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- Indoda endala nocansi nezintombi
- Ubulili babantu abadala: Ukujabulisa owesifazane osemncane
- Indoda endala nezocansi
Lapho sisebancane, okungenani njengamadoda, konke esikucabangayo ngocansi.
Okungenani, amadoda acabanga ngakho cishe nsuku zonke. Njengoba amadoda ekhula futhi evuthwa, ethatha imithwalo yemfanelo ethe xaxa futhi (ngethemba) enolwazi olwanele kwezocansi, akusekho okuyintsha okushiywe ocansini kubo.
Abesilisa nobulili phakathi neminyaka yethu yobusha banjengohulumeni nezintela. Ayikwazi ukuhlukaniswa, futhi lapho kukhona khona, kunjalo nangenye.
Ubulili nokuguga nakho kuhlobene. Njengoba imizimba yethu yenyama iphelelwa ngamandla ngenxa yobudala, siphelelwa ngamandla ethu ocansi. Lokhu kuyiqiniso kwabesilisa nabesifazane.
Indoda endala nocansi nezintombi
Iningi lezithandani azinaye umehluko weminyaka engaphezu kweminyaka emihlanu. Kaningi kunalokho, yindoda endala.
Kodwa-ke, kukhona imibhangqwana lapho indoda isikhulile iminyaka engaphezu kwemihlanu. Kunezizathu eziningi zokuthi kungani abesifazane bethanda amadoda amadala njengabalingani babo. Kodwa-ke, kowesilisa, kuba yinkinga uma bengakwazi ukwanelisa owesifazane osemusha embhedeni.
Kwabesilisa abaningi, ukuguga nezinkinga zobulili zamadoda kufaka ukwehluleka ukusuthisa abalingani babo besifazane.
Ukushayela ucansi kwendoda endala akufani nozakwabo abancane. Abanye besifazane empeleni bayakujabulela lokho. Iningi labesifazane alinjalo. Iningi labesifazane lifuna ukuthi amadoda abo asebenze njengenkunzi lapho begxuma emashidini. Kuleli qophelo, ucansi nokuguga kuba yinkinga.
Ngakho-ke yisiphi iseluleko sobulili, abesilisa abasebudlelwaneni nabesifazane abancane abangasuthiseki abangalandela ukuthatha isikhundla sezindaba zokuguga nezabesilisa?
Munye kuphela, yiba nempilo. Izinkinga zokuguga nezabesilisa ngeke zinyamalale ngomlingo.
Izingqinamba zabesilisa kungaba yizakhi zofuzo noma zomzimba njengokukhubazeka kwe-erectile. Kodwa umuthi wanamuhla unokulungiswa kwesikhashana kwalokho. Enye indlela ukubambezela ukwehla komzimba ngokudla okufanele nokuzivocavoca umzimba - noma ungakhetha owesifazane osemusha onedrive yocansi ephansi.
Abesifazane abaningi bakhetha ukuya ocansini namadoda amadala.
Ukuya ocansini okudala nokuguga kuyinkinga yangempela futhi ecindezelayo, kepha iningi lamadoda lifuna ukuya ocansini namandla emizimba yalo ukukwenza. (Ngiyabonga i-Pfizer ngosizo locansi kwabesilisa abanenkinga)
Iminyaka yokuya ocansini kwabesilisa ingaphambi kwabesifazane futhi iphela kamuva.
Abesifazane banezinkinga zomzimba nezinye zezempilo ukuthi kungani kungafanele baye ocansini lapho bebadala kakhulu noma bebancane kakhulu; abesilisa abanankinga efanayo. Uma sengikushilo lokho, ukuguga nezindaba zobulili zamadoda yisihloko esivuthayo, esidinga izimpendulo, nokushintshwa kwepharadigm.
Ngakho-ke uma ubuza ukuthi amadoda ayekela ukuya ocansini ngeminyaka emingaki?
Lapho beshada-bahlekisa nje. Abazi. Kunezici zenhlalo, zomzimba nezingokwengqondo eziyicindezelayo. Kepha lokho akusho ukuthi abafuni noma ngeke bathole indlela yokukwenza.
Kunezeluleko eziningi zocansi zamadoda online.
Amadoda amadala anolwazi nokuvuthwa ukwazi ukuthi angabajabulisa kanjani abesifazane embhedeni ngokwemvelo.
Kungashiwo okufanayo ngabesifazane, kepha ngasizathu simbe, izici zomdabu zomphakathi zikwenza kwamukeleke ngokwengeziwe ukuthi owesifazane osemncane alale nomuntu osekhulile kunolunye uhlangothi.
Ubulili babantu abadala: Ukujabulisa owesifazane osemncane
Ayikho incwadi yemilingo yokuthi ungamjabulisa kanjani owesifazane.
