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- 1. Zinike isikhathi sokucubungula nokudabuka
- 2. Yiba nomusa kuwe
- 3. Sebenzela ukuvala
- 4. Funda okuningi ngangokunokwenzeka
- 5. Bhala, Bhala ne-Talk
- 6. Thatha umthwalo wemfanelo ngekusasa lakho nekusasa lakho
- 7. Thola amakhono owadingayo
- 8. Yakha uhlelo lokusekela
- 9. Thola injongo nencazelo
Lapho uhlukanisa, kusho ukuphuma ekhaya lomshado futhi wakhe ikhaya elisha kwenye indawo.
Ezingeni elingokomzwelo nangokomoya, futhi udinga ukuphuma endaweni 'yomuntu oshadile' lapho ubuhlala khona uthole enye indawo yokuhlala njengomuntu osanda kushada.
Cabanga ngalolu shintsho njengo ukuthola ikhaya elisha lenhliziyo yakho. Leli khaya lizoba uhlobo lwesithabathaba somuzi olubizwa ngokuthi 'yindlu yokuphulukisa neyokululama.' Kule ndlu, kunamagumbi ayisishiyagalolunye, futhi igumbi ngalinye likhiyiwe.
Njengoba nisahlukanisa, unikezwa inqwaba yokhiye, futhi kuyisifiso sakho emasontweni, ezinyangeni, naseminyakeni ezayo ukusebenzisa lezi zihluthulelo ukuvula yonke iminyango endlini enhle entsha lapho ozohlala khona manje.
Ekuqaleni, ungaphatha ukuvula ikamelo elilodwa noma amabili, uhlala endaweni encane isikhashana, futhi lokho kulungile. Kuze kube yilapho uqaphela yonke eminye iminyango ekuzungezile, bese uqala ukuklabalasa inqwaba yokhiye bakho ukuze uthole leyo evumelana nayo futhi ikuvulele i-vista entsha ngokuphelele.
Nayi i- izinkomba ezimbalwa zokukusiza ekutholeni kwakho isehlukaniso noma inqubo yokuphulukisa isehlukaniso, njengoba uqhubeka usebenzisa okhiye bakho ukuvula wonke amakamelo asendlini yakho yokwelashwa nokuphulukiswa ngemuva kwesahlukaniso sakho.
1. Zinike isikhathi sokucubungula nokudabuka
Into ebaluleke kakhulu lapho uthola isahlukaniso hhayi ukushesha le nqubo. Ukudabuka kuwumsebenzi onzima, futhi uma ufaka ukulimala kwakho egumbini elingaphansi kwenhliziyo yakho, kuzobila futhi kubole, kuphinde kuvuke ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kukulethele ubuhlungu nobunzima.
Lapho uthola isahlukaniso, akulungile futhi ukugijimela kobunye ubudlelwano ungakalulami kahle kudivosi yakho.
Uma uzibuza ukuthi uzolulama isikhathi esingakanani esahlukweni noma sithini isikhathi sokutakula isehlukaniso?
Bonke ubuhlobo buhlukile, kanjalo nokuhlukana konke. Ngakho bekezela.
2. Yiba nomusa kuwe
Ukuzinakekela kungenye yezikhiye ezinkulu eqenjini lakho ngesikhathi sokululama kwesehlukaniso. Qiniseka ukuthi uthola lelo gumbi ngokushesha okukhulu. Ngemuva kwakho konke, uma ungazinakekeli, ngeke ukwazi ukunakekela omunye umuntu.
Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu uma unezingane; badinga ukuthi ubasize ngoba lesi sehlukaniso siyabathinta nabo. Ngakho-ke thatha lawo bhafu we-bubble oshisayo owengeziwe, hamba ngemvelo, bese uzithengele into enhle ongayigqoka (noshokoledi noma amabili, kunjalo.)
3. Sebenzela ukuvala
Ukuthola ukuvalwa kungenye yezinyathelo ezibalulekile zokutakula isehlukaniso.
Ukuvalwa kungaba ngenye yalezo zinto ezingafinyeleleki ocabanga ukuthi unazo, bese ungathandi - njengensipho eshelelayo eshaweni. Ungacabangi ukuthi uzohlangabezana nokuvalwa ngokugcwele lapho usuphethe isitifiketi sesehlukaniso.
Kungasebenza ngaleyo ndlela kwabanye, kepha khumbula okungenani kunamazinga amahlanu wokuxhumana emshadweni:
- Ukuxhumana ngokocansi
- Ukuxhumana ngokomzimba
- Ukuxhumana ngokomzwelo
- Ukuxhumana kwezezimali
- Ukuxhumeka kwezomthetho
Ngakho-ke kungathatha isikhashana ngaphambi kokuba uzizwe ukhululeke ngokuphelele kuwo wonke amazinga, ikakhulukazi ngokomoya.
