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- 1. Ungayeki ukwenza izinto ezincane
- 2. Prakthiza ezothando
- 3. Yiya ku-honeymoon yesibili
- 4. Hlela usuku lwasebusuku olujwayelekile
- 5. Khipha kubuchwepheshe
- 6. Vuselela izifungo zakho
- 7. Gubha ukunqoba kwakho
Ubudlelwano phakathi kwabantu abashadile bungesinye sezibopho ezibaluleke kakhulu noma yimuphi umuntu angaba nabo, ngakho-ke akumangazi ukuthi imibhangqwana ihlale ifuna izindlela zokuqinisekisa impumelelo yomshado wayo.
Umshado awunqunyelwe ukuba ube yisidina futhi ube yisicefe, njengoba eminye imibhangqwana ingasikisela, kepha lokho akusho ukuthi abalingani abazinikeleyo akudingeki ukuthi bahlele ukugcinwa kobudlelwano njalo. Uthando emshadweni luyimfanelo yokuqala edingekayo empumelelweni. Inqobo nje uma lukhona uthando empilweni yomshado, umbhangqwana uyohlala unamandla okubhekana nanoma yiziphi izinselelo impilo ezifaka endleleni yazo.
Nazi izindlela ezi-7 ongagcina ngazo uthando lobudlelwano obunamandla, obunempilo
1. Ungayeki ukwenza izinto ezincane
Uma kukhulunywa ngothando empilweni yomshado, ungayeki ukwenza izinto ezincane. Ukubambana ngesandla lapho nihamba ndawonye emgwaqweni, ukusiza oshade naye ngemisebenzi yasendlini noma ukugcwalisa imoto uma wazi ukuthi umlingani wakho kufanele ashayele kwenye indawo zonke izindlela ezinhle nezinhle zokubonisa oshade naye ukuthi ucabanga ngabo .
Imikhuba futhi ingesinye sezenzo zomusa, ezilula ongazenza emshadweni wakho okuthola imiphumela emikhulu. Yithi ngiyabonga lapho umlingani wakho ekulethela ingilazi yewayini noma enza ikhofi yakho ekuseni bese uthi ngiyacela lapho ucela okuthile. Lezi zenzo ezincane zokubonga zizokwenza umlingani wakho azizwe emuhle ngaye.
2. Prakthiza ezothando
Enye indlela yokugcina uthando emshadweni ukuzijwayeza ukuthandana ndawonye.
Ukuzijabulisa ndawonye ukudlala imidlalo nokubuka ama-movie kuhlale kuyindlela enhle yokusebenzisa ubusuku, kepha kubalulekile ukuhlela nobusuku bezothando. Yenza uthando, hlambanani ndawonye, hlalani ngasendaweni yomlilo ebhongayo newayini nixoxe.
Ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi kunokuxhumana okuqinile phakathi kothando lwezithandani nokubukana emehlweni, ngakho-ke kungani ningaqali ukuthandana emshadweni wenu ukuchitha isikhathi nibukana emehlweni omunye nomunye.
3. Yiya ku-honeymoon yesibili
I-honeymoon akuyona into ovunyelwe ukuyenza kuphela ngemuva kokushada. Kulabo abacabanga: Ingabe i-honeymoon yesibili akuyona nje ukuya eholidini ndawonye? Impendulo ithi cha. Ungakhumbula i-honeymoon yakho ngokuya endaweni efanayo noma ungahlela indawo entsha. Kepha, iphuzu le-honeymoon yesibili akuyona nje ukuhamba ndawonye. Kuhlelwa uhambo, hhayi ngezigqoko zokubuka indawo nezigqoko zabavakashi, kepha ngothando nangesikhathi sekhwalithi engqondweni.
I-honeymoon yesibili yithuba elihle kakhulu lokuveza uthando lwenu komunye nomunye, ukukhululeka ezimpilweni zenu zansuku zonke, ukuya ocansini nsuku zonke, nokukhumbula ngomshado wakho nokuthi nikhule kangakanani ndawonye kusukela ngeholide lakho lokuqala lomshado.
4. Hlela usuku lwasebusuku olujwayelekile
Ukuthi amashejuli akho angavumela okukodwa, okubili, noma kane ngenyanga, ukuhlela ubusuku obujwayelekile bosuku kungenza izimangaliso zokugcina uthando empilweni yomshado. Ubusuku bosuku luyithuba elihle lokuthi wena noshade naye nihlele okuthile okumnandi nothando eningakwenza ndawonye. Ningashintshana ngokuhlela kusihlwa, noma ngabe niyakujabulela ukuzisonga ekhaya futhi nichitha kusihlwa nixoxa futhi nigonene noma niyodla isidlo sasebusuku sothando noma ukuya emcimbini wokuzijabulisa. Umhlaba uyimbaza yakho!
