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- Kungani ufunda izincwadi zangaphambi komshado?
- Bahlanganisa izisekelo zomshado ophilile
- Baqala ingxoxo.
- Baxoxa ngezindima zomshado
- Izincwadi Ezinconyelwe Kakhulu Ngaphambi Komshado
- Unyaka Wokuqala Womshado: Umhlahlandlela Wabantu Abasanda Kushada Wokwakha Isisekelo Esiqinile Nokuzivumelanisa Nempilo Yomshado
- Imibuzo engu-101 Ongayibuza Ngaphambi Kokuzibandakanya
- Izithandani Ezihlakaniphile Ziqedile Ukuceba
- Ukubopha i-Knot: Umhlahlandlela Wangaphambi Komshado Womshado Oqinile Nohlala Njalo
- Umshado Oshisekayo
Njenganoma yisiphi esinye isihloko, ukufunda ngomshado kungakufundisa ngesihloko futhi kukwenze ube ngcono ekushadweni.
Isikhathi esihle sokuqala ukufunda okuningi ngempilo yomshado ngesikhathi sokuthembisana kwakho lapho usulungele ukushada.
Ukubandakanya kukhona isizathu, futhi leso sizathu ukunika imibhangqwana isikhathi sokungahleleli umshado wayo kuphela kepha nokwenza ushintsho kusuka ekubeni 'umbhangqwana' kuya ekubeni 'umbhangqwana oshadile' ngaphandle komthungo.
Lezi zincwadi zangaphambi komshado zisiza kakhulu phakathi nalolo shintsho ngoba zivumela abesilisa nabesifazane ukuthi bathole ukuqonda okusha maqondana nempilo yomshado futhi babazise ngokuzayo.
Ake sibheke ukuthi kungani ukufunda izincwadi zangaphambi komshado kubalulekile futhi sithathe amazwibela ezithandwa kakhulu laphaya.
Kungani ufunda izincwadi zangaphambi komshado?
Bahlanganisa izisekelo zomshado ophilile
Kulula ukusongwa ngenjabulo nenjabulo yokuzibandakanya kwakho. Ngeshwa, leyo njabulo yenza kube lula ukungazinaki ezinye zezici ezibaluleke kakhulu zomshado njengezisekelo zomshado onempilo. Iningi lazi kahle izinto eziyisisekelo kepha kufanele lizinike isikhathi lokwenza kahle kuzo.
Inhlonipho, ukuxhumana, ukugcina inhlansi, nomsindo wokuxazulula izinkinga kulula ngokwanele, kepha izincwadi eziningi zangaphambi komshado zimboza lezi zihloko ngokujulile futhi zinikeze izeluleko ezibalulekile ezinganikezwa ngungoti kuphela.
Baqala ingxoxo.
Ukufunda izincwadi zangaphambi komshado ndawonye kunikeza ithuba lomuntu ngamunye futhi kusiza ukuqala ingxoxo.
Izingxoxo eziningi kufanele zenzeke ngaphambi komshado, kepha kwesinye isikhathi kunzima ukuqala lezo zingxoxo ezibucayi.
Ngenhlanhla, okuqukethwe yilezi zincwadi zangaphambi komshado kukhuthaza izingxoxo ezinempilo, ezivulelekile ezizosiza ubudlelwano ekuhambeni kwesikhathi.
Kunconyiwe - Inkambo Yangaphambi Komshado
Baxoxa ngezindima zomshado
Izindima zomshado, hhayi izindima zobulili, zibalulekile. Uma usushadile, ukunquma iqhaza lakho ebudlelwaneni kungadida.
Ukushada kusho ukuthi wena nozakwenu niyiqembu, futhi ukuze nisebenze kanjalo, wonke umuntu kumele enze eyakhe indima.
Lezi zindima azikona ukuthi ngubani opheka isidlo sakusihlwa nokuthi ngubani ohlanzayo kepha ukwahlukaniswa kwemithwalo yemfanelo yekhaya. Ukwazi ukuthi ungahlukanisa kanjani umsebenzi ngokulinganayo kuwuthuthukisa kakhulu umshado kwasekuqaleni futhi kuvimbela umuntu oyedwa ekuzizweni sengathi benza wonke umsebenzi.
Manje njengoba ukwazi ukubaluleka kwezincwadi zangaphambi komshado ake sibheke ezinye zezihloko ezithandwayo nezinconyelwe kakhulu.
Izincwadi Ezinconyelwe Kakhulu Ngaphambi Komshado
Unyaka Wokuqala Womshado: Umhlahlandlela Wabantu Abasanda Kushada Wokwakha Isisekelo Esiqinile Nokuzivumelanisa Nempilo Yomshado
Kungenzeka ukuthi uzwile ukuthi umshado uyintokozo kepha unyaka wokuqala womshado empeleni ugcwele amahla-ndinyuka amaningi.
Uma ukwazi ukuhamba ngayo ngaphandle kokuzonda isibindi somunye nomunye, khona-ke kuvula indlela eya enjabulweni yomshado yesikhathi eside.
