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- Ukugubha usuku lwezithandani nomndeni ongasebenzi kahle
- Akekho ngamabomu owenza i-V -Day ibe lousy day
- Yeka ukuguqula ukusabela kwabantu abaseduze kwakho
- Mane nje uzihlukanise nobuhlanya
Usuku lukaValentine akulona olwabathandi abasondelene kuphela, kodwa futhi kuyithuba lokuthi imindeni ibungaze uthando phakathi kwayo.
Kepha kuthiwani uma ububandakanyekile, noma ubusemndenini ongasebenzi kahle?
Yini ongayenza, ukunciphisa ukwenziwa kobuhlanya ngosuku olubalulekile njengalolu kanti futhi unakekela ukungasebenzi komndeni?
Eminyakeni engama-30 edlule, umbhali, umeluleki ophinde abe ngumpetha wokuqala ku-Life Coach uDavid Essel ubelokhu esiza imindeni ukuthi ifunde ukwelapha, ukubhekana nokungasebenzi kahle kwemindeni, ikakhulukazi ngosuku lwe-Valentine's Day.
Ngezansi, uDavid unikeza imicabango yakhe yokuthi angawagubha kanjani amaholide nomndeni ongasebenzi kahle.
Ukugubha usuku lwezithandani nomndeni ongasebenzi kahle
“Eminyakeni embalwa eyedlule, owesifazane oneminyaka engama-25 ubudala wasayinela ukwenza imihlangano yokwelulekwa nami ngeSkype, ngaphambi nje kosuku lukaValentine ngoba wayengafuni ukubona impinda yalokho okwenzeka eminyakeni eminingana edlule.
Ngenkathi eqala indaba yakhe yokungasebenzi kahle komndeni, amehlo akhe agcwala amehlo lapho ethi “David, selokhu ngiseyintombazanyana engangikufuna kakhulu ukuthi abazali bami bazwane ngoSuku Lwezithandani, futhi engikubonayo nje izingxabano, izingxabano, phakathi bona kanye nawo wonke umndeni wethu. "
Lapho sisebenza ngokubambisana kakhulu waqala ukubona ukuthi uneqhaza ekungasebenzi kahle komndeni.
Ngoba wayefuna ukuthi usuku lukaValentine lube olukhetheke kangaka, waqhubeka nokuhlukumeza abazali bakhe, ngokubakhumbuza ukuthi esikhathini esidlule i-Valentine's Day ibigcwele kanjani izinxushunxushu nemidlalo.
Ingabe usesimweni esinjengalesi? Akukhathalekile ukuthi uneminyaka engu-15 noma u-90, uma uvela emndenini ongasebenzi kahle kungaba nzima kakhulu ngamaholide athile ukuzizwa uxhumekile futhi unokuthula.
Futhi, bukela le vidiyo ngezici ezivamile zomndeni ongasebenzi kahle.
Nazi izinto ezimbalwa ongacabanga ngazo, ngesikhathi sosuku luka-Valentine uma uvela emndenini wokwenza ubuhlanya.
Ungayibamba kanjani i-Valentine's Day nokungasebenzi kahle komndeni
Akekho ngamabomu owenza i-V -Day ibe lousy day
Qonda ukuthi izinxushunxushu nedrama eqhamuka emndenini wakho kungenzeka ihanjiselwe izizukulwane ngezizukulwane. Ukungasebenzi kahle komndeni akwenzeki ngokushesha nangaphandle kokukhetha.
Kuyaqabukela ukuthi amalungu omndeni avuke ngamabomu ngoSuku lweValentine bese ethi, masikwenze lolu suku lube lousy.
Kepha kunalokho, uma sikhulele endaweni lapho amaholide athile enganakwa, noma uma eza nomthwalo osuka esikhathini esidlule sesiphithiphithi nomdlalo, kunephethini ebekwe emqondweni ongazi lutho ocishe ufane nokuphendula okuguqayo, hhayi isinqumo sokuphaphama sokwenza usuku lukaValentine lube usuku olwesabekayo, kepha kunalokho nje kuyinto ehleli kumqondo onganakile esiyiphindaphindile kusukela siseyizingane sikhula.
