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- Ukukhanyisa igesi kungumsebenzi wabo onokwethenjelwa kakhulu
- Ukucela umuzwa ojulile wecala
- Ama-narcissist akhetha ngokuhlakanipha
- Umuntu osebenzisa izidakamizwa uzokuyenga, akunxenxe, bese ekucathamela
- Uxolo, kodwa hhayi uxolo
- I-narcissist iphrojusa njengomuntu ongenaphutha
- Ukulawula abantu nezimpilo zabo kuyilungelo labo lokuzalwa
I-narcissist umuntu ohlale ezimisele ukwehlula nokulawula impilo yabanye abantu. I-narcissist ingaba yindida ngezikhathi ezithile; ungakhululekile ukuqagela. Banesethi ethile yemikhuba namaphethini.
Isikole sabo semicabango sihluke kakhulu kunesomuntu ojwayelekile. Benza abantu babakholwe bese bekhombisa imibala yabo yangempela ngokubaphatha ngokomzwelo nangokwengqondo.
Ukukhanyisa igesi kungumsebenzi wabo onokwethenjelwa kakhulu
AmaNarcissist angaba buhlungu uma usebudlelwaneni nawo. Bayazi, futhi bazosebenzisa zonke izindlela zokukhanyisa igesi ongazicabanga.
I-narcissist ingumuntu onobuhlakani obubi onekhono lokukhuthaza izindlela ezihlukile zokukhohlisa.
Balokhu beza nokuthile okuyintokozo kubo nsuku zonke. Abamutholi ngokwanele ukukhanyiswa kwegesi futhi baqhubeke nokukhononda kubalingani babo cishe ngaphandle kwesizathu.
Ukucela umuzwa ojulile wecala
Isisulu se-narcissism imvamisa siboshwe ngamacala amakhulu. Abakwa-narcissists ngokuyisisekelo bafana namakhekheba eqhwa; babezosola abanye ngalokhu abekade bekwenza.
Bebexhaphaza isisulu bese besusa umuzwa wokuhlukumezeka kubo.
Babengalimaza umuntu othile bese bezenza sengathi benzakele. Ukuveza umqondo wokuba necala kuyicebo elidume kakhulu abalisebenzisa ngokumelene nezinhloso zabo.
Ama-narcissist akhetha ngokuhlakanipha
Ama-narcissist akhetha izinhloso zawo ngokuhlakanipha. Bafuna abantu abanomdlandla ongokomzwelo nalabo abayibamba kakhulu imizwa yabo. Njengoba bethanda ukulimaza, bayathanda ukukhomba abantu abangalimala kalula. Babonakala bezolile futhi benamahloni ngaphandle ngenkathi begcwele umona, ukungathembi kanye nobandlululo.
Abantu abanomdlandla ongokomzwelo yizinhloso zabo abazithandayo njengoba bangenza kalula i-scapegoat kubo ngemuva kokuthi baqedile ngomsebenzi we-narcissistic.
Umuntu osebenzisa izidakamizwa uzokuyenga, akunxenxe, bese ekucathamela
Mhlawumbe ungumuntu onebhadi kunabo bonke emhlabeni uma ungumlingani nomuntu osebenza ngezidakamizwa. Unebhadi kakhulu ukuwela ogibeni lomlingani wakho we-narcissist. Ukhethe indlela engafanele kuwe, lapho uzothola khona konke ulahlekile phakathi nendawo. Qaphela! Bakho kuphela ukusizakala ngawe nokwenza uzizwe umthwalo wokuba khona kwabo emhlabeni.
I-narcissist izokukwenza ugqoke izibuko ezinombala ophuzi futhi ikunikeze wonke amathemba amanga ngekusasa.
Empeleni, sebevele bahlele ukukushiya ngemuva kokumosha impilo yakho, lokho futhi ngaphandle kokuzizwa udabukile.
Uxolo, kodwa hhayi uxolo
I-narcissist ayizihluphi ngemizwa nangemizwa yabanye abantu. Babengaze bahwaqe ubuso ngezinkathazo abakudalele zona. Bazothula nje uthuli ezandleni zabo ngemuva kokuxubana nempilo yakho.
Ama-narcissist abukeka engenandaba nokuhlengwa amanxeba abawadalile. Bakude kakhulu, kude kakhulu nokuthwala ukona kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo.
Kusukela ezenzakalweni ezincane ezimbi ukuya ekulimaleni okukhulu ngokomzwelo, abakwa-narcissists bayazijabulela lezi zinto.
I-narcissist iphrojusa njengomuntu ongenaphutha
I-narcissist ayisoze yamukela iphutha labo kunoma iyiphi ingxabano. Bazokwenza noma yini nakho konke ukwenza omunye umuntu athathe lelo cala futhi aphile nalo. Noma yini engahambi kahle, bamane bakubeka emnyango womlingani wabo.
Abakwa-narcissist bangasebenzisa amanga nenkohliso ukusiza icala labo. Bangakwazi ukuhlela izinto ngokumelene nabanye kalula. Futhi, ngezikimu zobuhlakani, bangenza omunye umuntu ahambe ayokwamukela wonke amaphutha nokungalungile.
Ukulawula abantu nezimpilo zabo kuyilungelo labo lokuzalwa
I-narcissist ikwenza i-doormat futhi ibizohamba yonke indawo kuwe, ngaphandle kokuthi uyimise. Ezinye izisulu ze-narcissism zizizwa zingenasiphetho kwesinye isikhathi lapho zihlala nomlingani wazo we-narcissist.
Abakwazi ukunquma ukuyeka ngisho nangemva kokujwayela nokuhlukunyezwa. Ngesinye isikhathi, banikeza umphathi wezinkinobho zabo zokulawula; abasizi ngalutho ngokuphelele ngakho. Ama-narcissists angama-bigtime control freaks.
Uma uke waqubuka kumuntu othanda izinto ezingekho emthethweni, ekuqaleni uzozizwa ujabule njengoba abakwa-narcissists bengakhombisi imibala yabo yeqiniso ngokushesha okukhulu. Bahlasela isisulu kancane nangokukhalipha. Okokuqala, bazokhomba ukubaluleka kwakho bese banquma isiphetho sakho inqobo nje uma unabo. Bazobeka phambili wonke ama-aces abo ngaphambi kwakho ukuze kwenziwe ukukhohlisa.