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- 1. Ukuqaphela akukuhle
- 2. Gwema amaphijama, ababulali bemizwa
- 3. Gcina ibhizinisi lakho lokugezela kuwe
- 4. Yazi ukubaluleka kwakho
- 5. Lawula imizwa yakho
- 6. Yenza njengentokazi
- 7. Ungazishintshi
- 8. Ungamkhulisi umuntu wakho wakudala
- 9. Phatha amadoda akho ngothando nokuthandwa abakudingayo
Kulezi zinsuku, abesifazane bakwi-inthanethi yonke bahlaziya ingqondo yowesilisa. Indlela yabo yokuqomisana nobudlelwano yiyo ehlanyisa abesifazane futhi ibanikeze izaba zokuchitha impelasonto yabo nabangane babo bephuza i-cocktail.
Ingqondo yowesilisa iyimfihlakalo nokuyiqonda kungathatha isikhathi esiningi nomzamo. Abafazi abaningi baphelelwa yithemba lapho bengazi ukuthi kwenzekani emqondweni wabayeni babo, ukuthi ucabangani, nokuthi ufuna ukwenzani.
Kepha akusadingeki ukhathazeke, okushiwo ngezansi kukhona amathiphu obudlelwano umfazi ukusiza ukuqonda kangcono abangane babo bomshado.
1. Ukuqaphela akukuhle
Akulungile ukuba nomona kwesinye isikhathi ngoba lokhu kwenza omunye umuntu azizwe efiswa futhi ebaluleke kakhulu. Kodwa-ke, ukudlula ezintweni zomyeni wakho, ifoni yakhe, isikhwama semali namaphakethe amajini akhe ngenkathi egeza kuyabheda. Lokhu akubekezeleleki futhi kuzala izingqinamba zokwethembana nokungavikeleki.
Uma uzizwa sengathi umyeni wakho kukhona akufihlayo, kungcono ukhulume naye kunokuba unyonyobele bese uyamhlola.
Ngale ndlela ungathola ukuvalwa futhi ugcine ubudlelwane bakho bunempilo.
2. Gwema amaphijama, ababulali bemizwa
Iningi labafana alifuni ukubona omkawo begqoke izingubo zokulala ngemuva kosuku olude besemsebenzini.
Amahora okusebenza angaba nengcindezi, futhi abafana babheke phambili ukuya ekhaya futhi bachithe isikhathi esithile nomlingani wabo, kepha ukuhamba endlini ukubona unkosikazi wabo ephijama kungaba ukubulala imizwa.
Amantombazane kufanele athathe isikhathi esithile futhi uma eseqedile ukwenza imisebenzi yawo yansuku zonke, agqokele amadoda abo. Lokhu kuzojabulisa umyeni wakho kakhulu, futhi bazokujabulela ukuchitha isikhathi nawe.
3. Gcina ibhizinisi lakho lokugezela kuwe
Ayikho indoda efuna ukucabanga intombazane yabo ihleli ethoyilethi.
Indlu yangasese iyindawo engcwele futhi noma yini oyenzayo endlini yokugezela ibhizinisi lakho ngokuphelele.
Umyeni wakho akanayo intshisekelo yokwazi ukuthi wenzani lapho. Ngaphandle kokuthi uyashawa.
4. Yazi ukubaluleka kwakho
Abesilisa bancoma abesifazane abazethembayo nabaziyo ukubaluleka kwabo.
Lapho owesilisa ekhuluma nowesifazane ongazethembi, onokungabaza nokuzethemba okukhulu, angalahlekelwa yinhlonipho anayo ngaye.
Njengomuntu wesifazane, kumele uqonde ukuthi umuhle kakhulu futhi unamandla, akumele nakancane ungabaze lokho. Ungalokothi uthobise ukuzethemba kwakho.
5. Lawula imizwa yakho
Kujwayelekile ukuthi uphatheke kabi futhi uthukuthele ngengxabano kodwa ukuthukuthela kakhulu uze uqale ukumemeza nokumemeza kungahle kudale ukuthi umyeni wakho angabe esakuhlonipha. Ngesikhathi sokuxabana, ukuphonsa izitsha, iminyango eshayayo kungadudula indoda yakho isuke kuwe.
Ukubonisa ukuthi unolaka kakhulu kungabathinta futhi akukuhle ebudlelwaneni besikhathi eside.
6. Yenza njengentokazi
Ukulalela owesifazane akhulume sengathi usebenzise ubuntwana bakhe emgwaqweni kungakhanga kakhulu.
Ayikho indoda efuna ukuletha ekhaya intombazane engakwazi ukukhuluma nabantu futhi ikhulume njengentokazi. Lokhu akukwenzi uzwakale upholile kakhulu futhi kunalokho ukucisha kwangempela kwabesilisa.
Yenza njengomuntu wesifazane, uzokuphatha njengaye.
7. Ungazishintshi
Abesifazane abaningi uma bengena ebudlelwaneni, bayazishiya ngemuva. Bayakhohlwa abakuthandayo nabangakuthandi bese bezama ukuba yinguqulo ngqo yabayeni babo.
Kulungile ngokuphelele ukuba nezinto zokuzilibazisa nezinto ozithandayo noma ongazithandi.
Ukuthi awungeni entweni efanayo njengoba engasho ukuthi awukujabuleli. Uma efuna ukubuka umdlalo webhola, chitha isikhathi naye futhi uwubuke. Lokhu kuzosiza ukukhulisa ukubopha onakho komunye nomunye.
8. Ungamkhulisi umuntu wakho wakudala
Ukukhulisa i-ex yakho yinto yokugcina okufanele uyenze ebudlelwaneni.
Abesilisa banomzwelo wemvelo wokuba nomona futhi babe namandla, ukukhulisa i-ex yakho kuzobenza bahlanye, futhi kungahle kubathinte.
9. Phatha amadoda akho ngothando nokuthandwa abakudingayo
Amantombazane amaningi enza iphutha ngokungaphathi amadoda abo ngothando nokuthandwa abakudingayo. Yilapho bephutha khona. Abafana bafana namantombazane, futhi badinga ukunakwa, uthando nokunakekelwa ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Lapho befika ekhaya, bafuna othile ozobabuza ngosuku lwabo; badinga umuntu ozobamba futhi bakhulume ubusuku bonke; badinga umuntu abazobukela naye uGodfather. Ukuthi izintshisekelo zakho zishayisana naye akusho ukuthi awukwazi ukukujabulela.
Uma umyeni wakho engahlala phansi abuke i-Notebook nawe, nawe ungenza okufanayo. Chitha isikhathi naye, umthande futhi umkhathalele. Konke lokhu kubenza bajabule.