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Nganoma yiluphi usuku, izigidi nezigidi zamadoda nabesifazane bafuna usizo emhlabeni wokuqomisana.
Bafuna ukuthola lowo muntu okhethekile. Mhlawumbe umphefumulo wabo. Noma mhlawumbe bafuna umuntu azobloma naye, futhi ajabule naye, ngaphandle kokuthi kuphenduke ubudlelwano obunzima.
Kunoma ikuphi, abantu abaningi namuhla bazama ukujola nabaqeqeshi ukubasiza bathole lowo muntu ophelele.
Kepha khumbula njalo, mthengi, qaphela!
Eminyakeni engama-29 edlule, umbhali, umeluleki kanye nomqeqeshi ophambili othengisa kakhulu uDavid Essel ubelokhu esiza abesilisa nabesifazane emhlabeni wokuqomisana, ngokubenza bazilungiselele, bahleleke, futhi bagxile ohlotsheni lomuntu omfunayo .
Njengomuntu osebenze nabaningi njengomqeqeshi wokuphola / umeluleki esikhathini esedlule, uDavid uyalithanda iqiniso lokuthi abantu bafuna usizo, kepha kukhona uhlobo olulodwa lomqeqeshi okungafanele nanini usebenze naye.
Ukungena nokuphuma kokusebenza nabaqeqeshi bezithandani
Abaqeqeshi abaningi emhlabeni wokuqomisana, baqhuba uhlelo olugcwele ubuqotho.
Inhloso yabo ukusiza iklayenti ukuthi lihleleke maqondana nokuthi lifuna hlobo luni lomuntu, uhlobo lwabantu olungasoze lwabasebenzela, kanye nokunikeza usizo ekubhalweni kwephrofayili yabo ikakhulukazi kumasayithi wokuphola we-inthanethi.
Kodwa ngolunye usuku, ngifunde i-athikili ku-New York Times mayelana nomqeqeshi wokuphola onobuqotho obukhulu, empeleni okhuthaza amaklayenti akhe ukuthi aqambe amanga kulabo abazoba abalingani bokuqoma, okuyiqiniso okuzobuyisa isikhathi esikhulu.
Futhi sazi kanjani ukuthi lo mqeqeshi unobuqotho obunguziro? Ngoba uzenza iklayenti, ekusebenzisaneni kokuqala nabalingani abangaba khona kumasayithi wokuphola.
Lokhu kuyahlekisa, kungikhathaza kakhulu, futhi mhlawumbe kungenye yezindlela ezingezinhle zokuziphatha umuntu emhlabeni wokuqeqesha noma ukwelulekwa angazenza.
Ngakho-ke ngokusho kwendatshana, uxoxa neklayenti, alazi, abese eya emhlabeni we-inthanethi wokuthandana online futhi enze sengathi uyilelo khasimende.
Ngakho-ke uqamba amanga, kulabo abangahle abe ngabalingani bakhe, ngokuthi ungumuntu ongeyena futhi namakhasimende amkhokhelayo nawo aqamba amanga, ngoba uma eseqale ukusebenzisana ngokwawo, into obekufanele ngabe ayayenza kusukela ekuqaleni , iningi alisoze latshela lo muntu ukuthi linentshisekelo yokuthi akusibona ababekade bexoxa bodwa esikhathini esedlule.
Uyakholelwa ukuthi lokhu kusemthethweni?
Qaphela, mthengi qaphela
Ukube bengiyikhasimende lakhe, bengizonengeka ngokwenza kwakhe. Ngangimtshela ukuthi akulungile.
Ukube bengiyiklayenti lakho futhi ngingavezanga ozakwethu ongaba naye ukuthi bekungeyimi ebengixhumana nabo ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ezedlule ezinyangeni noma ezinyangeni, kepha bekungumqeqeshi wokuphola, ucabanga ukuthi lokho kuzodlula kanjani lo mlingani omusha ongaba umlingani wakhe?
Ukube bengingaba umlingani ongaba khona, futhi ngihlangane nomuntu endaweni yokuphola ongitshele ukuthi empeleni abasebenzisananga nami, ukuthi bekungumqeqeshi wokuphola abamuqashile ekuqaleni, bengizobakhipha empilweni yami ngokushesha kunawe bangakukholwa, ngoba manje baqala ubudlelwano obungenzeka ngokuqamba amanga!
Ngikholwa ukuthi umeluleki omkhulu wezithandani noma umqeqeshi kufanele abe lapha ukusekela iklayenti labo, kepha hhayi ukuzenza iklayenti.
Lokhu kubizwa ngokungabi bikho kobuqotho, lokhu kubizwa ngukungabi nesimilo.
Ngiyavuma ngenhliziyo yonke ukuthi izigidi zabantu zingazuza kakhulu ngokuba nomqeqeshi wokuphola noma umeluleki, kepha mina 100% angivumelani nendlela lo muntu, lo mqeqeshi wesifazane wokuphola akwenzayo, ngokukhuthaza amaklayenti akhe ukuthi aqambe amanga, nangokuthi aqambe amanga kuye abangahle babe ngabalingani bakho ngokuthi ungumuntu ongeyena.
Isikhathi sokuvuka
Uma uhlangabezana nalolu hlobo lomuntu, mshiye ngokushesha okukhulu bese uthola umeluleki wezithandani noma umqeqeshi onobuqotho empeleni.
Umsebenzi kaDavid Essel uvunyiwe kakhulu ngabantu abanjengoWayne Dyer ongasekho, kanti nosaziwayo uJenny McCarthy uthi "uDavid Essel ungumholi omusha wenhlangano ecabangayo."
Incwadi yakhe yesi-10, enye ethengwa kakhulu, enesahluko esiphelele nokuthi kusho ukuthini ukuba nesimilo emhlabeni wezothando nezothando, ibizwa nge- “focus! Bulala izinhloso zakho, umhlahlandlela ofakazelwe empumelelweni enkulu, isimo sengqondo esinamandla nothando olujulile.