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- Ubudlelwano be-INTJ okusho
- Kubalulekile ukwazi lapho uthandana ne-INTJ
- Ulimi lwabo lothando?
- Ama-INTJ adinga isikhathi esiningi sodwa, ngaphandle kweziphazamiso
- Ama-INTJ agcina iningi lempilo yawo engokomzwelo emakhanda awo
- Ama-INTJ nokuhambisana kobudlelwano
- Nazi ezinye izinto eziyinqaba okufanele wazi lapho uthandana ne-INTJ
Iningi lethu lizwile ngokuhlolwa kwe-Myers-Briggs.
Lokhu kuhlolwa kokuzibika, ogama lakhe eligcwele i-Myers-Briggs Type Indicator, noma i-MBTI, inikeza abahloli bokuhlola ngombono wokwakheka kwabo kwengqondo.
Isetshenziswa ngabantu ngabanye nezinkampani ezifuna ukuqonda okukhulu ngalokho okugqugquzela abantu, imiphumela yesivivinyo iqhekeza abasebenzisi bangene kolunye lwezinhlobo zobuntu ezi-16 ezihlukile.
Lapho usulwazi uhlobo lobuntu bakho, lapho-ke ungafunda kabanzi mayelana nokuthi lolu hlobo luthintana kanjani nabanye kubudlelwano phakathi kwabantu, ukuthi babona kanjani umhlaba obazungezile, nokuthi yini eqondisa izindlela zabo zokwenza izinqumo.
Kubaqashi, lolu lwazi lusizo ukuqonda ukuthi ungaphatha kanjani kangcono futhi uvuselele zonke izinhlobo zabasebenzi. Kubantu abanelukuluku futhi abakujabulele ukuzihlola, ukukwazi wena noma usizo lohlobo lomlingani wakho ekuqondeni kangcono ukuthi sisebenzisana kanjani nokuthi kungani senza izinto ezithile ngezindlela ezithile.
Ngenkathi i-Myers-Briggs Type Indicator ingabonwa njengethuluzi lesayensi elinzima — alinawo amandla okubikezela futhi imiphumela ijwayelekile impela — njengenkanyezi, iyindlela emnandi yokuthola nokuhumusha idatha enganemba ngokumangazayo kwesinye isikhathi.
Imiphumela yokuhlolwa yehlukaniswe hhayi kuphela yizinhlobo eziyi-16 zobuntu, kepha izigaba ezine ezibanzi, ezaziwa ngokuthi ama-dichotomies, acacisa okulandelayo:
- I-degree ye-extraversion noma i-introduction
- Izinga lokuzwa nokuqonda
- Izinga lokucabanga nokuzizwa
- Izinga lokwahlulela nokubona
Ubudlelwano be-INTJ okusho
Wena noma umlingani wakho othandana naye uthathe isivivinyo se-Myers-Briggs futhi imiphumela ingene: INTJ. Sisho ukuthini lesi sifinyeto?
Iqanjwe ngegama elithi “Mastermind” uhlobo lomuntu, i-INTJ is Introverted, Intuitive, Thinking, and Judging.
Bangabacabangi abanamasu aqinile, abagqwesayo ekuhlaziyweni nasekucabangeni okujulile. Bathanda ukuhlela izinhlelo nokwenza izinto zisebenze kahle kakhulu. Izethulo zangempela, zingabonakala zingenamuntu futhi zingenandaba, futhi zinobunzima ezimweni zomphakathi. Ama-INTJ akha ama-2% kuphela wabantu. Ama-INTJs ngokuvamile angabesilisa kepha abesifazane nabo bamelwe ngaphakathi kwalolu hlobo lobuntu.
Ama-INTJ ebudlelwaneni nasekuthandaneni
Ama-INTJ alwela ukuthola umuntu ofanele wobudlelwano bezothando. Akuyena umuntu wakho ojwayelekile wohlobo lwe- "Tinder", ngaphandle kwezitende zobusuku obubodwa noma izindaba zesikhashana.
I-INTJ uhlobo lobuntu olungavamile futhi kungathatha isikhathi eside ukuvula ngokuphelele kumngane noma kumlingani. Kepha uma bekwenza, bathembeke ngendlela eyisimanga futhi bathembeke ngokuphelele futhi bathembekile. Akunakwenzeka ukuthi ama-INTJ aqambe amanga. Ukungathembeki akuyona nje ingxenye yobuntu babo. Ngaleyo ndlela, uma usebudlelwaneni ne-INTJ, ungahlala uthembela ukuthi abakukhulumayo kuwe kuyiqiniso.