4. Funda okuningi ngangokunokwenzeka
Imininingwane iletha ukuqonda nokuhlonza. Noma yini oseke wabhekana nayo, yenza ucwaningo uthole konke ngakho, noma ngabe bekukhona ukuhlukunyezwa, utshwala, imilutha, ukuphinga, noma yini enye.
Njengoba ufunda ngabanye abaye babhekana nezimo ezifanayo, uzofunda ukuthi babhekana kanjani futhi baluthola kanjani usizo, futhi uzobona ukuthi awuwedwa.
Kulesi sigaba sokululama kwesehlukaniso, uma futhi lapho uthola ukhiye waleli gumbi, ngena uhlale ekhoneni ufunde, ufunde, ufunde. Uzozizwa ungcono kakhulu, futhi ngolunye usuku uzobona ukuthi ufunde kangakanani.
5. Bhala, Bhala ne-Talk
Ngaphandle kokufunda, kuyasiza nokubhala phansi okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho. Thola iphephabhuku elihle elikhulu lapho ungaqopha yonke imizwa yakho. Mhlawumbe uthanda ukudweba, noma ukubhala izinkondlo, ukopishe amavesi noma izingcaphuno ozithola zilusizo.
Into esemqoka ukuthi uzwakalisa ukuthi uzizwa kanjani futhi uvumela ubuhlungu bakho buphume kuwe buye emakhasini. Futhi khuluma nalabo ongabethemba.
Ukuzwa nje wena usho okwenzekile kungakusiza ukuthi uthole ingqondo yakho ngakho futhi ufinyelele endaweni yokulungela ukuqhubeka. Funa iqembu lokutakula isehlukaniso elizokusiza ngale nqubo.
6. Thatha umthwalo wemfanelo ngekusasa lakho nekusasa lakho
Esehlukanisweni, kulula kakhulu ukungena kulo mdlalo osolayo, futhi ngokungangabazeki, kunezizathu eziningi. Kodwa-ke, ukusola kukwenza uzizwe njengesisulu futhi akusizi ukuthi ubone ukuthi ungalulama kanjani esahlukanisweni.
Ukuba nomqondo wesisulu akukuhle empilweni nasengqondweni yakho. Ngakho-ke kungcono kakhulu uma ukwazi zibhekele iqhaza lakho kunoma yini eyenzekile.
Igama elibalulekile yingxenye 'yakho' - hhayi eyomunye umuntu. Noma ngabe ingxenye yakho ibiyini, ungafunda okuthile kuyo. Ngemuva kwalokho ungasebenzisa lokho okufundile ukuzakhela ikusasa elisha.
7. Thola amakhono owadingayo
Into elandelayo ebalulekile okufanele uzilungiselele yona ukuthi 'ungazithola kanjani imali ngokwehlukana.'
Ukhiye waleli gumbi lendlu yakho yokutakula kuhilela ukufunda amakhono amasha. Mhlawumbe owakwakho bekunguye njalo okhokha izikweletu futhi abone ezezimali. Noma mhlawumbe awukaze udinge ukwazi ukuthi ungasebenzisa kanjani i-drill noma i-snowblower.
Manje yisikhathi sakho sokufunda impilo yonke. Ungahle uthande ukuthatha ezinye izifundo noma izingqungquthela ukuze uzithuthukise futhi uzinike amandla. Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi uma udinga ukungena kabusha emakethe futhi uthole umsebenzi.
8. Yakha uhlelo lokusekela
Sonke sidinga ukusekelwa, okuyiqiniso kunanini ngaphambili lapho udivosa. Yelula isandla futhi uncike kulawo malungu omndeni nabangane abavulelekile nabakusekelayo.
Ungase futhi umangale ukuthola ukusekelwa okuvela emithonjeni ongayilindele; ngenxa yalokho osudlule kukho, abanye bangakuvulela ithuba futhi babelane ngamava abo afanayo ukuze bakududuze futhi bakukhuthaze ohambweni lwakho.
9. Thola injongo nencazelo
Ukhiye wokugcina kunqwaba yakho uzovula indawo enhle yokwamukelwa lapho ungakwazi khona thola inhloso nencazelo yakho kulokho osudlule kukho. Yize isehlukaniso singesona neze isipiliyoni esihle, kuningi okuhle okungabangelwa yiso.
Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi uzokwazi ukubheka emuva bese uthi, “Ngifunde okuningi ngesehlukaniso sami, futhi sengingumuntu onamandla kakhulu manje.”
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