Njengoba isihloko sikhombisa, le ncwadi ngo UMarcus no-Ashley Kusi ukhuluma ngezindlela ezinhle kakhulu zokwakha isisekelo esiqinile somshado futhi uvumelane nezimpilo zakho ezintsha njengabantu abasanda kushada.
Kufundwe kahle kakhulu ukwazi ukucatshangelwa ngaphambi komshado okungakusiza ukuthi ubone ukuthi yini okufanele uyilungele ngemuva kokuthi, "Ngiyakwenza."
Imibuzo engu-101 Ongayibuza Ngaphambi Kokuzibandakanya
Ngu H. Norman Wright, ilayisensi yoMshado, Umndeni, nengane Yezokwelapha, le ncwadi icubungula ngokujulile imibuzo efanele ukubuza othandekayo wakho ngaphambi kokuthatha isinqumo sokuthembisana umshado.
Khumbula i-romcom yango-2012 i-The Five-Engagement Starring uJason Segel no-Emily Blunt?
Yebo, laba bashadikazi bathatha isinqumo sokuthembisana umshado, futhi yize benobudlelwano obubonakala buqinile, laba bobabili abakwazi ukufika e-altare ngisho nangemva kweminyaka emihlanu yokuzibandakanya ngenxa yezinkinga ezithile ezingaxazululiwe.
Ngakho-ke ngeke yini kube kuhle ukuthola izimpendulo ezithembekile zokususa ukudideka njengoba uhlela ukuqala ngothando lwempilo yakho?
Le ncwadi izokusiza ukwenza lokho nokuningi.
UWright ubhale enye incwadi enhle ngokwelulekwa ngaphambi komshado. Kungumhlahlandlela wokulungiselela umshado wemibhangqwana ebizwa Ngaphambi Kokuthi "Ngiyakwenza."
Izithandani Ezihlakaniphile Ziqedile Ukuceba
Kholwa noma ungakukholwa, kepha injabulo yomshado incike kakhulu ezindabeni zemali nasekhonweni lakho (noma ukuntuleka kwalo) ukuyiphatha njengezithandani ngaphandle kokulwa njalo.
Kubhalwe ngumbhali othengisa kakhulu nomeluleki wezezimali UDavid Bach, le ngenye yezincwadi ezinhle kakhulu zangaphambi komshado ezikhuluma ngokwakha ikusasa eliqhakazile usebenzisa amathuluzi wokukhomba imigomo yakho yezezimali.
Ama-Smart Couples Finish Rich ngempela ingenye yezincwadi ezinhle kakhulu ongazifunda ngaphambi kokushada njengoba inikeza amathiphu amahle kakhulu wokuthi ungakufinyelela kanjani ukuvikeleka kwezezimali.
Ukubopha i-Knot: Umhlahlandlela Wangaphambi Komshado Womshado Oqinile Nohlala Njalo
Ngokwezifundo ezahlukahlukene zocwaningo, kufaka phakathi lolu cwaningo olwenziwe yi-Institute of Family Study kanye ne Wheatley Institution, imibhangqwana engqingili ngokobulili ekholwa kakhulu inobudlelwano obuphakeme kakhulu nokwaneliseka kwezocansi uma kuqhathaniswa nemibhangqwana yenkolo engatheni / exubekile nemibhangqwana engakholwa.
Ngakho-ke kungaba nengqondo ukuba nezeluleko zikaKristu zokwelulekwa ngaphambi komshado, mhlawumbe?
Incwadi yangaphambi komshado ethi Tying the Knot by URob Green kubonakala kuyisinqumo esifanele kuwe. Ukuhlanganisa i-Knot kukhombisa indlela enhle kakhulu, esebenzayo, nesebenzisekayo yokuba nomshado ogxile kuKristu.
Ithathwa njengenye yezincwadi zokwelulekwa ngaphambi komshado, inika izixazululo ezindabeni zomshado zokuxhumana, ukusondelana, ezezimali, nokuningi.
Umshado Oshisekayo
Ufuna ukufunda incwadi ngokusondelana engashintsha impilo yakho?
Ngemuva kwalokho le ncwadi ngu UDavid Schnarch kungaba enye yezincwadi ezinhle kakhulu ongazifunda ngaphambi komshado.
Ukuba nobudlelwano obunothando ngaphambi komshado kuyinto enikeziwe kepha kwesinye isikhathi izibopho zomshado zingathinta impilo yakho yezocansi, ngakho-ke ukukuthola ngaphambi kokuthatha isinqumo sokubopha ifindo kuwumqondo omuhle.
I-Passionate Marriage ibhekwa njengencwadi yokuphayona ngale ndaba futhi inika imibono yokubhekana nezinkinga zocansi nezingokomzwelo.
Ngaphandle kokukhetha ezinye zezincwadi ezizofundwa imibhangqwana ngaphambi komshado, ungalandela nalezi Zeluleko Ezi-5 Zangaphambi Komshado Eziqinisekisa Umshado Omkhulu.
Futhi, ungawathathi kancane amandla okwelulekwa ngaphambi komshado ukukuqondisa ekwakheni ikusasa eliqinile ndawonye njengezithandani.