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- Ukuphuma kubalulekile
- Qoqa imininingwane yezimali
- Zilungiselele ukuhlala wedwa
- Lungisa izinto nezingane zakho
Kubantu abaningi, esinye sezinyathelo zokuqala esehlukanisweni ukuphuma ekhaya.
Kwesinye isikhathi ukuphuma kuyenziwa ngendlela ezolile nenengqondo. Kwezinye izikhathi kuba yisipiliyoni esingokomzwelo futhi esinodlame. Noma ngabe ikuphi, kungcono ukulandela lolu hlu lokukhishwa kwesehlukaniso.
Ukuphuma kubalulekile
Ezimweni eziningi, ukuphuma kuyisinyathelo esibalulekile esisemthethweni ekuqedeni umshado. Lesi yisinyathelo esibaluleke kunazo zonke sohlu lokuhlola olususa isehlukaniso.
Isehlukaniso nokuphuma ngaphandle kuyizandulela komunye nomunye. Lapho omunye umlingani ephuma, kulandela isehlukaniso. Futhi ngemuva kwesehlukaniso, kuyadingeka ukuthi omunye wabalingani aphume.
Ezinye izifundazwe zizonikeza kuphela isehlukaniso esingenaphutha ngemuva kokuthi izithandani bezihlala ngokwehlukana i-a isikhathi ihlala noma kuphi kusuka emasontweni ambalwa iye ngaphezu konyaka.
Kufanele ubheke umthetho esifundazweni sakho, ngoba uma lokhu kuyisidingo udinga ukusungula indawo yokuhlala ehlukile ngokushesha okukhulu. Lesi sikhathi sokwehlukana sisebenza njengesikhathi sokulinda esivimba isehlukaniso sokugcina kuze kube yilapho uhulumeni enesiqiniseko sokuthi lezi zithandani zifuna ngempela ukuhlukaniswa. Lokhu kufanele kube phezulu kwesahlukaniso sakho esikhipha uhlu lokuhlola uma uhlala ezweni elinalo mthetho.
Qoqa imininingwane yezimali
Leli elinye lamaphuzu abaluleke kakhulu ohlwini lokuhlola lwangemva kwesehlukaniso. Ukwehlukanisa izimpahla zombhangqwana (noma izikweletu) yingxenye enkulu yesehlukaniso.
Kungaba nzima kakhulu ukuhlukanisa lezo zimpahla lapho ungazi ukuthi unamalini. Kuyamangaza ukuthi kuvamile ngomlingani oyedwa ukuthi angasizwa kahle isimo sezimali salabo abashadayo. Okubi kakhulu, emibhangqwaneni eminingi, akekho nowakwakhe oziqonda kahle izinto.
Esehlukanisweni, umuntu onolwazi oluhleleke kakhulu uzovela phambili. Ukushiya ummeli wakho ephuthaphutha emaphepheni akho ezezimali, noma uze uye nasenkantolo ukuyokhipha imininingwane kumlingani wakho osehlukana naye, kungabiza kakhulu.
Oshade naye onohlu lokuhlola oluhleliwe oluhlukanisa kahle uzokwazi ukuqinisekisa ukuthi azikho izimpahla eziwela phakathi kokuqhekeka, futhi akukho zindleko ezingatholakali.
Zilungiselele ukuhlala wedwa
Cabanga ngezindlela oncike kuzakwenu. Ingabe unayo i-akhawunti yasebhange ehlanganyelwe? Ngabe niyabelana ngohlelo lomakhalekhukhwini? Ingabe ngamunye unabo okhiye bemoto “yenu”?
Lezi zinto zingaba nzima kakhulu ngokungazelelwe. Ezimweni eziningi, i-akhawunti yasebhange ngokuhlanganyela izodinga ukuma ngokushesha, kepha ngasikhathi sinye, awuvunyelwe ukukhipha i-akhawunti nje. Udinga ukuza nesivumelwano sesikhashana kuze kube izinto ziphothulwa. Ukuphathwa kwezinsizakusebenza okwesikhashana kuyiphuzu elibalulekile ohlwini lokuhlola lwangemuva kwesehlukaniso.
Lokhu kungadinga ukungenelela kwenkantolo, kepha imibhangqwana eminingi iyakwazi ukukuxazulula. Isibonelo, i-akhawunti ehlangene ingaqhubeka nokukhokha izikweletu ezifana nokubanjiswa kwekhaya lomndeni, kepha umlingani ngamunye uvunyelwe inani elithile azolisebenzisa kwezinye izindleko zakhe.
Cishe futhi ufuna umakhalekhukhwini omusha ukuze oshade naye angakwazi ukubona amarekhodi akho wezingcingo, futhi uvame ukufuna ukufinyelela kumlingani wakho ezintweni ezifana nemoto yakho. Into ebalulekile ongayengeza kuhlu lwakho lokuhlola lokuhlukanisa.
Lungisa izinto nezingane zakho
Izindaba ezinhle ukuthi abacwaningi abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi izingane zivame ukuzivumelanisa nokuhamba kwesikhathi ngokuhlukanisa. Abazali akudingeki bahlale ebudlelwaneni obungenampilo ngenxa nje yezingane zabo.
Lokho kusho ukuthi uhamba kanjani ngayo kungaba nomthelela omkhulu empilweni yengane. Kufanele uzame ukungafihli lutho ezinganeni zakho, futhi unikeze imfudumalo nokusekelwa ngokomzwelo ngawodwana noma ungasakwazi ukukwenza lokho njengombhangqwana. Zama ukugcina ukungaboni ngaso linye kwakho noshade naye kwehlukile ebudlelwaneni bakho nezingane zakho.
Lokhu akusikhona nje kuphela uhlu lokuhlola olususa isehlukaniso kepha futhi nohlu lokuhlola lokuqhubeka ngemuva kwesehlukaniso. Yize ukumosheka okungokomzwelo kuzodinga isikhathi sokuhlehla, nezidingo zezimali nezomthetho zingasekho, uzoba nento eyodwa ongakhathazeki ngayo futhi uzobe ususondele ekudluleleni emuva kwesehlukaniso.