-Delile
- Ubuqotho
- Ukuzimela
- Ubuqotho ebuhlotsheni
- Ukubaluleka kobuqotho ebudlelwaneni
- Ukwenza okulungile
- 1. Zigxile esisekelweni sokuziphatha
- Yiba nethemba
- 3. Ungakuhlukanisi ngokwempilo impilo yakho
- 4. Ungazideli
- 5. Zungeze ngokusekelwa
- 6. Yabelana ngakho konke nomlingani wakho
- Ukuntuleka kobuqotho ebudlelwaneni
Sifundisa abantu ukuthi basiphathe kanjani ngokwamukela noma ukwenqaba izindlela ezithile zokuziphatha nangokukhombisa indlela esiziphatha ngayo.
Lolu uhlobo oluthile lokuziphatha esifuna abantu basithathele lona. Ngendlela efanayo, abanye abantu banezimilo zabo abazilindele kithina.
Ubuqotho
Ubuqotho ngokuyisisekelo busho ikhwalithi yokwethembeka nokuba nezimiso zokuziphatha eziqinile noma ukuba neqiniso kokuziphatha.
Ngokokuziphatha, ubuqotho buthathwa njengokuthembeka nokuba neqiniso noma ukunemba kwezenzo zakho.
Ukuzimela
Ukuzethemba kungachazwa ngokuthi usebenzisa kangakanani izimiso zokuziphatha kuwe. "Okusekusemuva kwethu nalokho okungaphambi kwethu yizinto ezincane uma kuqhathaniswa nalokho okuphakathi kwethu". Kungachazwa futhi njengenhlonipho nothando ozinika lona.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi uzihloniphe wena kuqala uma ufisa ukuthi abanye bakunikeze inhlonipho.
Zithande futhi ugweme ukucabanga okubi ngawe futhi uzikhuthaze futhi uzithande kuzo zonke izimo.
Uma wenza kanjalo, kusho ukuthi uyazihlonipha futhi uthembekile kuwe.
Ubuqotho ebuhlotsheni
Njengoba ubuqotho buyimfanelo yomuntu siqu yokungenzeleli, ngokungangabazeki, ibuthinta ubudlelwano babantu. Kubandakanya zonke izinhlobo zobudlelwano kufaka phakathi ezothando noma ubungane noma nasempilweni yobungcweti.
Ubuqotho ebudlelwanenikusho ukwenza izinto ezifanele ngesikhathi esifanele. Konke kumayelana nokwethembeka komunye nomunye (abantu).
Hhayi lokhu kuphela, luhambo lwezigaba ezahlukahlukene okufanele udlule kuzo njengobungane, ukuba mnene komunye nomunye, ukwamukela ithonya elivela komunye nomunye nokuthanda bobabili nokuncoma. Lezi zigaba ziholela ebudlelwaneni obungapheli futhi obuzinzile.
Ukubaluleka kobuqotho ebudlelwaneni
Ubuqotho empeleni yisimiso esibaluleke kakhulu sobuholi ngoba sidinga ukwethembeka nokuba neqiniso.
Ubuqotho busho ukukhuluma iqiniso noma ngabe ucabanga ukuthi kuzokulimaza.
Kubudlelwano bobuchwepheshe, bunokubaluleka okufanayo. Indoda eqotho imele izindinganiso zayo futhi ikhuluma ngokungahambisani nokuziphatha ngendlela engafanele. Ngakho-ke abantu babethemba kakhulu abanjalo.
Ukwenza okulungile
Ubuqotho ebudlelwaneni budinga ukwethembeka, ukwethembeka, inhlonipho, neqiniso. Ngakho-ke, ukuze uhlale isikhathi eside ebudlelwaneni, umuntu kufanele abe nokuziphatha okuhlangene. Yenza okulungile ngesikhathi esifanele. Landela umuzwa wakho.
Nazi ezinye izindlela zokuba yindoda eqotho:
1. Zigxile esisekelweni sokuziphatha
Qiniseka ngokuziphatha. Kufanele ufunde ukuhlonipha abanye abantu, ikakhulukazi abesifazane. Thembeka futhi ube neqiniso ukuze ubonakale uthembekile kwabanye abantu.
Yiba nethemba
Yiba ocabangayo ovumayo. Layisha ukwazi kwakho ngendlela efanele. Yekani ukuluma emuva noma ukuhleba ngabanye abantu noma ngamahlazo. Yenza amagama akhayo abe yingxenye yenkulumo yakho.
Ungalokothi usebenzise amagama okwehlisela wena noma okunye, kunalokho sebenzisa amagama akhuthazayo futhi uzikhuthaze wena nabanye ukubenza bazizwe benokuzethemba futhi bejabule.
3. Ungakuhlukanisi ngokwempilo impilo yakho
Yiba ungubani. Yiba ophelele ngendlela ocabanga ukuthi ungaba ngayo. Yiba indoda eqotho ngendlela yakho futhi uhlale unjalo. Awudingi ukwenza ngokuhlukile ezindaweni ezahlukahlukene.
4. Ungazideli
Sebenza ngokuzidela. Thanda ngokuzidela. Phatha abanye ngendlela efanayo ofuna abanye abantu bakuphathe ngayo. Yiba nomusa nenhliziyo ethambile. Lokhu kungukhiye obalulekile wendlela yobuqotho.
5. Zungeze ngokusekelwa
Njengoba isaga sithi; "Indoda yaziwa yinkampani ayigcinayo". Lesi saga sitshela ukuthi inkampani yomuntu wesilisa iyamthinta kakhulu.
Ngakho-ke, ukuze ube yindoda eqotho, kufanele ukhethe inkampani ekusekelayo kuyo yonke imizabalazo. Thola ugqozi kubangani nomndeni.
6. Yabelana ngakho konke nomlingani wakho
Empilweni yakho yasemshadweni, ithiphu ithi- ungafihli lutho noma ugcine izimfihlo koshade naye. Kuvame ukuba nomthelela kulokho oyikho.
Yabelana ngakho konke nakho nomkakho noma oshade naye. Lokhu kuzokwakha indawo ethembekile phakathi kwenu nobabili.
Thandanani futhi nikhuthazane. Yiba nenhlonipho futhi uthembeke.
Ukuntuleka kobuqotho ebudlelwaneni
Ubudlelwano obuningi buyahluleka ngenxa yokuntuleka kobuqotho. Ukuntuleka kobuqotho kumane nje kusho ukungathembeki noma ukungaziphathi kahle. Kusho futhi ukwehlisa isithunzi noma ukususa amandla okukhuthaza umuntu othile. Abantu abangenakho ukwethembeka:
- Ungayekethisi
- Khombisa ukungathembeki
- Khombisa ukungaziphathi kahle nabanye
- Gcina izimfihlo
- Kunomehluko phakathi kwalokho abakushoyo nabakwenzayo
Uma uthola la maphutha ebudlelwaneni bakho, kufanele uqonde ukuthi kunokuntuleka kobuqotho ebudlelwaneni bakho. Zama ukubuyisa lobo budlelwano noma umane uhlehle kancane kancane.