Kodwa-ke, amadoda amadala anokuqonda okujulile kwezidingo kanye nezidingo zowesifazane osembhedeni. Bazimisele ngokwengeziwe ukubambezela ukwaneliseka kwabo ngokocansi ukuqinisekisa ukuthi owesifazane uyeneliseka.
Ukujabulisa umuntu wesifazane embhedeni akulula njengoba kuzwakala.
Abesifazane abaningi banezinkinga ngokwaneliseka ngokocansi kanye nama-orgasms. Izeluleko ezingcono kakhulu zocansi kubantu besilisa zilula, qiniseka ukuthi owesifazane uyaneliseka ngaphambi kokuba uzijabulise.
Ukubikezela kwangaphambili, ukubambezeleka kwe-ejaculation, nokugcwalisa amaphupho kuhamba ibanga elide ekwaneliseni umuntu wesifazane.
Owesifazane osemusha uzoba nokukhuthazela okukhulu, aswele kakhulu, futhi angaqondi kangako uma ubashiya belenga.
Ngenhlanhla, amadoda amadala ajabula kakhulu ukujabulisa umuntu wesifazane kuqala. Izinkinga zocansi zamadoda zigxile kakhulu ku-ED. Ubulili nokuguga kusho ukuthi lapho bebadala, maningi amathuba okuthi bahlupheke nge-ED.
Izinkinga zocansi emadodeni zingaxazululwa ngendlela yokuphila enempilo, noma bangasebenzisa iphilisi elincane eliluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka ngezimo eziphuthumayo. Sincoma indlela yokuphila enempilo. Imiphumela emibi ingcono kakhulu.
Ngakho-ke amadoda amadala amjabulisa kanjani owesifazane osemncane?
Thola umzimba onempilo. Leyo yindlela engcono kakhulu yokwandisa idrayivu yocansi emadodeni angaphezu kweminyaka engama-40. Ukwakhiwa kuthinteka yingcindezi, imetabolism ephansi, nezinkinga zokugeleza kwegazi.
Umzimba onempilo ngokudla okufanele nokuvivinya umzimba uxazulula zonke izimbangela ezintathu. Impilo yabantu besilisa iyefana nempilo yabo iyonke. Kuyisayensi emsulwa. Ngokuqondene nekhono nesipiliyoni, uma ungenakho lokho ngo-40, angazi ukuthi ngithini okunye.
Indoda endala nezocansi
Ucansi luyindlela yomabili.
Uma ungowesifazane osemusha ucabanga ukuthi amadoda amadala afunani embhedeni, afuna okufunwa yibo bonke abantu embhedeni; bafuna owesifazane ofiselekayo ukwanelisa amaphupho abo.
Qaphela amagama amabili angukhiye, owesifazane ofiselekayo nefantasy.
Ubulili nokuguga kwamadoda kuyinkinga yezempilo yomzimba. Ukuguga kungahlolwa ngempilo enhle emzimbeni. Kepha uma sikhuluma ngengqondo, abesilisa kusukela ebusheni baye ekugugeni bafuna owesifazane ofiselekayo (noma abesifazane) ukwanelisa imicabango yabo. Indoda endala kungenzeka yaneliswe nje ukuthi intokazi iye ocansini nayo.
Ngakho-ke uma ungowesifazane othandana nendoda esikhulile. Hlala ufiseleka.
Uma bethanda abesifazane abasebasha, qiniseka ukuthi uhlala uphilile futhi uhlole ukuguga kwakho. Ngokuqondene namaphupho, kungani? Ungase uyithande.
Ubulili nokuguga akulungile kwabesifazane. Alikho iphilisi elincane eliluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka labesifazane, kepha kukhona i-KY jelly nezinye izithambisi ezikhethekile.
Kukhona nokucwaswa emphakathini ngokuba nobudlelwano nabesifazane asebekhulile.
Kungaba nomvuzo kwabanye besilisa, kepha izingqinamba zomzimba ezifana nengozi yokukhulelwa kanye nokunqamuka kokuya esikhathini zingabeka ubudlelwano ebugebengwini. Muva nje, kunenqubo yokulinga yokubambezela ukuya esikhathini, kodwa lokho akulishintshi iqiniso lokuthi ukukhulelwa lapho usukhulile kudala ingozi yempilo yomama nengane.
Ubulili nokuguga kuyinto engokwemvelo yokuphila. Izinkinga zokuguga nezocansi zamadoda zixhumene ngokujulile.
Njengoba sikhula, umzimba ulahlekelwa amandla amaningi omzimba, ubulili bufakiwe. Abesilisa baguga ngokushesha, ngaphandle kohlelo lwabo lokuzala.
Akukushintshi ukuthi ekugcineni kuzobafica njengoba iminyaka ihamba. Okuwukuphela kwekhambi langempela ukucindezela imiphumela yokuguga uqobo. Ukuphela kwendlela yokwenza lokho ukwamukela indlela yokuphila enempilo.