Yeka ukuguqula ukusabela kwabantu abaseduze kwakho
Encwadini yethu entsha ethengisa kakhulu, "Izimfihlo zothando nobudlelwano ... Lokho wonke umuntu adinga ukukwazi!", Singena emininingwaneni enkulu mayelana nokusebenzisa ithuluzi elibizwa ngokuthi ukukhishwa, lapho ufuna ukushintsha ukusabela kwabantu abaseduze kwakho okujwayele ukwenzeka kugcwele izinxushunxushu.
Ukuyekiswa ekuhlanganyeleni kumane kunquma lokho uzozinikela okwamanje, unganikeli umbono wakho, unganiki izeluleko zakho, kepha kunalokho phefumula kakhulu bese uvumela usuku ukuba luvele njengoba luzokwenza.
Ngenkathi ngabelana ngaleli phuzu lami lokugcina nekhasimende lami, wavuka khona manjalo!
“David, ngiyabona ukuthi minyaka yonke uma ngiqala ukukhononda ngaphambi kosuku lukaValentine, ngicela umndeni wami ukuthi wenze lolu suku lube ngolwehlukile kunosuku lukaValentine esikhathini esedlule, kungenzeka ukuthi ngengeza izinxushunxushu nomdlalo!
Ngizomane ngikuyeke konke, bese ngibheka ukuthi kuzokwenzekani uma ngingakwazi ukukwenza ngendlela ehlukile kulo nyaka mhlawumbe ngizoba nomphumela ohlukile. ”
Futhi okwenzekile kumthuse kakhulu.
Esikhundleni sokukhuluma njalo izinsuku eziyisikhombisa ngaphambi kosuku lukaValentine mayelana nokuthi lo nyaka uzoba kanjani unyaka ongcono, ohlukile, uvele wagcina imicabango yakhe kuye, kodwa waqala ukubeka izithombe zasendlini zezinhliziyo, ngisho nencazelo yakhe uqobo yalokho okushiwo iValentine's Usuku lusho kuye.
Futhi kwasebenza.
Ngokuziyeka kwakhe, nangokungalethi amaphethini amabi okwenzeke esikhathini esedlule, uSuku lukaValentine kwaba yinto ezolile kuye nakuwo wonke umuntu emndenini wakhe.
Ubhuti osekhulile waze wamtshela nokuthi bekuwusuku lokuqala lwezithandani eminyakeni lapho engazange adale izinxushunxushu nomdlalo ngokukhononda ngezinto ezedlule nsuku zonke ngaphambi kweholide.
Futhi kulo nyaka?
Usanda kungitshela ukuthi uzoqhubeka nokwenza into efanayo naleyo ayenza ngonyaka odlule.
Ukuyeka, ukuyeka, ukuyeka ukuletha ukungasebenzi komndeni nokwesaba okubi kakhulu.
Uma ungavumelani nesithandwa sakho, noma umndeni, noma abangane ngaleli holidi kulo nyaka, cabanga ukuyeka.
Mane nje uzihlukanise nobuhlanya
Uma ususuka kude nakho konke ukwenziwa kobuhlanya komndeni ongasebenzi kahle bheka ukuthi impilo ayibi manzi kancane kulolu “suku lothando” phambilini.
Umsebenzi kaDavid Essel uvunyiwe kakhulu ngabantu abanjengoWayne Dyer ongasekho, futhi usaziwayo uJenny Mccarthy uthi "UDavid Essel ungumholi omusha wenhlangano ecabangayo."
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Incwadi yakhe entsha ethengiswa kakhulu kunazo zonke, esanda kuphuma ngesikhathi se-Valentine's Day, ibizwa ngokuthi “Izimfihlo zothando nobudlelwano ... Lokho wonke umuntu adinga ukuzazi!”
Ngemininingwane engaphezulu ngakho konke okwenziwa nguDavid sicela uvakashele Www.davidessel.com