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- Izenzo zomzimba ezincane ezinhlanu kodwa ezinamandla
- 1. Naka ngokwehlukana
- 2. Bheka izingane
- 3. Yeka ukubelesela
- 4. Yeka ukucasula
- 5. Zama Umphumela kaBenjamin Franklin
Ekuqaleni kobudlelwano bokuphola, lapho ubhekene ngokuphelele nomuntu othandana naye, uchitha isikhathi esanele, imali namandla okubajabulisa.
Ucabanga ngezindlela ongabajabulisa ngazo. Ubathengela izinto, uzitike ngezenzo ezahlukahlukene zothando, bese uhlela usuku oluvusa amadlingozi!
Kepha-ke, lapho usendleleni, ngemuva kokushada unyaka, iminyaka emithathu, noma amashumi amahlanu eminyaka, ungathola ukuthi ezinye zalezo zinhlansi ziyavela.
Lapho inhlansi icishiwe, imishado ingena endaweni eyingozi noma engenampilo.
Wena noshade naye niyeke ukucabanga ngokuthi ningajabulisa kanjani omunye nomunye futhi nisebenzise yonke imali eninayo, nicabanga ukuthi ningazanelisa kanjani.
Lobu bugovu abuveli njalo ngezindlela ezikhanyayo noma ezilimazayo, kepha ngokungenangqondo kubeka ithoni ebudlelwaneni. Futhi kuvimbela nomshado wakho ekubeni ojabulayo, onempilo, futhi ophilayo njengoba kufanele.
Kepha nazi izindaba ezimnandi. Ungaphuma kulo mjikelezo ngokushesha okukhulu njengoba ungene kuwo. Konke okudingekayo yimicabango embalwa enengqondo nokuthinta kothando okulula.
Izenzo zomzimba ezincane ezinhlanu kodwa ezinamandla
Abantu bavame ukucabanga ukuthi kuthatha isikhathi esiningi nomzamo ukuguqula umshado.
Ungaba kanjani nomshado ojabulisayo?
Noma ngabe ubheke ukusuka enhlekeleleni uye kokuhle noma okuhle uye kokukhulu, kungathatha ukuthinta okuncane kothando.
Ake sihlole ukushukuma okuncane ongakukhombisa oshade naye ukuze nibe nomshado ojabulisayo.
Isexwayiso: Ezinye zazo zincane kakhulu futhi ziyisiwula kangangokuthi uzozibuza ukuthi kungenzeka yini zisebenze. Sikholelwe, bayakwenza!
Amandla alele ekulula. Lezi zenzo zothando zilula kakhulu kangangokuba awunaso isizathu sokuzigwema.
1. Naka ngokwehlukana
Uxhumana kangaki noshade naye ngenkathi wondla izingane idina, uthumela i-imeyili, uthayipha umbhalo, noma ubuka i-TV?
Uma sithembekile kithi uqobo, izimpilo zethu ezimatasa zivame ukudala ukuthi singabanaki oshade nabo - noma sibanikeze kuphela ingxenye yenhlonipho ebafanele.
Ufuna ukuvuselela umshado wakho? Beka konke okwenzayo lapho oshade naye ekhuluma nawe, futhi ubanikeze ukunaka okuhlukanisiwe.
Lalela, zibandakanye, bese ubuyela emsebenzini. Oshade naye ngokuqinisekile uzobona uthando lwakho, futhi azazise.
2. Bheka izingane
Ungakhombisa oshade naye ukuthi ubakhathalele ngokubheka izingane.
Buka izingane ukuze oshade naye akwazi ukugeza, enze umsebenzi othile, aphume nabangani, azivocavoce, ajabulele ingilazi yewayini, afunde incwadi, njll. Bheka nje izingane!
Ngenye yezenzo ezinhle kakhulu zothando ongazikhombisa ukutotosa oshade naye.
3. Yeka ukubelesela
Akekho umuntu othanda ukuzonda. Futhi uma uhlala ubanga nowakwakho, kuzowubulala umshado. Izothatha indawo yomunyu, ukuntuleka kobuhlobo obusondelene naye, ukukhungatheka nokuzwela.
Awuqinisekile ukuthi ugaxa kanjani noma nini?
Cela oshade naye ukuthi akwazise ngezindawo lapho ucasula khona kakhulu.
Ukubuza nje lo mbuzo kukhombisa ukuthi uyakhathala. Ibuye ikunikeze ukuzazi okudingekayo ukuze ume.
4. Yeka ukucasula
Cabanga ngazo zonke lezo zinto ozenzayo ezenza umlingani wakho acasuke. Bese uyeke ukuzenza. Yebo, kulula kanjalo. Nazi izibonelo ezimbalwa:
Isibonelo, emishadweni eminingi, imikhuba yendoda yokushefa iyamkhungathekisa umfazi. Indoda ishiya usinki ingcolile, nenkosikazi iyakhungatheka ngesidingo sokuzihlanza njalo.
Isixazululo esilula: Funda ukuthi ungagunda kanjani ngaphandle kokuvala idreyini bese ushiya izintshe ezilahlekile ophepheni.
Esinye isibonelo imishado eminingi, ukusetshenziswa kabi komlingani oyedwa kuyamcasula omunye.
Ukwenza isabelomali nokwaba imali esetshenzisiwe kumlingani ngamunye kunganciphisa leli phuzu lokuxabana.
Lezi yizibonelo ezimbili nje ezingahleliwe. Kunamakhulu!
Yenza uhlu lwezindlela ezinhlanu eziphezulu wena nomlingani wakho enicasulana ngazo futhi nibhekane nazo ngempumelelo.
Futhi, bukela le vidiyo ukugwema amaphutha obuhlobo obujwayelekile.
5. Zama Umphumela kaBenjamin Franklin
Umphumela kaBenjamin Franklin wukukhetha okukhuthaza abantu ukuthi bathande omunye umuntu ngemuva kokwenza umusa kulowo muntu.
Ngakho-ke, uma uzizwa ubaba kowakwakho, ikhambi elihle kakhulu ukubenzela okuthile okuhle. Ukushukuma kothando kungabandakanya ukwethula umshini wokuwasha izitsha, ukupheka isidlo sakusihlwa, noma ukulala izingane.
Ngemuva kokwenza kanjalo, uzozizwa unethemba. Futhi, oshade naye uzobonga ngesenzo somusa.
Nikela empilweni yomshado wakho
Akuthathi okuningi ukuthuthukisa umshado wakho. Isenzo esisodwa sothando esilula kungaba yisikhuthazi esidingekayo ukuqhubekisela phambili ubudlelwano bakho nokuvuselela inhlansi.
Sethemba ukuthi le ndatshana ikunikeze imibono embalwa ngokuthinta kothando okulula kepha okusebenzayo.
Ngakho-ke, uma umshado wakho ushaye into embi, sebenzisa lezi zenzo ezincane zokuguqula ubuhlobo bakho.