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- Izinto ziyashintsha kubantu abashadile lapho kuzalwa ingane
- Ukuthatha isikhathi somunye nomunye
- Gcina ezothando ziphila
- Jabulela ukusondelana
- Amaholide amancane ngezikhathi ezithile
- Jabulela impilo enenhlalo
- Bukela ama-movie amaningi
- Nakekelana
- Ukuchitha isikhathi nobulili obufanayo
- Ungasoli
- Sengikushilo konke lokho
Umshado umayelana nokuqala umndeni futhi lokho kufaka nezingane. Akunakuphikwa ukuthi wonke umbhangqwana oshadile uhlela izingane emqondweni wazo ongazi lutho kuyo yonke indlela.
Abantu bayahlangana, bayathandana futhi bayashada. Imbalwa iminyaka yokuqala evamise ukuba yisikhathi somlingo kunabo bonke abashadile. Banemithwalo yemfanelo embalwa, isikhathi esiningi esikhululekile futhi abanasidingo sanoma iluphi uhlobo lokuyala. Indoda nowesifazane bahlala wedwa kuphela baze babe ngabazali.
Izinto ziyashintsha kubantu abashadile lapho kuzalwa ingane
Umama udinga ukunikela ngesikhathi sakhe esiningi namandla ekunakekeleni izingane.
Kumele achithe usuku lwakhe njengenqubo kanye nezidingo zengane. Ukuvuka nokulala nengane, ukondla ingane, ukunakekela inhlanzeko nokunye okuningi. Uhlu luyaqhubeka. Ngezindleko ezengeziwe, izibopho zezezimali nazo ziba zimbi ngokwengeziwe.
Bobabili indoda nomfazi kufanele basebenze kuzo zonke izingxenye ngokuzinikela okuphelele ukuze banikeze ingane impilo ezinzile nenempilo.
Phakathi kwakho konke lokhu, kwesinye isikhathi, uthando, isasasa nothando phakathi kwabantu abashadile kuyaphela. Kungokwemvelo futhi akuvamile. Kunezizathu eziningi zokuthi kungani abantu abashadile abanezingane bengathola ibanga phakathi kwabo.
Ngabe ukhona umbhangqwana ofuna lokho kwenzeke? Vele akunjalo.
Ngakho-ke senzani ukuvuselela ilangabi futhi sibuyise imfudumalo ebudlelwaneni? Yebo, kunezindlela eziningi zokujabulela ukuthandana okungapheli ngisho nangemva kokuba nezingane uma sibeka izinto eziza kuqala kithi ngqo.
Ukuthatha isikhathi somunye nomunye
Ukuba nengane kungashintsha yonke into. Ikakhulukazi ukutholakala kwesikhathi. Kuzoba nesikhathi esincane kakhulu samahhala esitholakalayo, ikakhulukazi kumama. Kungumsebenzi wesikhathi esigcwele ukuba ngumama ngaphandle kwekhefu. Lokhu ngokuqinisekile kuzocabanga kabusha kombhangqwanaubuntombi.
Ukulwa nale nkinga, umbhangqwana oshadile ungahlela usuku noma isidlo sakusihlwa noma yini enye abangayenza ndawonye.
Kumele kuqhakanjiswe lapha kepha, ukuthi lo msebenzi, noma ngabe ungubani, kufanele uhlelwe ngaphandle kwengane. Ukuhlela kusengaphambili nokuhlelwa okufanele kwenza yonke into ibe bushelelezi futhi ingabi nankinga.
Ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi le nqubo igcinwa njalo, ukulungisa usuku noma izinsuku ezithile njalo ngenyanga kungasiza kakhulu. Vele ulinde ubusuku bosuku bese uzizwa umlingo futhi.
Gcina ezothando ziphila
Bonke abantu abashadile, kungakhathalekile ukuthi baphila impilo enjani ngemuva kweminyaka emihlanu kuya kweyisikhombisa yomshado wabo, bangavumelana ngento eyodwa. Ingxenye ejabulisa kakhulu emshadweni wabo kwakuyizithandani zokuqala zonyaka ngemuva komshado wabo. Kwakukhona uthando, ezothando, ukunakekelwa, ukusondelana futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke kwakungekho ukungaboni ngaso linye.