Kubalulekile ukwazi lapho uthandana ne-INTJ
Bathembeke kakhulu futhi bazinikele kumlingani wabo.
Bayasekela futhi bakholelwa emaphusheni, emigomweni nasezifisweni zomlingani wabo futhi nabo balindele okufanayo. Ungahlala uthembele kuzo. Ngesikhathi sokudinga, futhi i-INTJ izolahla konke futhi ibe lapho ngawe.
Ulimi lwabo lothando?
Ukusiza umlingani wabo ukuthi afinyelele izinhloso zabo. Bangama-cheerleader wokugcina. Ngaleyo ndlela, ubudlelwane be-INTJ buhambisana kakhulu nempumelelo yomlingani wabo.
Ama-INTJ adinga isikhathi esiningi sodwa, ngaphandle kweziphazamiso
Ubudlelwano be-INTJ buhilela umzabalazo wesidingo sabo esingaxoxiswanga sokuba nesikhathi sokuphumula, sisodwa.
Lesi yisikhala sabo esingcwele, indawo abaya kuyo ukuvuselela amandla abo bese bethepha kuzinsizakusebenza zabo. Ngicela, akukho nkulumo encane noma ingxoxo ye-chit. Ama-INTJ adinga isikhathi sawo sodwa ukuhlela nokuhlela (izinto ezimbili abaziphumelelayo). Kumlingani odinga ukusakazwa njalo kwengxoxo, i-INTJ ukukhetha okungalungile.
Ama-INTJ agcina iningi lempilo yawo engokomzwelo emakhanda awo
Ubudlelwano be-INTJ bungagcwele izingxabano njengoba abalingani babo bengabacabanga ukuthi abanamizwa.
Lokhu akusho ukuthi bayimishini ezenzakalelayo.
Kusho nje ukuthi abahlanganyeli yonke imizwa yangaphakathi eyodwa nomlingani wabo wezothando. Kepha bayazizwa, ungakhathazeki! Azivezi nje njengezinye izinhlobo zobuntu.
Ama-INTJs, imizwa iyindaba eyimfihlo, hhayi ukuthi isakazwe emhlabeni wonkana.
Lolu akulona uhlobo lomuntu oluzokuphakamisa nge-screen enkulu eballpark.
Ama-INTJ nokuhambisana kobudlelwano
Ama-INTJ aqala ngamandla.
Ngaphambi kokuba bathandane nothile, sebazi okuningi ngaye nokuthi bayamthanda. Abathandani nanoma ngubani ongayifanele ingozi engokomzwelo.
Abathandi ukubukeka komzimba womlingani wabo kuphela, kepha nengqondo yabo ikhanga kakhulu kubo. Bazochitha isikhathi esiningi bekubuza ukuze wazi ukuthi kwenzekani ekhanda lakho.
Ama-INTJ ahlangana nomlingani oqonda isidingo sabo sokuthula, isikhathi sodwa. Engxoxweni nomlingani wabo, i-INTJ izobuza imibuzo eminingi, njengoba badinga ukuqoqa idatha yokuhlaziywa kamuva.
Uma bezwa ukuthi umlingani wabo ulimele noma uyahlupheka, bazokwenza konke okusemandleni ukuthola umthombo walokho kulimala futhi bakulungise.
Bakhetha izixazululo zokubanga.
Basebenza kahle nomlingani okwaziyo ukulungisa izingxabano.Abazithandi izingxabano ezivulekile futhi bazofuna indlela yokuthola ukuphela okuhle kwanoma yikuphi ukungavumelani. Uma ungumuntu othanda noma okhetha ukungasebenzeli ekwenzeni ukuyekethisa nomlingani wakho, i-INTJ ayisiye umlingani omuhle kuwe.
Nazi ezinye izinto eziyinqaba okufanele wazi lapho uthandana ne-INTJ
Bangakhungatheka ngolwazi oluningi kakhulu futhi bazizwe sengathi konke ukuhlela kwabo kuphuka. Lokhu kungadala ukulwa noma ukuphendula ngendiza.
Bangenza umlingani wabo azizwe ehlolisisiwe futhi ahlulelwe. Ngoba ama-INTJ asemodini yokuhlaziya engaguquguquki, lokhu kungenza usuku lwawo luzwakale sengathi lubonwa elabhorethri. Akekho ojabulela ukuphathwa njengesifundo esivivinywayo.
Ama-INTJ angahamba ngendlela eshesha kakhulu. Banqume ukuthi bayakuthanda futhi sebevele bahlela indlela yakho yesikhathi esizayo yokubambisana kungekudala.