Ingxenye ebaluleke kakhulu yosuku lwasebusuku ukuthi nisebenzisa isikhathi sekhwalithi ndawonye nixoxa, nabelana, nihleka futhi nijabulelana. Usuku lwasebusuku futhi luyithuba elihle lokuxhuma kabusha ezingeni elisondelene, ukubambana ngezandla, ukuhamba ngengalo, ukuqabulana, futhi-ke, ukungenisa izinto ekamelweni.
5. Khipha kubuchwepheshe
Enye indlela yokugcina uthando empilweni yomshado ukukhipha ubuchwepheshe kubuchwepheshe. Ucwaningo oluthile lwathola ukuthi ngisho nokuba khona nje kukamakhalekhukhwini kungaphazamisa ingqondo futhi kube nomthelela omubi ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ukuba nomakhalekhukhwini wakho egumbini elilodwa ngenkathi uzama ukukhuluma noshade naye kungalimaza isikhathi sakho uwedwa.
Kunezizathu eziningi zokukhipha isikhashana kubuchwepheshe, njengezifundo eziphakamisa ukuthi imishini ekhipha ukukhanya ingathinta izinga lakho lokulala, inyuse ubungozi bezinkinga zempilo yengqondo, futhi ivimbele ukwakheka kwenkumbulo yesikhashana. Esikhundleni sokukhathazeka ngokweqile ngokuthandwa yi-Insta, ukuxoxa nabangane abayi-10 ngasikhathi sinye, nokuhlola ama-imeyili ngenkathi ukunye nozakwenu, zama ukukhipha ipulagi kusihlwa (noma okungenani imizuzu engama-30 uma ungeke ukwazi ukuma nokuhlukaniswa nedivayisi yakho !)
6. Vuselela izifungo zakho
Ukuvuselela izifungo zakho kuyindlela enhle yokubungaza umshado wakho futhi utshele umhlaba (noma nje omunye nomunye) ukuthi uzokwenza konke futhi. Kunezinketho eziningi ezahlukahlukene zokuvuselelwa kwesithembiso. Ungazivuselela izifungo zakho futhi ubambe ukwamukela okukhulu abangane bakho nomndeni wakho. Lokhu kuyisinqumo esihle ngoba ngeke ube nengcindezi efanayo owaba nayo okokuqala ngqa. Uzokwazi ukuzithokozisa kakhulu ngoba manje wazi kahle ukuthi yini ongayilindela futhi useduze nabangane nemindeni yomunye nomunye.
Ungakhetha futhi ukuvuselelwa kwesithembiso somuntu siqu, okuyimfihlo. Yenza okuthile okukhethekile njengokushintshana ngezifungo kuhambo olwandle, kubhaluni lomoya oshisayo, noma ekushoneni kwelanga ogwini ndawonye. Sebenzisa izikhumbuzo ezikhethekile njengethuba lokuvuselela uthando lwenu komunye nomunye. Isikhathi sokuqala bekuwusuku lomlingo, kepha okwesibili ukuzungeza kungahle kujabulise wena nomlingani wakho.
7. Gubha ukunqoba kwakho
Uma ufuna ukufunda ukujabulela impilo yasemshadweni, qala ukugubha okuningi! Imibhangqwana ejabulayo iyathanda ukugubha ndawonye, noma ngabe yisikhumbuzo sayo seminyaka sakamuva, inqubekela phambili yomsebenzi noma ingane yabo esanda kuba nendima emdlalweni wesikole. Ngokubungaza ndawonye, ukhombisa ukubonga nokuziqhenya ngoshade naye, okubenza bazizwe bekhethekile futhi bemukeleka. Ukugubha ndawonye njengezithandani noma njengomndeni nakho kukhulisa isimilo futhi kudale umoya omuhle weqembu.
Akukho okufana nokuba nenala yothando empilweni yomshado. Gcina umlilo wasekhaya uvutha ngokwenza ukucabanga, ukubonisa ukwazisa, ukuchitha isikhathi sodwa wedwa noshade naye, nokusondelana ndawonye. Ngokwenza lezi zinto, uzogcina uthando luvutha ebuhlotsheni bakho.