-Delile
- Uthando lungahle lufihlwe, kepha alusuki
- Ibhizinisi. Ibhizinisi. Ibhizinisi
- Izingane
- Umyeni wakho akasazizwa ehlonishwa
- Ucindezela umyeni wakho ezintweni
- Izingxabano ezingaxazululiwe
- Ngabe izingxabano ezingaxazululeki zihlukanisa nina nomyeni wakho?
- Yini elandelayo?
- Khulisa ukwaneliseka kwakhe ebudlelwaneni
Uyakhumbula ukuthi umyeni wakho wakugcina nini ukukuthinta?
Noma ngeledlule lapho enza khona konke ukuze akwenzele okuthile?
Ngabe uzwela ngezinto obekungafanele azinake ngokujwayelekile?
Uyajabula ukukubona kusihlwa, noma umyeni wakho akasenandaba nomshado wakho?
Uthando lungahle lufihlwe, kepha alusuki
Umshado wakho uchazwa ngokuxhumeka kwakho komunye nomunye. Ukuxhumana, ubulili, ukuxhumana nezikhathi enizichitha ndawonye: konke lokhu kukhona ukukhulisa isibopho sakho.
Uma sikhuluma ngabalingani bomphefumulo, sikhuluma ngokuxhumana phakathi kwezinhliziyo ezimbili.
Konke esikwenzayo ebudlelwaneni kuhloselwe ukukhulisa lokho kuxhumana.
Ngakho-ke, lapho uzwa ukuthi umyeni wakho ukude, akusho ukuthi umyeni wakho akasenandaba nobudlelwano.
Okungasho ukuthi, nokho, ukuthi izinto ezisebenza njengebhuloho phakathi kwale miphefumulo emibili sezenziwe zaba buthakathaka. Uma ubaqinisa, uzobona ukuthi uthando alukaze luye ndawo.
Ubudlelwano obuningi buhamba ngezigaba lapho indoda ingabonakali ixhunyiwe ebudlelwaneni njengoba ibinjalo phambilini. Kunezizathu eziningi zokuthi kungani umfutho wobudlelwano bakho kungenzeka ushintshile.
Ibhizinisi. Ibhizinisi. Ibhizinisi
Lapho uhlala kakhulu emshadweni, imithwalo yemfanelo okufanele uyihlanganyele kakhulu: Izingane, imali kanye nekhaya.
Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, imibhangqwana eminingi ithola ukuthi ukuxhumana kwabo kuncishisiwe kwaba uchungechunge lwezingxoxo zebhizinisi. Kwenye indawo ohambweni, ukhula uqhelelene futhi ube njengabalingani abazama ukuqhuba inkampani engumndeni wakho.
Uyakhohlwa ukuthi ungaba kanjani nobungane. Kuyisibalo esilula, empeleni. Izinga lobungani bakho nomyeni wakho linquma ikhwalithi yokusondelana kwakho.
Khumbula, uthando akuyona nje into abantu abangena futhi baphume kuyo lungaphezu kwamandla abo. Uthando luyisinqumo osenza nsuku zonke: ngokuhlonipha, ukwethembana, ukuzibophezela komunye nomunye futhi ekugcineni nibe nobungane obuhle.
Ngakho-ke, uma uzibuza ukuthi kungani umyeni wakho ebonakala ekude futhi ephazamisekile, hlola ubungane bakho. Akekho ongamziba umngane omuhle.
Ucwaningo kukhombisa ukuthi abesilisa abashadile baphila isikhathi eside kunabafana abangashadile. UDkt Oz uthi akuhlangene nakancane nenjabulo. Amadoda ashadile aphila isikhathi eside ngoba omkawo bayaqiniseka ukuthi bayabonana nodokotela.
Izingane
Izingane kufanele zikhulunywe ngokukhethekile. Zinomthelela omkhulu ebudlelwaneni bezithandani. Bobabili indoda nomfazi bayashintsha ngemuva kokuthola umntwana, ngakho-ke ubudlelwano buyashintsha.
Indoda izwa ingcindezi yokuba ngubaba, ngenkathi umfazi edlula kokuningi, ngokwenyama nangokomzwelo.
Inkinga ingena ngoba omama banendawo yokugcina engenasisekelo yokunikela ngezingane zabo. Umama uzoqhubeka nokunikeza ingane yakhe amandla angaphezu kwamandla.
Izinkinga ziqala ukwenzeka lapho indoda iqala ukuzibuza ukuthi kungani unkosikazi engakwazi ukudlula ngaphesheya kwezidingo zakhe. Futhi, kwesinye isikhathi indoda iyazabalaza ukuthola indawo yayo emndenini wayo ngemuva kokuzalwa kwezingane.
