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- 1. Ithuthukisa amandla asendlini
- 2. Kukhulisa ubudlelwane
- 3. Ukhuluma nawo wonke umuntu
- 4. Kuthuthukisa amakhono wokuxhumana
- 5. Kukhulisa ukuzethemba
- 6. Ukwabela izindima
- 7. Ukuqeda izingxabano
- 8. Bheka izindlela zokuziphatha
- 9. Kufaka intethelelo
Imibhangqwana eshadile ingafuna ukucabanga ukubona umeluleki womshado nomndeni. Kaningi, izinkinga emshadweni zidlula umshado kuphela. Izimbangela ezingemuva kunezici ezahlukahlukene ezinikelayo. Abeluleki bomshado nabomndeni bangasiza ekuboneni izinto ezinikelayo futhi okungcono, ukuxazulula inkingas. Lokhu kwenziwa ngamasu ahlukahlukene wokushintsha izindlela zokuziphatha.
Izingxabano emshadweni zivame ukuvela kumathonya wokuziphatha avela kumandla omndeni. Noma ngabe kunezingane ezihilelekile noma abasekhweni, obunye ubudlelwane bunomthelela emshadweni. Ngenxa yalokhu, bonke ubudlelwano kumele kubhekwane nabo buthuthukiswe ukuze ekugcineni baqinise isibopho phakathi kwabashadile nomndeni wonkana.
Ake sixoxe ngokuthi umqeqeshi wokweluleka ngomshado ongumKristu angawuthuthukisa kanjani umshado wakho nomndeni wakho ngokuhlukile. Abeluleki bomndeni nabemishado benza lukhulu ekusizeni ukuxazulula noma yikuphi ukungaboni ngaso linye noma ucindezele ubudlelwano babashadikazi noma isibopho nomndeni.
Ngezansi kunezindlela eziyi-9 lapho ukwelulekwa ngemishado nemindeni kusiza khona:
1. Ithuthukisa amandla asendlini
Kunamandla emikhayeni yonke futhi lawo athinta ngqo ubudlelwano. Indlela engcono kakhulu yokwenza ngcono amandla asekhaya ukubabuyisela ekuqondaneni. Izinkinga zenzeka lapho amalungu omndeni eqala ukunyathela izinzwane zomunye nomunye noma lapho kubhekene nezikhathi ezinzima.
Lokhu kungafaka noma yini kusuka ezelulekweni zomshado ezingafunwa ngabasekhweni, amalungu omndeni angahambisani, azizwe engazwakali, amakhono aphikisayo obuzali, izinkinga zezimali, ukushona emndenini, kanye nenqwaba yezinye izinto. Lokhu kungaba nomthelela omubi ekuziphatheni futhi ubudlelwano bungaba nenkinga.
Ngokwelulekwa, abeluleki bomshado abangamaKristu nabomndeni bayakwazi ukusiza imibhangqwana nemindeni yabo ekutholeni isisombululo saphakade ngokubeka izinhloso ezithile, ezifinyelelekayo njengokuthuthukisa ukuxhumana.
2. Kukhulisa ubudlelwane
Abaluleki bemishado nabomndeni bamaKristu nabo bakhuluma ngokwandisa ubudlelwano. Abantu bavame ukucabanga ukwelulekwa futhi izingqondo zabo ziye ekuxazululeni izingxabano kepha kudlula ukuxazulula izinkinga.
Ngokusebenzisana nemibhangqwana nemindeni yayo, abeluleki bayakwazi ukubasondeza futhi baqinise isibopho sabo. Ukusungula ubumbano ngezikhathi ezithile kungumuzwa omuhle odonsa izinhliziyo. Kwabaningi, ubunye yingxenye yokugcina yephazili edingekayo ukuze uthole okuningi ngezikhathi zokululekwa.
3. Ukhuluma nawo wonke umuntu
Ukwelulekwa ngomshado nangokomndeni kukhuluma nawo wonke umuntu osendlini. Ukuze isinqumo sinamathele, wonke umuntu kufanele ashintshe. Abeluleki bakhuthaza lezi zinguquko ezibalulekile ngokweluleka abantu kanye nabashadikazi / umndeni wonkana.
