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- Iyini injongo yangempela yomsebenzi wesikole?
- Uma kukhulunywa ngokuzivocavoca ngokocansi
- Qiniseka ukuthi umelaphi wakho wezocansi uvumelekile
- Hlobo luni lomsebenzi wesikole okufanele ululindele?
- Isabelo sokuqala somsebenzi wesikole sithi
- Inhloso yokwelashwa ngokocansi ukuzivocavoca
Amavidiyo ezithombe zocansi empeleni lapho abantu abaningi bethola khona umbono wokuqala wokuthi buyini ubuhlobo bobulili. Ngeshwa labo, okuvezwa ku-porno yakho ejwayelekile akunangqondo maqondana nezocansi.
Lokho okuzokwenziwa yilo mbhalo ukuninika umbono omuhle wokuzivocavoca ngomsebenzi wesikole owenzelwe imibhangqwana ukuthi yenze ukwenza impilo yenu yezocansi yanelise nina nobabili. Futhi njengalapho ubuyela esikoleni sabaqalayo, kuzofanele wenze umsebenzi wesikole ngaphambi kokuba udlale!
Iyini injongo yangempela yomsebenzi wesikole?
Uma ubuza iningi labafundi, bazoklolodela futhi basho okuthile ngomsebenzi wesikole wokuba nje "ngumsebenzi omatasa." Buza uthisha futhi bazosho okuthile ngomsindo othi “Umsebenzi wesikole uqinisa amaphuzu abalulekile kulokho okwenziwe ekilasini. Uma kucatshangelwe kahle, ngeke kugcizelele nje lokho obekufundiswa ekilasini, kuzocela abafundi ukuthi bachaze noma yiziphi iziphetho futhi babikezele ukuthi yini okungenzeka ukuthi izolandela. ”
Buza umsubathi ngomsebenzi wesikole, uzothola impendulo echaza okuthile okufana nokuthi “Lapho uzijwayeza ngokwengeziwe, uzothola kangcono. Inkumbulo yemisipha ibalulekile futhi ukuphindaphinda kuzodala lokho. ” Ngakho-ke imithombo emithathu ehlukene, imibono emithathu ehlukene ngenhloso yomsebenzi wesikole.
Uma kukhulunywa ngokuzivocavoca ngokocansi
Uma ufuna ukwazi ukuthi ungaba kanjani nempilo engcono yocansi noma ungayenza kanjani impilo yakho yezocansi ibe ngcono, udinga izivivinyo zokwelashwa ngokocansi.
Lolu hlobo lomsebenzi wesikole womshado akumele nakanjani lubhekwe njengomsebenzi omatasa ngaphandle kokuthi uma kukhona umlingani oyedwa futhi engenantshisekelo yokuthuthukisa impilo yakhe yezocansi. Lowo obambe iqhaza umosha isikhathi sawo wonke umuntu. Manje uma siqhubekela kulokho uthisha akuchaze njengokuzivocavoca ngomsebenzi wesikole, kunengqondo enkulu.
Ozokufunda ekwelashweni ngokocansi kumane nje kuyisiqalo, futhi ngokuzibandakanya “ekuzivocavoca ucansi” uzofunda hhayi kuphela izisekelo zalokho okubandakanya ucansi oluhle kumlingani ngamunye, uzofunda futhi ukunweba izinkalo zakho bese uzama izinto ongahle ube nazo angikaze ngicabange ngaphambili.
Lapho uzama ngokwengeziwe lokho okufundisiwe ekuzivocavoca ngomsebenzi wesikole, kulapho uzoba nekhono ngokwengeziwe.
Ubulili obuhle abenzeki kanye. Kukhona lelo cliche elidala: ukuzijwayeza kwenza kuphelele. Vele, awufuni ukwenza imikhuba yokwelashwa ngokocansi kuze kube seqophelweni lokukhathala ... kodwa futhi, mhlawumbe ngeke ukwazi ukuyeka uze ukhathele!