Njengonkosikazi, kufanele uzimisele ukusebenzisana nomyeni wakho ukuthola amasistimu wokusekelwa akusize ukuvala indima kamama wakho njalo ngesikhashana ukuze ube nesikhathi sakho nomyeni wakho, ngaphandle kwezingane.
Umyeni wakho akasazizwa ehlonishwa
Umshado ufana nakho konke okunye. Ngemuva kwesasasa lokuqala, singena emikhubeni ekhuluma ngathi uqobo. Kufana nomsebenzi omusha: ekuqaleni uyajabula futhi uqhubeke ngokuqhubeka nokuba nenhlanhla kangakanani ukuthola umsebenzi omuhle kangaka. Kodwa-ke ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ungene ezimweni zengqondo ezingezinhle ezinciphisa ubumnandi obenabo kuqala, bese ukusebenza kwakho kuhlupheka.
Inoveli ivusa isithakazelo. Uma noma yini seyijwayelekile, kufanele usebenze kanzima ukuyisekela.
Ngesikhathi uqala ukushada, umenze wazizwa kanjani umyeni wakho? Ngabe usamoyizela, uyamncoma, uyamthokozela futhi uyakujabulela ukuba khona kwakhe? Kwenzekani ngezinkulumo zothando? Noma ingabe bathathelwe indawo ukukhononda kanye nama-jabs amancane?
Abesifazane baqeqeshelwe ukubhekelela inhlalakahle yawo wonke umuntu emndenini. Ngenxa yalokhu, bangaba yizikhulu, njalo bakhombe lapho izinto zingahambi kahle khona. Ngaleso sikhathi, amadoda amaningi asale ezizwa engathandwa, engahlonishwa futhi enganakiwe. Indoda ezwa ukuthi isinconywe ngumkayo ayisakwazi ukugcina ubuhlobo obufanayo eyayinabo nayo.
Ucindezela umyeni wakho ezintweni
Ngezikhathi ezithile, inkosikazi kungadingeka ukuthi inikeze indoda ithuba lokuya phambili. Lokhu kuhle ngoba kusiza amadoda ukuthi adlulele ngale kwezindawo zokududuza. Kodwa-ke, umyeni wakho ngeke akujabulele uma wenza lokhu njalo. Akekho ofuna ukuxhashazwa enze izinto angazifuni noma azithande ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Awukwazi ukuba njalo onombono, futhi akufanele uthinte umyeni wakho ngesando ukuze alingane nesikhunta sakho. Ubudlelwano obunempilo busekelwa ngenhlonipho nangokuqonda.
Ngisho nangaphandle kobushiqela bakho, umyeni wakho usevele unengcindezi enkulu yokondla umndeni, ukuthenga indlu, ukufundisa izingane, nokunikeza ukuphepha ngokwezezimali ..... Uma uhambisana nokulawula kwakho, uzokuqeda konke ukusondelana phakathi kwalaba bobabili kwakho.
Izingxabano ezingaxazululiwe
Abantu abaningi abanamakhono ayisisekelo okusingatha imizwa. Lapho abangane babo bomshado bedumele noma bethukuthele, abazi ukuthi bangafinyelela kanjani kubo. Ngenxa yalokhu, umbhangqwana uzoqhubeka nokuhlangabezana nezimpikiswano ezingayi ndawo.
Ngenxa yalokho, izimpikiswano azikaze zilungiswe futhi ukuvumelana akukaze kwakhiwe. Izimvilophu ezinganaki futhi abashadile bayakhungatheka futhi bacasuke. Intukuthelo ekugcineni izala ukwedelelwa; okungaklinya impilo ebudlelwaneni bakho.
Ngabe izingxabano ezingaxazululeki zihlukanisa nina nomyeni wakho?
Yiba ngowokuqala emshadweni wakho esikhundleni senzondo ngozwela. Kungani wena? Ngoba njengowesifazane, 'uyinhliziyo' yomshado wakho. Ngaleyo ndlela unesibopho esikhulu emnyangweni wobudlelwano bomshado wakho.
Abesifazane baxhumeke kakhulu ezinhliziyweni zabo. Banekhono lemvelo lothando. Abesifazane, ngakho-ke, banamathuluzi afanele okwakha ukusondelana emshadweni wabo.
Yini elandelayo?
Sesivele sikutholile ukuthi umyeni wakho usakuthanda futhi akalahli intshisekelo ebudlelwaneni bakho. Kodwa-ke, kunezinto okufanele uzenze ukugcina ukuxhumana okusondelene nomyeni wakho kugeleza, ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Khulisa ukwaneliseka kwakhe ebudlelwaneni
Amahla-ndla okuba sebudlelwaneni nawe kumele adlule ukwehla komyeni wakho.
Uma nje ibhalansi ivuma, umyeni wakho uzoqhubeka nokutshala imali emshadweni. Lolu uhlobo lokuhlaziywa kobungozi.