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- Izinzuzo zomshado ojabulisayo
- 1. Ikhuthaza ukuziphatha okuphephile nendlela yokuphila enempilo
- 2. Ukululama ngokushesha ekuguleni
- 3. Amathuba amancane okuba nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo
- 4. Isikhathi eside sokuphila
- Imibhangqwana eshade isikhathi eside ithembele ngokomzwelo nangokomzimba
- 1. Ukwabelana ngemikhuba efanayo kokuvivinya umzimba nokudla
- 2. Ukudlala indima yomnakekeli
- 3. Ukuthonya umbono womuntu ngempilo
- Ukudla okudlela endlini
Ingabe umshado uyasiza enhlalakahleni yomuntu? Abanye abantu bathi ilungele umuntu. Abanye bathi kuya ngokuthi ushada nobani. Uhlobo lomshado onalo kukusiza ukuthi unqume ukuthi uzogula noma uzoqina, ujabule noma udabuke. Futhi kunezinqwaba zezindaba nezifundo ukusekela lezo zitatimende.
Imishado ejabulisayo inyusa isikhathi sokuphila, kanti imishado ecindezelayo ingakhuphula ubungozi bokuhlaselwa yisifo senhliziyo nokushaywa unhlangothi. Uma ushadile futhi ujabule, lokho kuhle kakhulu. Uma ungashadile futhi ujabulile, lokho kusalungile.
Izinzuzo zomshado ojabulisayo
Izinga lomshado lithinta isimo sempilo. Emshadweni ojabulisayo, abantu baba nempilo enhle futhi baphila isikhathi eside. Nazi ezinye zezinzuzo ezimangazayo zomshado ojabulisayo.
1. Ikhuthaza ukuziphatha okuphephile nendlela yokuphila enempilo
Ukuthambekela kwemibhangqwana eshadile yokwenza into eyingozi kuncane kakhulu ngoba bayazi ukuthi kukhona umuntu oncike kubo. Abantu abashadile abajabulayo badla kahle futhi bagcina izindlela zokuphila ezinempilo.
2. Ukululama ngokushesha ekuguleni
Abantu abashadile abajabulayo bayalulama ngokushesha ngoba banomlingani onothando, abanakekela ngesineke phakathi nesikhathi sabo sokugula
Ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi abantu babuzwa ubuhlungu obuncane ngenkathi bebambe izandla zomlingani wabo. Isithombe noma ukuthintwa kothandekayo kunomphumela wokutholisa umzimba. Kwenza ubuhlungu budlulele ngezinga elifanayo neparacetamol noma izidakamizwa. Kukhombisa nokuthi amanxeba aphola ngokushesha kubantu abanobudlelwano obujabulisayo emshadweni.
3. Amathuba amancane okuba nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo
Imibhangqwana eshadile ejabulayo inezinga eliphansi lokudangala futhi mancane amathuba okuthi ahlaselwe ukugula ngengqondo. Okuthile kuyamangaza ebudlelwaneni bothando bomshado obusiza abantu abashadile ukuthi bahlale endleleni. Ubudlelwano obujabulisayo emshadweni buqeda inkinga yesizungu nokuzihlukanisa nomphakathi.
4. Isikhathi eside sokuphila
Ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi ukuba nempilo yomshado ojabulisayo ngempumelelo kungeza iminyaka embalwa empilweni yomuntu. Ubudlelwano bothando emshadweni buvikela imibhangqwana ekufeni ngaphambi kwesikhathi.
Imibhangqwana eshade isikhathi eside ithembele ngokomzwelo nangokomzimba
Imibhangqwana enesikhathi eside ayibonakali ifana. Bangabuye babe ngokufana kwezinto eziphilayo njengoba beguga. Imibhangqwana iqala ukubukelana ngezimo zomzimba nezingokomzwelo njengoba ikhula. Nazi ezinye zezizathu zokuthi kungani abantu abashade isikhathi eside bencikene, ngokomoya nangokomzimba.
1. Ukwabelana ngemikhuba efanayo kokuvivinya umzimba nokudla
Abashade nabantu abanesifo sikashukela bazoba nengozi enkulu yokuthola isifo sikashukela ngoba babelana ngemikhuba emibi njengokudla okungafanele.
Kodwa-ke, umuntu okhombisa isibonelo esihle ngokuvivinya umzimba njalo angathonya omunye umlingani ukuthi enze okufanayo. Indoda ethanda ukuzivocavoca umzimba izothonya kakhulu umkayo ukuba ahlanganyele nayo. Ukuzivocavoca umzimba, ukudansa nge-ballroom, noma ukwenza ama-runs njalo ndawonye kungakhulisa ubudlelwano obuseduze bombhangqwana.
2. Ukudlala indima yomnakekeli
Impilo yomlingani izothinta impilo yomunye. Isibonelo, umthelela wokunakekela osinde kohlangothi nesifo somuntu ocindezelekile ungathikameza impilo yomzimba nengqondo yomlingani onakekelayo.
3. Ukuthonya umbono womuntu ngempilo
Uma oshade naye enethemba, cishe nawe uzoba nethemba. Ukuba nomlingani onethemba elihle kuzokusiza ukuthi ube nombono omuhle ngempilo.
Ukudla okudlela endlini
Impilo nomshado kuhlobene kakhulu. Imibhangqwana eshadile ejabulayo inokufa okuncane. Umshado unomthelela omkhulu enhlalakahleni ephelele yomuntu kunobunye ubudlelwano ngoba imibhangqwana eshadile ichitha isikhathi ndawonye ezintweni eziningi, njengokuphumula, ukudla, ukuzivocavoca, ukulala nokwenza imisebenzi yasendlini ndawonye.
Imizimba yethu nobuchopho bethu kuthinteka kakhulu ebudlelwaneni bomshado. Ukuwela othandweni kunomthelela ezindaweni zobuchopho futhi kuveza umuzwa wenjabulo. Akunakuphikwa ukuthi ukuba sothandweni kukwenza uzizwe ujabulile futhi unempilo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ichaza ukuthi kungani ukwehlukana kuyingozi.
UBrittany Miller
UBrittany Miller ungumeluleki wemishado. Ushade ngenjabulo futhi unezingane ezimbili. Impilo yakhe yasemshadweni ejabulisayo iyamkhuthaza ukuthi abelane ngemibono yakhe ngomshado, uthando, ubudlelwane kanye nempilo. Uyi-blogger yenkampani ekhokhisa odokotela iHouston.