Qiniseka ukuthi umelaphi wakho wezocansi uvumelekile
Ngaphambi kokucabanga ukuzivocavoca ngomsebenzi wasekhaya wezokwelapha ovela kuchwepheshe wezocansi, okokuqala, yenza ucwaningo lwakho bese uqinisekisa ukuthi lo muntu unesizinda esifanele semfundo kanye neziqinisekiso. Ungacabangi ukuthi ngoba banenqwaba yama-initials ngemuva kwegama ekhadini labo lebhizinisi, ukuthi lokhu kunenjongo noma kungokoqobo. Yenza ucwaningo lwakho lweGoogle bese ubuza ngokuhlolisisa konke okufundayo. AmaCharlatans ayidlanzana uma kukhulunywa ngabelaphi bezocansi.
Buza ukuthi bakuthathaphi ukuqeqeshwa kwabo, nokuthi ngabe bakunoma yiziphi izinhlangano noma izinhlangano eziqeqeshiwe.
Kungemva kokuba usuthole ukuba semthethweni kwalomelaphi ochwepheshe lapho kufanele uqokwe okokuqala.
Hlobo luni lomsebenzi wesikole okufanele ululindele?
Okokuqala, uma umelaphi wakho wezocansi engakuniki izivivinyo zokwelapha zocansi (kungenzeka bangazibizi ngomsebenzi wesikole ngasese, kodwa "zilandelele" noma "izenzo okufanele uzenze ngaphambi kokuqokwa okulandelayo"), bese uthola omunye umelaphi.
Ukwelashwa ngokocansi, njengayo yonke indlela yokwelapha, akuyona into yokudubula kanye. Awuzitholi ngokungazelelwe izimpendulo zakho konke okukuhlomisayo nge-aphoyintimenti eyodwa bese ushiya njenge-superstar entsha yezocansi. Kufanele usebenze ezenzweni umeluleki wakho azeluleka ngazo ngesikhathi sokuqokwa kwakho.
Isabelo sokuqala somsebenzi wesikole sithi
Ukuxhumana. Ukuxhumana kuyisithiyo sokuqala phakathi kwabalingani. Ukuvuleka nokwethembeka kungaba nzima kakhulu koyedwa noma kubo bobabili abalingani, futhi umelaphi wezocansi uzokunika imibuzo ethile ukuvula iziteshi zokuxhumana njengomsebenzi wesikole. Le mibuzo ingahle ifane (noma ifane ne) nale:
- Uzizwa nini ucansi kakhulu?
- Uzizwa nini ungathandeki?
- Yini engiyenzayo embhedeni oyithandayo ngempela?
- Ngenzenjani embhedeni okucimayo?
- Ukube bekunento eyodwa ongathanda ukuthi ngiyenze lapho senza uthando esingakaze sikwenze, kungaba yini?
Inhloso yokwelashwa ngokocansi ukuzivocavoca
Ukuholela ekuxhumaneni okungcono ikakhulukazi ekamelweni nasekwakheni ukuxhumana okungokomzwelo, ngaleyo ndlela kuqinise ubudlelwano. Umhlangano olandelayo nomelaphi wezocansi ungabandakanya ukuqhubeka nokungena ekuxhumaneni kwakho nabantu, futhi kungabandakanya imibuzo yomsebenzi wasekhaya onjengale:
- Ngenzeni ukuze uzizwe uthandwa kuleli sonto? Yini engingayenza kangcono kulokhu?
- Singakwenza kanjani ukusondelana kube yinto eza kuqala?
- Ngitshele okudingayo embhedeni ukuze uzizwe ujabule.
Manje usuzibonile izinhlobo zemibuzo ezisetshenziselwa ukwelashwa ngokocansi izivivinyo zomsebenzi wasekhaya ezinikezwe abelaphi bezocansi ngempilo engcono yobulili. Thatha isikhathi kule mpelasonto noma ngobusuku bosuku futhi uxoxe ngemibuzo embalwa nomunye wakho obalulekile. Ukuqeda ngempela kusihlwa (noma ntambama noma ekuseni), buza umlingani wakho ukuthi yini angathanda ukuyithola ngesikweletu esengeziwe. Ungahle uthande ukungeza ukuthi isipelingi sizoklanywa ngempela futhi akukho ukwabiwa sekwephuzile okwamukelwe.