Izimbali, ukudla kwamakhandlela, izipho ngezikhathi ezithile futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi sekhwalithi ndawonye kusiza kakhulu ukugcina ukukhanya kukhanya. Manje kungani kufanele wephule isiko manje. Khumbula izinsuku zakho zemilingo bese uphinda izinto obuzithanda kakhulu. Ezothando kude.
Jabulela ukusondelana
Ukusondelana ngokomzimba kudlala indima enkulu empilweni yomshado ojabulisayo.
Jabulela inkampani yomunye nomunye ngangokunokwenzeka. Kuyasiza kakhulu ekuqiniseni ubudlelwane ekuhambeni okude.
Kuyasiza ukwakha ukuxhumana komlingo phakathi kwendoda nenkosikazi. Zizwe umlingo uphile ngokwesaba okuphelele. Zama izinto.
Amaholide amancane ngezikhathi ezithile
Ukuphumula komndeni kufanele.
Zama ukuhlela iholide okungenani kabili ngonyaka. Kuyasiza ukukhululeka futhi kunikeze ikhefu enkambisweni yansuku zonke. Amaholide angaba yisikhathi esihle kakhulu sokususa izingxabano zakho ezingaxazululiwe futhi.
Abantu abajabulayo nabakhululekile kulula ukusondela kubo nokukholisa. Ihamba ngazo zombili izindlela.
Jabulela impilo enenhlalo
Zulazula kakhulu kumbuthano womngane wakho. Okuningi okuhlanganisiwe. Abangane bangakunika amandla amaningi amahle. Ngiyazi ukuthi akuzwakali kahle ngokuphelele kepha ukushada, ukuba nengane nokucabanga ngekusasa lezezimali eliphephile, kungakhathaza kakhulu.
Abangane abajabulayo abaseduze kwakho bazokunika amandla okuqhubeka.
Bukela ama-movie amaningi
Kungase kungazwakali kuhle kangako kepha ukubuka ama-movie ndawonye kuyithuluzi eliwusizo kakhulu lokuqinisa ukujula kobudlelwano bakho.
Sihleli ebumnyameni, sibambene ngesandla, sijabulela imizwa enyakazisa ingaphakathi lakho amazinyo akho axega kakhulu. Kuyathokomala futhi kuyathinta. Kwenze ngangokunokwenzeka.
Nakekelana
Ukunakekelana kwenza konke kube ngcono. Kuyindlela efanele yokukhombisa ukuthi umlingani wakho ubaluleke kangakanani kuwe. Kusiza nje ngezikhathi ezithile ezintweni ezincane, ukukhuluma ngento engenalutho nokugcina ukubhekisisana ngempilo yomunye nomunye kubaluleke kakhulu.
Ukuncoma kufanele sishaye izandla zombili. Okusho ukuthi, impilo iletha izinselelo ezifanayo ngokulingana kubo bobabili abantu kunoma yibuphi ubudlelwane, okungenani eyodwa akufanele ithathe noma yini kalula.
Ukuchitha isikhathi nobulili obufanayo
Ukunikezana isikhala kuhle. Indlela engcono yokukwenza ukukhuthaza umlingani wakho ukuthi achithe isikhathi nabangane bobulili obufanayo.
Unkosikazi nezintombi zakhe nomyeni ngamasoka akhe. Lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho kunikeza umuzwa owanelisa kakhulu wokungalahlekelwa yimpilo yakho yamahhala neyakudala ngasikhathi sinye ujabulela impilo yomndeni entsha enenjabulo.
Ungasoli
Izinto zingonakala kabuhlungu ngezikhathi ezithile. Kuphethwe muntu.
Ngakho-ke, ake uthathe umzuzwana ucabange ngaphambi kokusho okuthile komunye nomunye okuzwakala njengecala. Kungenza izinto zibe nzima kancane.
Sengikushilo konke lokho
Kwesinye isikhathi sihlela into ehlukile bese sibhekana nenye into ngokuphelele.
Kwesinye isikhathi konke kuhamba ngendlela esihlela ngayo. Ungakwenza kanjani okuhle kuzo zonke izimo kuyindlela ephambili lapha. Uma usuthinte leyo chord ngamandla afanele, impilo izoba ngumculo.
Ubudlelwano budinga isikhathi nesineke, akunandaba ukuthi busha noma budala kangakanani. Banikeze isikhathi sokuphefumula futhi bazoba abacebile futhi babe nezocansi njengabamnandi kunabo bonke newayini elidala kunawo wonke elenziwe ngamagilebhisi amahle kakhulu e-Italy.