhathi ezithile, noma inothi lothando elifihliwe ngamasu. Zingabuye zibe ziningi, njengokuhlela amaholide wokumangala, noma ukuhlobisa indlu ngamaketanga kamaskandi nama-rose petals.
Ngenkathi wenza izinto zothando okufanele uzenze, noma ngabe zincane noma zincane, yizenzo ozenza ngokuqaphela, zenzelwe injongo ebonakalayo yokuthi "Ngiyakuthanda".
Okufanele ukwazi ngezothando
- Imibono yothando yemibhangqwana iyakha amathuba ophathina wokuchitha isikhathi ndawonye
- Imisebenzi yezothando qinisa ukusondelana; ukuletha amakhemikhali omzimba ahambisana nothando
- Imisebenzi yezothando yemibhangqwana eshadile vumela ukuxhumana okwandisiwe
- Imidlalo yothando vumela amahlaya, ukuzijabulisa, nokuzijabulisa
- Ukuthandana phakathi kwezithandani kudala isikhumbuzi njalo sothando nokukhuleka
- Imisebenzi yezothando ekhaya noma ngaphandle gcina izinto zintsha futhi kunempilo, (kubaluleke kakhulu esikhathini eside)
- Imisebenzi yezothando siza abalingani bazane
- Imisebenzi yezithandani zothando ukugqugquzela nokwakha kabusha imizwa yenhlonipho nokuphindaphinda
- Imibono yezothando yenza ukungabaza, ukulindela, nokuzijabulisa
- Ubudlelwano bothando bangempela buzoba cishe ongenaso isithukuthezi
Ungalufaka kanjani uthando ebudlelwaneni bami
Nayi impendulo eqondile yombuzo, ukuthi ungathandana kanjani kakhulu.
Yize kungakephuzi kakhulu ukuqala, imibhangqwana esebenzayo ingasebenzisa imisebenzi yothando kusenesikhathi. Ngokwenza njalo, ezothando zingaba yingxenye yemvelo yokuxhumeka kwakho engahlala iminyaka ezayo.
Ngezansi sibhale amasu omsebenzi wezothando ayishumi ukuze kube lula kuwe.
Ngenkathi le mibono yasebusuku yothando nemibono yosuku lwasemini ingeyakho ongayisebenzisa ngendlela othanda ngayo, khumbula ukuthi kungcono kakhulu ukukusebenzisa njengomhlahlandlela, ukuvumelanisa nezimo, ukuhlobisa noma ukuzivumelanisa nakho, kanye nokuza nokwakho.
Khumbula ukuthi izinto zothando imibhangqwana okufanele izenze kumele zenziwe ngobuciko, zivumelane nezimo, zihlanganyele futhi zijabulise nakanjani.
Nayi eminye imisebenzi yothando ngaye nangaye engamukelwa kalula
1. Ukunikezwa kwezipho
Thobela umthetho wokuthi izipho kufanele zisongwe ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Ithiphu yokusiza labo abangaphandle ngezimpilo ezimatasa ukugcina izipho, uzifihle ukuze zikhishwe lapho isikhathi sesifanele.
Izikhathi ezifanele zokunikeza isipho esingavuliwe zilele esethulweni, isibonelo: umgexo ungaboshelwa uzungeze ibhere le-teddy, noma iringi yokuzibandakanya ngaphansi kwengilazi ye-champagne.
2. Amakhadi okubingelela
Ikhadi lokubingelela linganikezwa cishe nganoma yisiphi isipho, futhi ukugcina isitoreji sazo kungasiza lapho ungenaso isikhathi sokuthenga. Zingahambisana nezimbali, ushokoledi, amabhaluni, isilwane esigxishiwe, noma esinye isipho.
3. Okubhaliselwe kwe-imeyili
Ingabe umlingani wakho uthanda ushokoledi, izingubo zangaphansi, amakha? Izinkampani eziningi zinikeza amakilabhu noma ubulungu, abathumela amasampuli njalo ngenyanga ngeposi.
4. Geza izinyawo
Thatha ubhavu wamanzi ashisayo anensipho kanye ne-loofah; geza izinyawo zakhe, uzisule, bese uqhubeka nomsebenzi wakho. Uzohlonishwa angabi namlomo.
5. Ukubhucungwa kwezobuchwepheshe
Ungaziphulula umlingani wakho ngokwakho, noma uma ungazethembi emakhono akho, setha i-aphoyintimenti yababili endaweni yokuhlanza noma yokuhlikihla. Nobabili niyokujabulela ukubhucungwa umzimba ndawonye.
6. Izinkondlo nomculo
Uma wenza ubuciko, bhala inkondlo yekhasi elilodwa ngomlingani wakho bese uyibhala nge-calligraphy futhi yakhelwe. Noma, bona ukuthi ungaba kanjani ne-albhamu yomculi wakhe amthandayo oqoshiwe futhi athunyelwe ngeposi.
7. I-albhamu yezithombe
Hlanganisa i-albhamu yezithombe eyimfihlo esebenza njengesikhumbuzo sakho nezimpilo zomlingani wakho ndawonye. Kungaba nezithombe zezingane ngamunye wenu, bese kuba umugqa wesikhathi omelwe yizithombe zenu ngaphambi kokuhlangana, ngenkathi nisathandana, kuze kube manje. Uma usuqedile, ungachitha amahora ukhumbula izinkumbulo zakho.
8. Ithawula ku-dryer
Amsuse ngethawula ngaphambi kokufudumala ngemuva kokugeza noma ukugeza. Baqinisekisiwe ukuthi bayayithanda.
9. Ukuzingelwa kokukhwabanisa okumangazayo
Fihla uchungechunge lwamanothi ngokuhlelekile endlini ngeziphicaphicwano. Umlingani wakho uzohamba amantongomane aqonde imfumbe ngayinye futhi athole umkhondo omusha ngamunye. Ekupheleni kokuzingelwa kwabafuna ukukhwabanisa, umklomelo kufanele ulinde.
10. Amanothi amaswidi
Uma umlingani wakho ethanda uswidi, ungashiya zonke izinhlobo zamanothi we-quippy kodwa amnandi noswidi. Iphakethe lamaRed Hots lingathi “Ngiyakushisa”, noma ukuqabula kukaHershey kungasetshenziswa njengamakhuphoni “okuqabula” noma ezinye izinto ezithandwa yimizwa.