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- 1. Jabulela ama-quirks ngaphambi kokuba adinwe amahlaya akho
- 2. Ungabanjwa phakathi namaphupho
- 3. Vuka ulwe ubusuku bonke
- 4.Yisho amagama asagolide - Asiphume
- 5. Ungaqedi amaphrojekthi akho
- 6. Indoda evuma lapho iqinisile, oh! ushadile
- 7. Qamba amanga mayelana nesikhathi, kwesinye isikhathi
- 8. Funda phakathi kwemigqa
Lapho umuntu ezwa iseluleko segama, uvame ukuthola konke okuxinekile nokungathi sína. Kepha zonke izinto empilweni zinezinhliziyo ezilula nezihlekisayo kubo. Izeluleko ezihlekisayo empeleni zinamathuba amaningi okuthi uchofoze futhi ushiye isigxina esihlala isikhathi eside engqondweni yomuntu olalele kunamagama awomile, athandekayo. Okufanayo kuya ngezeluleko zomshado.
Izeluleko zomshado zenzelwe ukuba zimbi ngoba kuyindaba yokusebenzisa imali nokwakha impilo yakho yonke nothile futhi yingakho kufanele kuthathwe ngokungathi sína, kepha njengezinto zonke empilweni, kunecala elimnyama nelinamahlaya emshadweni.
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1. Jabulela ama-quirks ngaphambi kokuba adinwe amahlaya akho
Ngokusobala, izifungo zomshado wakho zikhombisile iqiniso lokuthi ubuzimisele ukuba lapho ekuguleni nasempilweni nezikhathi ezinhle kakhulu nezikhathi ezisabekayo nazo zonke lezo zethembiso enazenza komunye nomunye ukuze nikwazi ukufinyelela engxenyeni ethi “Ungamanga umakoti” ngokushesha. Kuhle ukuba nomuntu ohlekisana naye futhi ugone futhi ubambelele kukho.
Kepha ukwenza konke lokhu kunzima kakhulu kunendlela okubukeka ngayo, futhi njengendoda (umkhwenyana), kufanele wazi ukuthi yini emenza amomotheka nokuthi yini eletha lokho kubukeka ebusweni bakho lapho wazi khona ukuthi yinyama yakho etafuleni eze isidlo sakusihlwa. Isigaba esisanda kushada singesinye sezigaba ezihamba phambili emshadweni. Jabulela ngenkathi ama-quirks ahlala futhi ngenkathi engenaso isikhathi sokukhathala ngamahlaya akho angenangqondo.
2. Ungabanjwa phakathi namaphupho
Nizoba nezimpi. Uzothukutheliswa izingubo zakho ezilele phansi futhi lapho uzenza sengathi uyakunaka lokhu akushoyo ngengxabano ayenayo nomngane wakhe.
Ungabanjwa phakathi kwephupho. Futhi uma wenza kanjalo, iseluleko sami somshado esihlekisayo somkhwenyana sithi: Ungalokothi ulale ngenkathi nithukuthelane. Okungcono, hlala ulwe ubusuku bonke (kwezinye izimo. Akuzona zonke izimpi ezinganqotshwa ngokubuka konke).
3. Vuka ulwe ubusuku bonke
Lokhu kungazwakala kungenangqondo impela kepha empeleni kuyiseluleko esihle kakhulu uma ubheka kanjalo. Izingxabano eziningi phakathi kwabalingani zimayelana nokuncipha okwenziwe ihaba futhi kwahunyushwa kabi. Ukulwa ubusuku bonke kuzokwenza uzizwe ukhathele futhi ngethemba lokuthi uzonquma ukuyeka ukulwa.
4.Yisho amagama asagolide - Asiphume
Ukhohlwe ukwenza isidlo sakusihlwa njengoba uthembisile? Hhayi into enkulu.
Mkhipheni niye kudina, nibe nobusuku bosuku. Ukuthi kuye, “Masiphume,” bekungaletha ukumamatheka ebusweni bakhe. Usuku lwasebusuku akuyona into yabantu abangashadile kuphela.
Imibhangqwana eshadile esathandana futhi eyenza izinto ezincane ezifana nalezi ihlala ndawonye isikhathi eside.
5. Ungaqedi amaphrojekthi akho
Uzizwa uvila futhi awufuni ukuqeda iphrojekthi, ibhingo!
Thola uhhafu wakho ongcono wokukwenza nawe. Uzozizwa efakiwe futhi uzoyeka ukukhononda ngokungasebenzisi isikhathi esanele naye. Kuyinto win-win ngawe!
Akufanele wenze unkosikazi wakho enze amaphrojekthi akho futhi asebenze, kepha into okufanele ususe kulokhu ukwenza izinkumbulo ngengxenye yakho engcono.
6. Indoda evuma lapho iqinisile, oh! ushadile
Njengomkhwenyana, uma ufuna ukuhlala ujabule futhi wanelisekile, ugwema izimpikiswano, faka amagama akho, "Ngiyakuqonda" nokuthi "Uqinisile." Le misho emibili izokulethela izindawo nowesifazane wakho, ngikholwe. Esinye iseluleko somshado esihlekisayo somkhwenyana kungaba ukuqala kuqala ukubeka imithetho eyisisekelo nokwakha umphathi kabani. Bese wenza konke okushiwo ngumkakho.
Umshado ojabulisayo ungachazwa njengendaba yokupha nokuthatha. Indoda iyapha, nenkosikazi iyathatha. Ngakho-ke ungakukhohlwa lokhu!
Noma nini lapho wenza iphutha, yiba yindoda futhi ukwazise. Noma nini lapho uqinisile, ungasho lutho. Njengoba besho, indoda enikezela lapho yonile iyindoda ehlakaniphile. Indoda evuma lapho iqinisile, hawu ishadile!
7. Qamba amanga mayelana nesikhathi, kwesinye isikhathi
Ungalokothi uqambe amanga nganoma yini engxenyeni yakho engcono, kepha hlala uqamba amanga mayelana nesikhathi. Kungcono ukuba nemizuzu engu-45 ukuya ewindini lokuphepha uma nobabili niphuma ndawonye. Lokhu kuzokugwema ukumenza azizwe eshesha, futhi kuzoqinisekisa nokuthi ubukeka ethakazelisa futhi akunikeza isikhathi sokuphumula.
Uma ufuna ukushayela iphuzu elithile uye ekhaya nonkosikazi wakho othandekayo, ungazami ukumthumelela umyalezo ngokuba nezingxoxo ezingezona nezingane zakho noma izinja. Akunasidingo sokwenza sengathi akekho egumbini (okungukuthi, ukukhuluma nengane yakho ngokuthi ngabe ubengekho ngemuva kwesikhathi uma umama engathathanga isikhathi eside ukugqoka, njll.).
8. Funda phakathi kwemigqa
Lapho umkakho ethi, “Ngeke ngikuthukuthelele” lokho kungamanga akhe. Lapho ethi, “Awudingi ukungibuza ngaphambi kokuphuma nabangani bakho” lokho kungamanga akhe. Lapho ethi, “Ngifuna ungithembeke - ingabe lokhu kuyangifanela?” amanga akhe lawo. Iseluleko sami esihlekisayo somshado somkhwenyana ukufunda phakathi kwemigqa futhi umgcine ejabule ngangokunokwenzeka!
Njengoba uSocrates asho, “Ngandlela zonke, shada. Uma uthola unkosikazi okahle, uzojabula; uma uthola okubi, uzoba isazi sefilosofi. ”