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- Isimo se-Synopsis
- Umehluko phakathi kokunakekela vs. ukunakekela esibathandayo
- Izinyathelo zokunakekela
- Ubudlelwano sebhizinisi elinzima
Ibinzana elidala i-TLC noma iTender Love and Care lisetshenziswa kaningi. Kepha ezimpilweni zethu zansuku zonke, njengekhono lempilo, silisebenzisa kangakanani? Thatha isimo esingezansi:
Ngu-10: 00 PM ngeSonto kusihlwa. UKate ukhathele futhi ukhungathekile. "Ngizama kanzima" usho kumyeni wakhe uVince, osevele esembhedeni, ulungele ukulala. “Sthandwa, kufanele uphumule. Izingane ziyaphila ”usho kanje. "Nethezeka?" uthi, “Aniqondi yini ukuthi kwenzekeni? UNathan wayengithukuthelele kakhulu kangangokuba waphonsa ibhayisikili lakhe phansi phakathi nomgwaqo walikhahlela. Angiwenzi umsebenzi omuhle njengomama ”. Esho ngezwi elidabukisayo. "Awu, wehle kancane kanzima kuye ngokushayela kwakhe ibhayisikili" kusho yena. “Wayenqaba ukuzama, ngabona sengathi udinga ukuqhutshwa kancane. Awuqondi; Ingqondo yakho ibikwenye indawo. Ungangisiza wazi. Izingane akuzona izihlahla; Azikhuli zodwa. Banemizwa futhi badinga ukunakekelwa ngokomzwelo ”. Uthe lapho izwi lakhe losizi seliphenduka izwi elicishe lithukuthele. “Yebo, ngiyaqonda. Ungakusho kanjani lokho? Ngisebenza wonke lamahora, ukuze sikwazi ukuthola impilo engcono. ” Waphendula. Wabe eselandela ethi “Sthandwa, ngikhathele, futhi ngidinga ukulala. Angifuni ukungena kunoma yini njengamanje ”. Yilapho-ke athukuthela khona ngempela waqhuma. "Ukhathele? Wena? Ububuka i-T.V ngenkathi ngipheka, ngihlanza futhi ngigeza izingubo zonke ekuseni. Ngemuva kokuhamba ngebhayisikili, uthathe ubuthongo obuhle behora eli-1, ngenkathi ngicabanga ngokwenzekile ekugibeleni ibhayisikili! Ngenze konke ongicele ukuba ngikwenze namuhla. Ungithume ukuba ngiyoshayela amabhayisikili, ngihambe nenja, ngenze isaladi, futhi ngenzile. Ukube ubudinga usizo olwengeziwe, ubungabuza nje. Kumele ngicele yonke into, angithi? Awukwazi ukusebenzisa ukwahlulela kwakho, akunjalo? Unkulunkulu akavumeli, uzikhipha kancane ngezimpelasonto ”.
Efulathela lapho elele embhedeni, athi "ngiyalala, ubusuku obuhle, ngiyakuthanda". Avuke embhedeni athathe umcamelo wakhe aphume ekamelweni. “Angikholwa ukuthi ungavele ulale kanjalo ube wazi ukuthi ngiphatheke kabi kanjena”.
Isimo se-Synopsis
Kwenzekeni nje lapha? Ingabe uVince uyiJerk ephelele? Ingabe uKate uyindlovukazi yedrama futhi uyinkosikazi efuna izinto ngenkani? Cha. Bobabili bangabantu abahle kakhulu. Siyazi ngoba sihlangane nabo ekululekeni kwezithandani. Bathandana ngokuhlanya futhi banomshado ojabulisayo isikhathi esiningi. Yebo, lesi yisibonelo somehluko phakathi kokuthi abesilisa nabesifazane bazizwa bethandwa futhi bethandwa kanjani. UKate uzizwe edumele ngokwenzeke ekuqaleni kosuku nezingane. Lapho ephendukela kuVince, wayembhekile ukuthi amnakekele ngokomzwelo; mhlawumbe ukumnika isiqiniseko sokuthi ungumama omuhle. Ukuthi izingane ziyazi ukuthi uyazithanda, ukuthi wenza okuningi nokuthi uNathan ngeke akhumbule ukuthi wamthethisa. Akukona ukuthi okushiwo nguVince akunakho ukusebenza, kepha kunalokho ukuthi uKate wayedinga okuhlukile ngaleso sikhathi.
Ngesikhathi uKate ekhuluma noNathan, yize kusemini impela, wayemzama ukuze amsize ehlise umoya. Wayebuza ngaphandle kwamagama ukuthi udinga ukwesekwa kwakhe ngokomzwelo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, yena wayecabanga ukuthi uyamhlasela futhi ekhombisa ukuthi akenzi ngokwanele. Ngakho-ke waphendula ngokuziphendulela futhi wachaza amahora akhe okusebenza, njll. Kungani ukuhlolwa kwabo kwalesi simo kwaholela emiphumeleni engemihle?
Umehluko phakathi kokunakekela vs. ukunakekela esibathandayo
- Ukunakekela othandekayo, kungaboniswa ngezenzo zomusa ezifana nokugeza imoto, ukwenza ukudla, ukunisela utshani, ukugeza izitsha, nezinye "izenzo zomusa". Ukwenza imali, nokuxhasa enye ngokwezimali, nakho kungaphansi kwalesi sigaba.
