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- Lithini iBhayibheli ngokugula ngengqondo emshadweni?
- Gwema ukusebenzisa amalebula
- Zama ukwamukela isimo soshade naye
Ukugula kwengqondo kusabalele futhi kuthinta abantu esibaziyo, esibathandayo nesibheka kubo.
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Yini-ke edale ukuthi enze lokhu?
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Osaziwayo esibheke kubo, futhi abantu abasizungezile bake babhekana nokugula kwengqondo.
Ake sibheke inkolo ngomzamo wokuqonda ukuthi lithini iBhayibheli ngokubhekana nokugula kwengqondo emshadweni.
Lithini iBhayibheli ngokugula ngengqondo emshadweni?
Yini obungayenza uma uthola ukuthi owakwakho unesifo sengqondo? Ungesaba ukuthi ukugula kungadala isiphithiphithi nodlame ebudlelwaneni bakho? Into engcono kakhulu ongayenza kulesi simo ukusiza umlingani wakho futhi uzame ukuqonda izinkinga abhekene nazo. Ukushada nomuntu onesifo sengqondo kungasho ukuthi unemithwalo yemfanelo eminingi emahlombe akho. Ukulwa nezinkinga zengqondo nezomshado ndawonye akuyona into elula kepha iBhayibheli linolwazi oluthile olukukhanyiselayo. Funda lokho okushiwo yiBhayibheli ngokushada nomuntu onesifo sengqondo.
IBhayibheli likhuluma ngezinkinga zomshado nezempilo yengqondo ngokuthi:
Ngokuhlakanipha
“Ningakhathazeki ngalutho, kodwa kukho konke izicelo zenu mazaziwe nguNkulunkulu ngomthandazo nangokunxusa kanye nokubonga. Ukuthula kukaNkulunkulu okudlula ukuqonda konke kuyakulondoloza izinhliziyo zenu nemicabango yenu kuKristu Jesu. ” (KwabaseFilipi 4: 6-7)
Lithini iBhayibheli ngokushada nomuntu onenkinga yempilo yengqondo?
Ithi asikho isidingo sokukhathazeka noma sokukhathazeka. Uma uthandaza futhi umphatha kahle umlingani wakho, uNkulunkulu uzolalela imithandazo yakho futhi azokuvikela kunoma yibuphi ubunzima nezinhlekelele.
Khuthaza umlingani wakho ukuthi athole ukwelashwa okudingekayo kwezempilo nokwengqondo. Ukwesekwa nokubekezela kwakho nomlingani wakho kubalulekile.
IHubo 34: 7-20
“Lapho abalungileyo bekhalela usizo, iNkosi iyabezwa, ibophule kuzo zonke izinkathazo zabo. INkosi iseduze nabaphukile enhliziyweni futhi iyabasindisa abanomoya ochobozekile. Ziningi izinhlupheko zolungileyo, kepha uJehova uyamkhulula kuzo zonke. Ugcina wonke amathambo akhe; akukho nelilodwa lawo elephuliwe. ”
Njengoba kushiwo emavesini angenhla, uNkulunkulu akabakhathaleli abantu abanezifo zengqondo. IBhayibheli likhuluma ngezinselele ngempilo engokomzwelo. Kunezindlela zokuphatha ubunzima bokugula ngengqondo ngisho nokuchuma.
Uthini uNkulunkulu ngabantu abagula ngengqondo? Uhlala enabo ngaso sonke isikhathi, enikeza amandla nokuqondisa
Noma isonto lanamuhla likhetha ukungalusukumeli lolu daba kaningi akusho ukuthi iBhayibheli alikhulumi ngalo. Uma usemshadweni nomuntu onenkinga yokugula ngengqondo, kunezinto ongazenza ukumsiza ezikhathini ezinzima.
Ukugula ngengqondo kungaba nzima ukuphatha kepha wena noshade naye ningasebenza ndawonye, nibe umgogodla womunye nomunye ngezikhathi ezinzima, futhi nigcine ubudlelwano obunempilo nobenenjabulo.
Ithiphu ekuphatheni owakwakho onesifo sengqondo
Gwema ukusebenzisa amalebula
Ukubiza umkakho noma umyeni wakho ngokuthi "isiguli sengqondo esidangele" akusizi ngalutho futhi empeleni kuyalimaza.
Esikhundleni salokho, kufanele uchaze izimpawu, ufunde kabanzi mayelana nokuxilongwa okungenzeka bese uqala uhlelo lokwelashwa khona manjalo. Ungamjezisi umlingani wakho ngokuba nezinkinga zempilo yengqondo. Ukugula kwengqondo komlingani wakho akuyona into abayikhethile, kepha kuyinto engalawulwa futhi yelashwe.
Zama ukwamukela isimo soshade naye
Ozakwethu abaningi bayehluleka ukufunda kabanzi ngemizabalazo yabanye babo ebalulekile ngempilo yengqondo.
Ukukhetha ukuhlala ekuphikeni bese wenza sengathi ayikho akulungile. Ngokwenza lokhu, uvala umlingani wakho ngaphandle ngesikhathi lapho abakudinga khona kakhulu. Esikhundleni salokho hlala phansi nonkosikazi / umyeni wakho ubacele ukuthi bakhulume ngokukhululeka ngemizwa yabo.
Zifundise ngokugula kwabo futhi ufunde ukuthi ungakhuluma kanjani nabo ukuze ubenze bazizwe besekelwa.
Buza oshade naye ukuthi bangathanda yini ukuthola ukuhlolwa. Ukuhlolwa nokuxilongwa kungasiza umlingani wakho ukuthi athole izindlela zokwelashwa ezifanele. Khuthaza umlingani wakho ukuthi avakashele udokotela futhi mhlawumbe afune ukwelulekwa.
Cabanga ukubeka imingcele ethile; ukuba semshadweni kusho ukuthwala ubuthakathaka nobunzima bomlingani wakho, kepha akusho ukuthi uyabunikeza lobu buthakathaka. Ukugula ngengqondo kuyinto enzima ukudlula kuyo kodwa kuyelapheka.
Lithini ibhayibheli ngempilo yengqondo?
Lapho unakekela umlingani wakho ngesikhathi sabo sokudinga, kubalulekile ukuthi uhlale uxhumene noNkulunkulu. IBhayibheli liyakhuluma ngokugula kwengqondo; mhlawumbe hhayi ekujuleni esifisa ukuthi kwenzeke, kepha imininingwane emihle ikhona lapho, noma kunjalo. Uma usuphelelwe yithemba, khumbula leli vesi “Niphonsa zonke izinkathazo zenu kuye, ngoba uyanikhathalela.” (1 Petru 5: 7)