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- 1. Impilo yasekolishi ayiyona impilo yangempela
- 2. Kungaba nezizinda ezihluke kakhulu
- 3. Abanye bathande ubuhlobo bakho
- 4. Imisebenzi ingahle ingahambelani
- 5. Umhlaba uyindawo enkulu
- Iseluleko esihle kakhulu
Umuntu ojwayelekile oshadayo namuhla unengozi engama-40% yokuhlukanisa. Lokhu kuncane kune-50% ekhishwe kakhulu, kepha kunezizathu zalokhu.
- Bambalwa abantu empeleni abashadayo manje kunasemashumini eminyaka adlule
- Izinga lama-50% liyisilinganiso - abantu abasemishadweni yesibili empeleni banezinga lesehlukaniso elingama-60% +; futhi ngemishado yesithathu, amaphesenti anda kakhulu.
Kukonke, kunzima ukucacisa amaphesenti wangempela ezinga lesehlukaniso, ngoba kuhlukahluka okuningi kakhulu kufakwa ocwaningweni ngalunye. Kepha iphuzu yilokhu: isehlukaniso yinto yangempela, futhi yenzeka kaningi. Okwenza abantu bahlukanise kuyisihloko sezinye izifundo eziningi.
Imibhangqwana eminingi iyatholana ekolishi, futhi lobo budlelwano buphela emshadweni, imvamisa lapho kuthweswa iziqu, uma kungenjalo ngaphambili. Baba yingxenye ye- uthando lasekolishi lothando izindaba - umfana uhlangana nentombazane, umfana nentombazane share impilo yasekolishi Ndawonye, umfana nentombazane banakho izindaba ezinhle zothando ukubambelela, bese kushada umfana nentombazane.
Kepha le mishado iyingxenye yezibalo futhi, futhi ingagcina ngesehlukaniso.
Yize lokhu kungahle kungabonakali njengesihloko esimnandi sothando, kunezizathu zokuthi ungashadi nothando lwakho lwasekolishi. Nazi ezinhlanu okufanele zicatshangelwe.
1. Impilo yasekolishi ayiyona impilo yangempela
Kukhona okuthile okuthandekayo nokuthandana ngempilo yasekolishi ngokujwayelekile. Izingane zizodwa futhi zinenkululeko ezazingakaze zibe nayo ngaphambili. Konke kujabulisa kakhulu futhi kusha. Ukuthola ubudlelwano obusha kule ndawo kuqhelelene kakhulu nobudlelwano emhlabeni wangempela wokuba mdala. Kukhona umbono ongaqiniswa yiqiniso. Uyahlangana; nifunda ndawonye; nidla ndawonye; nilala ndawonye; futhi uthola izindlela zokwenza ukuthi lezo zabelo ziphothulwe, zisebenzisane. Lapho iqiniso lokuthi umuntu emdala lishaya empeleni, imibhangqwana ingathola ukuthi ababhekani nayo ngendlela efanayo.
2. Kungaba nezizinda ezihluke kakhulu
Ikholeji, ngezindlela eziningi, lilinganisa okuhle. Abafundi bahlangana bevela ezizindeni eziningi ezahlukahlukene “nemithwalo” ehlukile. Ngesikhathi sekolishi, le "mthwalo" ayibonisi okuningi. Kepha uma sebephumile esikoleni, imibhangqwana enezizinda, izindinganiso nezinto eziza kuqala ezehluke kakhulu kungenzeka ingaphumeleli.
3. Abanye bathande ubuhlobo bakho
Niyizithandani ezinhle. Wonke umuntu uthatha ukuthi ekugcineni uzoshada. Ungahle ube nokubhuka okuthile, kepha, he, uma wonke umuntu ecabanga ukuthi kuhle, nawe unjalo. Lapho isuswa kulelo "siko," futhi empeleni umshado, izinto zibukeka zehluke kakhulu.
4. Imisebenzi ingahle ingahambelani
Ngenkathi ulungiselela ikhono lomsebenzi, wenza izifundo zekhampasi, mhlawumbe i-internship. Kanjalo nothando lwakho. Ekugcineni leyo misebenzi izokuyisa kuphi? Kungenzeka ukuthi umlingani wakho ubheke phambili ekulungiseleleni “isidleke” nobabili ekhaya njalo kusihlwa, nidla isidlo sakusihlwa futhi nichitha ubusuku ndawonye. Umsebenzi wakho ungasho ukuthi uhamba kakhulu. Futhi awufuni ukuyeka lowo msebenzi ukuze uthole umsebenzi okugcina ekhaya.
5. Umhlaba uyindawo enkulu
Lapho usuphothulile futhi uqala impilo njengomuntu omdala ngempela, uzothola ukuthi kunabanye abantu abaningi kanye namaqembu abantu ohambisanayo nabo futhi ofuna ukuhlanganyela nabo impilo yomphakathi. Ungahle usheshe ulahlekelwe yilolo thando oluvela ekolishi uvune amalungu amasha ahlukene wobulili obuhlukile othola ukuthi ujabulisa kakhulu futhi uhambelana nempilo yakho.
Iseluleko esihle kakhulu
Uma usekolishi futhi usothandweni, kuyinto enhle. Kepha, kungakuhle ukuthi nina nobabili nithweswe iziqu futhi ningene ezweni langempela isikhashana, ukubona ukuthi uthando lwenu lumelana yini nezinselelo zobudala. Miningi iminyaka oshadile. Kwesinye isikhathi ukugwema isehlukaniso ukugwema umshado kwasekuqaleni.