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Uma ukungabikho kwenza inhliziyo ikhule ithanda, khona-ke lezi zingcaphuno nezisho ngokuhlukana kufanele zikudonse ezinhliziyweni zakho. Ubuhlungu bokwehlukana kukwenza ubone ukujula kothando lwakho, usongo lokwehlukana lungakwenza uqale ukwazisa ubuhlobo bakho, ngisho nangaphezulu.
Izingcaphuno zemishado yokwehlukanisa umshado kuhle ukuzisebenzisa embhalweni ngesikhathi sohambo lwebhizinisi, ekhadini le-Valentine's Day, noma ngisho nakunothi elithi “Post It” esikhwameni.
Nazi izingcaphuno eziyi-9 esizithandayo zokuhlukanisa:
1. Izisho zothando ezithandwayo nezingcaphuno ziphakamisa umqondo wokuthi uma usuthandane nomuntu isikhathi eside, ingxenye yakho ihlala naye isikhathi eside ungasekho.
2. Izisho zothando ngothando zisabalalisa umcabango wokuthi ukuze uqonde ngokweqiniso amandla wothando lweqiniso, udinga ukuhlukaniswa nomunye wakho obalulekile, noma ngabe kukanye nje.
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3. Ukwesaba ukulahlekelwa othandekayo kungakusiza wenze imizamo eqotho yokwakha ubuhlobo bakho. Lesi ngesinye sezisho ezihlakaniphile ngothando esizokwenza uzizwe ngamandla othando.
4. Izilinganiso ngokuhlukana zingakunika ukuthula nokunethezeka okuningi uma uhlangabezana nokuchitheka okubi noma ukwehlukana emshadweni.
5. Esinye sezisho zothando esijule lapha sizothinta labo abakholelwa ukuthi ibanga lenza inhliziyo ikhule ithanda. Izisho ezinjalo eziyiqiniso ngothando ziletha ukufana kwethemba ezimpilweni zalabo abalambele othandekayo.
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6. Esinye sezisho zothando ezihamba phambili sinanela umqondo wokujulisa uthando ngokunambitha ubuhlungu obumnandi bokuhlukana, kanye.
7. Izisho zothando nezingcaphuno kulo lonke ibanga noma ukuhlukaniswa kwesikhashana phakathi kwezithandani njengamandla abuyisa uthando emuva empilweni yothando lwazo futhi kubusa ilangabi lothando.
8. Amazwi amahle ngothando ayohlala ekunikeza ukuthi ubuke impilo unethemba. Ukuphela kobudlelwano akuphawuli ukuphela kothando. Kusho isiqalo esisha.
9. Amazwi othando ajulile afana nalawa azozwelana nabathandi abanothando, abakholelwa ukuthi uthando lwabo luzoqhubeka, lwenzalo ezayo.