4. Kuthuthukisa amakhono wokuxhumana
Enye yezindlela eziyinhloko zokuqondana noma ukwazi umuntu ngukuxhumana. Ukuxhumana okusebenzayo ebudlelwaneni kuyisidingo esiyisisekelo, noma kunjalo, esivame ukunganakwa.
Abeluleki bomshado nabomndeni basebenza njengabalamuli futhi basize ekuxazululeni ukungezwani phakathi kwezithandani noma amanye amalungu omndeni. Ngokuchazwa kangcono kwemizwa, uzokwazi ukuxazulula amazinga ahlukahlukene wokuxhumana ngokungeyikho ngokululekwa ngomshado womndeni.
5. Kukhulisa ukuzethemba
Izingxabano kufanele zivele emndenini.
Ngakho-ke, ukwelulekwa ngomshado kusebenza kanjani kulesi sici?
Izimpikiswano zingasusa ukuzethemba komuntu, ikakhulukazi uma kwenzeka nomlingani noma nomndeni. Lokhu kulapho abeluleki bomshado nabomndeni bengenelela ukuze basize ngokuqeqeshwa kwabo ngamakhono kanye nokungenelela kokwelapha.
Lokhu futhi kuxazulula umbuzo othi 'Ingabe ukwelulekwa ngomshado kungawusindisa umshado?'
Yebo, umeluleki womshado uzama ukuqonda ukuthi ngubani ophethe amandla ebudlelwaneni futhi uzama ukubunciphisa, ngalokho, ukuvuselela ukuzethemba kweqembu elizithobayo.
6. Ukwabela izindima
Kungahle kube nezikhathi lapho omunye wabantu abasemshadweni ebeka engcupheni kakhulu ebudlelwaneni kungabi khona ukuphendula komunye umlingani. Ukubaluleka kokwelulekwa ngukuthi abeluleki abanjalo emshadweni nasemindenini bayasiza ukusungula isibopho esiqinile ngokuvumela ilungu ngalinye lomndeni libe nokubaluleka okulinganayo.
abeluleki bezemishado nabomndeni nabo bayasiza ekubekeni imingcele nasekusunguleni inhlonipho ngokukhombisa igunya labazali kanye nombono nezidingo zezingane.
7. Ukuqeda izingxabano
Ungakuthola nini ukwelulekwa ngomshado?
Ukwelulekwa ngomndeni nangomshado kubalulekile ekuxazululeni izingxabano emshadweni. Indima yabeluleki bomshado neyomndeni ukuhlinzeka izeluleko ngezinkinga zomshado kulabo abashadile.
Izingxabano zingenzeka nasemndenini okungaholela ezingxabanweni ezinkulu. Ngakho-ke, izinzuzo zokwelulekwa ngemishado ukuthi zinciphisa noma yiziphi izimo ezingezinhle ezinjalo ku-bud by ukuxazulula izingxabano nendlela yokuxazulula izinkinga maqondana nalesi simo.
8. Bheka izindlela zokuziphatha
Abeluleki bomshado nabomndeni basebenzisa izindlela ezahlukahlukene zokwelapha ukuxazulula isimilo esingenampilo noma esilimazayo kubantu, ikakhulukazi ezinganeni. Injongo yokwelulekwa okunjalo ukusungula inzuzo yesikhathi eside.
Yini injongo yokwelulekwa?
Lokhu kusetshenziselwa ukwelapha inani elikhulu labantu abanezinkinga ezahlukahlukene. Kunezinhlobo ezahlukahlukene zokwelashwa kokuziphatha njenge:
- Ukwehliswa kwesistimu
- Ukwelashwa kokungezwani
- Ukwelashwa kokuziphatha kwengqondo
- Ukwelashwa kokudlala kokuziphatha kwengqondo
Lezi zindlela zokwelapha zisiza ku:
- Ukukhathazeka
- Ukucindezeleka
- Izinkinga zentukuthelo
- Ukusetshenziswa kabi kwezidakamizwa
- I-ADHD
- Ukuzilimaza
- Phobias
9. Kufaka intethelelo
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Ngakho-ke, uma wena nomndeni wakho nibhekene nanoma yikuphi ukucindezeleka ngokomzwelo noma inkinga, iya emshadweni nakubeluleki bemindeni ukuxazulula inkinga.