- Ukunakekela abantu esibathandayo akukhona okwenziwayo, kepha kunalokho kuyindlela yokucabanga ehlakaniphile nangokomzwelo futhi ekhombisa ukwamukela. Ukuba okwamanje, ukuhlonipha isikhathi sabo, ubumfihlo, ukulinganiselwa nemizwa yabo.
Kwenzekani phakathi kwezithandani, futhi ikakhulukazi emishadweni ngoba okulindelwe imishado kuphakeme kunezinye izinhlobo zobudlelwano ikakhulukazi lapho kunezingane ezithintekayo, lezi zithandani zibuyela emuva i-ego-centric uqobo. Le yingxenye yomuntu "engigxile kuyo", entekenteke nokwahlulela. Le ngxenye yomuntu uqobo, ikakhulukazi ngesikhathi sezingcindezi, lapho umuntu angazigxeka kakhulu khona, ingaba ngokuzimela, ukuzijezisa nokudideka. Kungaba nokhahlo, kungenangqondo, kungabi nomusa, futhi / noma kulawule.
Enkambisweni yami, ngihlala ngimema abashadikazi bami ukuthi babheke izinkomba ezifihliwe. Izinkomba zingaba ngamagama, ukukhuluma komzimba, noma isikhathi esichithwe. Esibonelweni esingenhla, zonke izinkomba ezintathu zimakwe nguKate. Izinkomba ezimbili zamagama ezibekwe nguKate zazithi "Ngizama kanzima" nokuthi "awuqondi". Futhi, ngesikhathi esichithwe nguVince, futhi efakaza ngokwenzekile, wakhonjwa eqinisweni lokuthi uKate kungenzeka azizwe enecala. Yize phezulu, kungabonakala sengathi uKate wayehlasela uVince lapho ethi "awuqondi", empeleni wayemcela ukuthi aqonde usizi lwakhe. Esikhundleni salokho, uphendule ngokunikeza isixazululo esithi "Udinga nje ukukhululeka" okungabonakala njengokushumayela uma kungenjalo.
Okungaba ngcono ukube welula isandla, ambambe isandla, noma amange futhi athi, into ethile emigqeni ethi “uyazama kanzima sthandwa sami” noma “uju, awufanelwe ukuba uphelele” noma “Sweetie, ngicela ungabi lukhuni kangaka kuwena, umkhulu”.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, yini uKate ayengayenza, esikhundleni sokuzama ukududuza kumyeni wakhe ngalokho ayesikisela ukuthi kwakuyisikhathi esingalungile? Kusobala ukuthi bobabili laba bantu "Bayanakekelana". Kodwa ingabe "banakekelana". UKate ubengayihlonipha imingcele kaVince. Wayengathemba iqiniso lokuthi wayengaveli endaweni yokungakhathaleli, kepha kunalokho indawo yokuphepha. UVince kungenzeka enze uhlolisiso olusheshayo lwempahla yakhe yezemizwa futhi wabona ukuthi ukhathele kakhulu ukulalela, ngakho-ke, ekugwemeni ukungqubuzana, uma kwenzeka ekhuluma into engalungile, uthathe indlela yokuphikisa okuncane wathi "Ngidinga ukuthola ukulala". Lokhu, empeleni, wayengazi noma engazi ukuthi wayenenketho okukhulunywe ngayo ngenhla, okungathathanga isikhathi esiningi nhlobo.
Izinyathelo zokunakekela
- Njalo thatha uhlu lwemizwa lokuthi ukuphi nokuthi ukuphi omunye umuntu ngaphambi kokuqala Ingxoxo
- Setha umgomo bese ucabanga umbono walokho okufunayo ekuqaleni ingxoxo
- Khuluma ngokucacile ukuthi iyiphi leyo nhloso kumlingani wakho
- Linda ubone ukuthi kunokujwayelekile yini emigomweni ngaphandle kokulindelwe
- Yamukela kunokuphoqa isixazululo
Ekugcineni, masenze ukuphinda lokho obekungenzeka phakathi kukaKate noVince. Ukube uKate ubesenze ngokusobala isinyathelo sesi-3 kunokucabanga ukuthi uVince angafunda izinkomba, kungenzeka ukuthi uthole ukwesekwa abekulindele. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukube uVince wayezosebenzisa isinyathelo 1, kungenzeka ukuthi waqaphela ukuthi okwakufunwa nguKate kwakungekhona ukuhlola okwenzekile, kepha kunalokho kwakuyisiqinisekiso.
Ubudlelwano sebhizinisi elinzima
Abaningi bacabanga ukuthi Uthando lusho ukwazi konke. Lokho akulona uthando; Ukubhula. Uthando ludinga ukubekezela, nokuqonda, nokuzithoba nokwenza konke lokhu okungenhla. Ukuhlukanisa phakathi kokuKhathalela nokunakekela esibathandayo, kusisiza ukuthi sihlale sizinikele, futhi sithobeke ngezikhathi lapho ngokwemvelo sithambekele ekubeni ngabazithandayo futhi sizibekele okulindelwe okuphezulu nemicabango engeyiyo ezenzakalelayo. Akuyona iTender Love. Akukona Ukunakekelwa Kwamathenda. Uthando Nokunakekela. Sidinga ukuzinakekela izidingo zethu kuqala, bese kuba ngumkhulumeli wokuzidlulisa ngokusobala kozakwethu, noma kwabanye ababalulekile futhi sibenze bazizwe bephephile ekwenzeni okufanayo.